Remember, people actually see you differently depending on the pheromones you wear. Their minds accentuate different characteristics of yours depending upon the “pheromonal feel” you’re putting out there.
Lots of anol will help you to be viewed in a brighter and “softer light”. If you tend to come across a serious, it can be a godsend.
If you’re flamboyant, and women commonly mistake you for gay (like a young Pauly Shore), then sure… high anol may not serve you.
I tend to wear darker colors, and I think a lot, so I naturally have lots of “thinking expressions”. Those make me look pretty serious.
Lots of alpha androstenol actually helps me out a good deal. It carries along with it a fun, “good time” vibe.
To me, because I have a heavy persona, it’s still somewhat sexual.
Sure, it’s not scary-sexual, like the folks like the folks who wear leather mask that want to flail you until you have a near death experience… but fun & light still has a sexual element to it.
Reframe it as “fun in bed”, and you’ll get what you mean.
You just don’t want to be too fun… Richard Simmons/Pauly Shore type fun is probably far along the “fun-o-meter” (right into flamboyancy) to really be attractive. When they “hookup”, it’s because of the social proof elements of their celebrity.