Call me superficial but there are many woman whom others call ‘pretty with a great personality’ and I find them to be just below desirable. I tend to not go on many dates because of this… that my true feelings are are detected by my target interferes with the so-called courtship behavior.
Should I consider asking her to try a spray or two of IS/A or IS/B or some other putative and let her know that “I really like this perfume”?
It could back fire on you if she starts to get hits from others and notices it…
No, there has to be some sort of attraction to begin with. Pheromones only enhance what you already have so if you find a person undesirable to you then its not gonna make a difference.
I would say to do some soul searching. Figure out why these people seem undesirable to you. Because what ever those qualities are that are making you feel this way they are still going to have those qualities with or without pheromones.
Many men and women do not have a realistic view of the opposite sex. The media portrays people as perfect in looks and personality. That is really just a illusion. Living close to the city in CT I see a lot of actors and models. Those people that are always portrayed as perfect and desirable when you see them on TV or in magizines. In person they are less then desirable. Most the time your like holy shit what the hell happened to them. So make sure your view is realistic.
I notice your 46 and I am not sure what your target girl range is but if its younger then 36 then that is not realistic. Men tend to go for the younger women but women generally are attracted to men within 10 years of there age. You may be thinking well I am not attracted to women in my age group. Well remember while they were aging so were you.
Pheromones do not change the way you think or feel. They only make you react to what your thinking and feeling.
Tisha
I always find that women tend to get much more attractive the better their personality. As in, they become more physically attractive once I get to know them, and if I like their personality… Maybe I’m just odd. 
One thing I like to do is get to know a girl better, because looks only go so far. I’ve know girls that had pretty faces but their personalities made them look hideous to me. On the flipside, there are girls that at first appear average but once I got to know them they started looking more and more attractive, even dateable.
I’d rather have a girl that was a 7 who had a great personality and was great to be around than some prissy do nothing who only cares about her looks and has absolutley ZERO brainpower.
Of course, if it’s a one night stand then I’ll go with the pretty girl.
It’s totally weird for me too. Like when I’d first meet them, I’d think they’re plain. But then out of nowhere - a month down the line bam. And then you can’t unsee it 
ONS - I’d probably go for the 7 with a good personality, than the boring/internally hideous 8.
I have to disagree, respectfully, with Tisha. I would highly recommend that you let your potential female friends try Instant Sexiness-B. It will help them feel more feminine and compliant and you will find them more attractive both as an impression and from their behavior.
No woman is more beautiful than when she is having an orgasm under you. I’ve seen it time and time again.
BTW, Instant Sexiness-A might be better for the overly shy since is more a confidence builder but I prefer the B-version since it is more yin/yang.
I think your situation is a bit different. He doesn’t find these women attractive or desirable to begin with. The pheromones are not going to change that and neither is a orgasm
Tisha
All insights are appreciated. I think Tisha is right that I need to reassess my value system. K-train and Leafstamp suggested that I not overlook the personality and that after a certain time I could be swept away by the personality. And Whithall, a mirror for where I want to be hits it on the head—IS/B will be tried for the next first date.
I mean Ive been married twice and 80% was looks and 20% was personality. I need to get over the looks thing and see a beautiful person for who she is. If a pheromone can help me jump that barrier why not?
Sorry to be so incredibly crude, but before your next date, try and rub one out. Sex will not be so important anymore - and that could have you concentrating more on personality, since looks won’t be so important.
This is the men’s section, afterall 
I will state that I am not a “lookist.” Certainly good health is the foundation of the visual attractiveness but personality, sex drive, and heart are ever more important to me in a lover.
That’s my point, The women using pheromones didn’t create your attitude about them. From reading your posts over the years you have always had a great outlook on women, attractiveness and sexuality. So for you women partners using pheromones has enhanced that experience for you and made it richer but it has not created that experience.
But corey is hoping it will get him past the initial way he feels about them.
Pheromones wont do that. If they could help men get past the visual barrier it would be great but thoughts from the visual sense are conscious and pheromones work on the subconscious. They make you feel not think. If you find a women less then attractive you will still see her that way if she wears pheromones. The most the pheromones can do is make you feel aroused despite that. Its not going to hurt anything if she wears them but if your interested in finding a relationship that barrier will be there unless you use other methods to change your thinking as well. She cant wear pheromones forever.
If your looking for one nighters with no other connections it may work but they may find it rather odd when you hand them a bottle and ask them to spray it on before sex.
Tisha
It’s right above “You’d look much sexier with a paper bag over your head”, and right below “You smell just like my mother… mmmmmmmmmmmmmm” on the list of things you don’t want to hear before you jump into bed with someone.
Tisha,
I’m not much of a lookist, but I am definitely a “smellist.” I find little lust in my loins for the post-menopausal woman no matter how good she looks. The para-menopausal increase greatly in attractiveness with the right pheromones. That’s why I’ve experimented with some success with couplins but Instant Sexiness-B is also a useful aid in increase the sexual attractiveness of a woman in her 40s and early 50s. Even the lady will notice the self-effects from both.
Leaf Stamp,
Like they say, you ain’t got game if you can’t entice a woman to try a spray or two of a perfume sample. Even I can’t succeed every time!
But if you’re so good that you can get a woman to wear a paper bag over her head during sex, trying an exotic, experimental scent should be no problem.
As to the bag, most women understand a request to turn out the lights.
A quick suggestion,
Why not give your pillow a couple of spays and then cover it with a male scent so she doesn’t think, “hmmm, you’ve just had someone in here. I can smell her perfume”.
This could work in the aspect that you now have her naked, the lights are out, she will hopefully have stopped talking about her shopping expedition and arousal is most likely at its highest…
I remember reading some of the guys do this with TUTH before the girl is taken back to the cave.
What color bag would be best?
The closest match to her skin tone is usually the best bet.