My name is Asher,
I am a male who dwells in Chicago and am 40 years of age. My career and personality is that of a researcher. I am pleased to see that this is a research oriented forum and I look forward to the combined experience of so many like minded souls and also look forward to offering benefit for the group.
In my daily life I am an introvert I call myself an ‘extroverted introvert’ because I do my best to make an effort to assert myself in social situations, however extroversion is very draining to me and I require solo time to recharge. I tend to be an observer, analytical and too much in my head (Thought or fantasy) I am rarely comfortable being spontaneous and I know pheromones can help with comfort and ease.
I am very sensitive and have felt most of my life that I have been especially sensitive to chemicals as well as other sensory stimuli that may be below the threshold that others perceive. I consciously detect natural hormones and this has been both a benefit as well as detriment as psychologically when I detect these signals and I am in the wrong setting a negative feedback loop starts and I feel the effects intensifying (aggression, inappropriate behavior and confusion) of course a positive feedback can occur although I am rarely in a setting to appreciate that.
I have been aware of pheromones for many years though never used them as I told myself it may be cheating or it may somehow lessen the effect of endogenous hormones. I am not a big dater or club go-er. I am generally loyal and interested in one female at a time. When I get involved and open up it is one on one or in a very small group where I do not feel my contribution will be watered down or diluted. I am also interested in boosting self confidence and creating a quantifiable positive feedback loop that seems required for me to have confidence.
I recently purchased pure instinct by jelique. I do not know what is in it, however I detect pheromone signature that I recognize as hormonal, though have no basis to determine identification. I suspect by it’s marketing and price however that this product falls short. I did try it at a party there was an effect though some of it may have been altered perception and confusion.
I worked in a place recently with many(Hundreds) of beautiful female employees. While this may seem like a fantasy, as a supervisor I became very sensitive to signals I perceived coming from them and it was frankly overwhelming for me. I can feel and smell my own as well as their hormones intensifying and the many gay males also begin paying attention to me also this overstimulation of hormones happens quite often and can be psychologically disconcerting. I am interested in something that will calm me and allow me to operate from a more detached state.
Currently I am attracted to a particular female her personality appears to be very much the same as mine, she is a researcher, analytical, introvert and observer. She recently got out of a bad relationship where she was blindsided with infidelity and cheating by a conniving jerk type. As someone whose strong points are loyalty trust, protector and mature provider, I am interested in intensifying these feelings. Being versed in body language I see signs that she is interested but she wants me to pursue more or make a move. Even though I see these signs my confidence is not there and I have been tainted by only dating strong females who approach me and make the first move. This woman is worth more! The sex is no problem that comes and is natural, the preceding is not so much for me and what I need help with. I also want help understanding why my own sex hormones seem so strong, yet the calming and confidence part is lacking.
Ok before I write a novel I will say I am very pleased that I found this forum before placing my first order as I was overwhelmed with choices.
Ash
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