Seriously… the first time I used Instant Shine I literally saw brighter colors! 2 sprays and I got in the car & all of the sudden flowers were more vivid, lights were brighter, the world was shining back. I haven’t had that same reaction since but whenever I use Instant Shine I and others around me seem to giggle more & more easily. Kinda way cool.
Last wknd I played with my new to-go’s. I honestly can’t say how many sprays of each … I started with one of each, then as the night progressed I would spray one of one or another. (Alcohol conflicts with my memory…hehe.)
But I used Instant Shine, Instant Sexiness-A, and Come Talk To Me. I went out with a guy friend, one of his friends and my sister (naturally alpha…almost 6 ft tall, model’ish and owns it). But I felt like trying Sexy-A since I’m usually beta. It worked.
I felt more confident, I always kept eye contact, I took up more space, I was about to pay more attn than usual to body language. I have big boobs but usually don’t accentuate them…I did this night. And I wasn’t uncomfortable or nervous. They actually made others nervous…ha!
Ok so my guy friend is a flirt but likes to be in control. At one point (a couple of sexy-A’s, shines, and at least one come talk to me) he called me over to the bar where he was visiting with an old friend (alpha female…sweet but def alpha). They were sitting & I stood in btwn. them. She had her phone in her hand & immediately submitted and said, “I’m getting his number but its so not ‘that’ way…i promise! We go way back & I haven’t seen him in forever.” I said way more confidently than usual, “No worries…its not that way with us either” and his jaw dropped. Ha! Then she at one point said, Wow you have really big boobs and looked at me then looked down. I simply said, Yes, I do. Then I leaned over btwn them to get a napkin and he planted the biggest kiss on my cheek! He is not a touchy feely friend.
His friend who I have met a few times is pretty quiet normally and while I am not dismissing that he was drinking, I noticed he was quite chatty with me.
Later that evening that same chick I met at the bar was back. She’d met my sis at another point in the evening on her own. It wasn’t as positive a meeting. It was obvious there was an alpha battle btwn them. The girl would submit every time she talked to me (Girl: you are beautiful! Me: Awe, thanks. So are you. Girl: You think so? I’m so insecure! She was hugging me & hanging on me a lot too.) Then she would put her hand in my sister’s face…talk to the hand type thing. Was bizarre! Oh and self effect: I would normally try to ‘keep the peace’ but i just sat back & observed. I know my sis can handle herself and I really wasn’t feeling the urge at all to make everyone happy like I usually am.
The next day I went to lunch with the same guy friend. I wore MX 300, Sexy-B, Shine and Instant Honesty. I wasn’t sure how the 300 (which I’ve heard is more alpha) mixed with sexy-B would mesh but it was great. The sarcastic banter at lunch was insane and hilarious. And at one point he heard a child say Daddy in the booth behind us. (He had mega baby fever). So the subject went to kids. I joked he will be a wuss if he has a girl…she’ll wrap him around her lil finger no problem. He agreed then he started having a hypothetical convo with his “little girl” who was at the end of the table. So he would look “at her” and say things like, No you can’t have that candy. Ok but don’t tell your mommy." Then he said, “You want what? Ok go ask your Mommy” and he pointed at me! (So I negged him & said, Note to self: don’t have a lil girl with him. Hehehe)
Lastly, he confessed something that he never would have otherwise, I am pretty dang sure. He doesn’t lie but he is very private and cautious about what he shares. This ‘confession’ was unlike him. Thanks, Instant Honesty.
Yesterday I mixed a half a drop of A314 (I’m female but it really works well on me), Sexy-A, Come Talk To Me, and Shine. Went out with friends & my sister. We went to a busy restaurant for dinner. I could not believe what happened. Twice I walked through the crowd at the bar and people moved out of my way! I never once had to say excuse me and I never got bumped…something that Always happens to me.
Then we went to a local bar. Same thing! And even when it was way crowded, people would get out of my way. I was just walking a normal pace…I guess I just naturally took up more space than usual (typically very submissive and apologetic). I also could read body language more easily (I give that credit to A314…its like it opens my eyes. I usually pay more attn to verbal than non-verbal language). I also noticed more eye contact, I never broke it, and instant smiles more than usual.
I know that was long…thanks for reading. There’s more but those were the main ones. I’m getting P83 this week. Can’t wait to try that.
Happy mone’ing! ![]()
Pheebs