Hi Tisha~
Yes I understand the conversion theory, because of my situation and past experiences I am not entirely convinced though of that theory. Anyways, I have quit using that particular womans product (ordered somewhere else btw) and only am using the products (other than cops and LP) from here, because I swear I do not have the affects of conversion, I am not exhausted and angry the next day and other people are not angry with me or avoiding me.
Thank you all for your support and advice. Also, I appreciate the understanding with the mix up. I really just want to help her as much as I can and I am glad for the knowledge base here as I would NEVER want to make her feel worse! This is why I asked first.
I am an extremely intelligent woman but by no means do I know everything I need OR WANT to know. I do have experience in her situation but not in how to avoid any of the nasties of what she’s in for. I only hoped something could help keep her feeling a bit above the norm, ya know?
Thanks to everyone again and I guess I’ll keep with my usual methods of inspiring cheer and comfort..>BEING ME 
! I’ll wait and afterwards, when she’s well again…maybe she’ll get some nice gifts to help her moods 
. She’ll deserve them for sure.
Much love to you all
~M~