I read that TuTH, IH, and AMMO are good for bar/clubbing. The thing is, I’m 21, and still haven’t gotten laid. I’m normally a quiet shy person, and I rarely go out to bars/clubs. I always have the problem of when I meet a chick I talk about casual stuff like (what did you do today / What have you been upto). However once I’m back at home I have a barrage of shit I could have talked about to make her laugh and flirt, but… it’s too late :C. It’s like my brain goes into blaa mode when I see a cute chick, I can still chat with them but nothing witty comes out.
So pretty much my problems:
Keeping a conversation going that is enjoyable and gripping.
Reading body language and takeing the initiative when I know they want me.
Be more outgoing and carefree (Ex: I have to get quite drunk before I’ll start randomly dancing on a dance floor, and even then I have to have a mental battle to convince myself that it’s ok to let loose.)
Was what I bought a good combo? Testing tomorrow, going to the bar >.<
Okay while I wait for the other more experianced people to chime in I’ll give my 2 cents.
Everyone has that problem, you know what you could have said but you didn’t, don’t let it get to you.
You just have to be confident act like you could be doing others thing but you are taking the time out of your day and giving her the chance to get to know you. Girls want someone that is to good for them, or at least acts like it, I’m not saying go and be a dick. Just be confident and remember the worst that can happen is she can say no.
All you gotta do is go up introduce yourself get a good chit chat going invite her over to where ever your friends are. When you get over there introduce her to them act like she isn’t anything special. Converse with all of them for awhile, let her get comfortable. At the end of the night tell her you had a good time with her and you all should do it again sometime. Hand her your phone, don’t ask for the number demand it kind of thing.
go home get a good nights rest wait at least 1 day and text her and invite her to something fun a couple days later not the next day. Say you talk to her Tuesday make the date Friday. Give her time to get ready for it, less pressure. Then when the day comes just be yourself have a good time and wear some Ammo and IH and just remember the worst that can happen is a girl you hardly know could possibly not like you like that.
Thanks dude I’ll definitely make sure to give that a shot next time I’m out. You gave me some good ideas, and now I can’t wait to be able to test them out! Sadly have to wait till next Thursday most likely…
The main problem people have with girls is they think to much about it. Just make it natural like your talking to a friend or something. Like you said people can read body language and girls pay a lot better attention than guys. Just act natural and be confident. Practice makes perfect. So the more often you interact the better you will become at it.
Oh sorry I didn’t answer your question but Ammo is great and that IH will get that bond growing. The A314 I haven’t used myself but I hear its great for work and clubbing and everything between. I would hold off on the Tuth until you get in good with a girl and your ready to start turning her on. Believe me you are probably gonna want to be in a relationship to lose that V card cause no matter what you do it’s gonna be quick, so make it with someone you trust. I would say test them all out separately and get a good handle on them. I think the confidence boost from A314 or Ammo will do well for you.
Yeah, I often times get stuck in my head, saying a sentence over and over to make sure it’s not offensive -_- Finally when I feel that it’s good, the times already passed, and I’ve been standing there awkwardly for the last minute : /
I’ve already noticed with a mix of Ammo + IS + IO That barrier was down a little. I was more willing to just say what I had in my mind, and It was smoother coming out. I think that once I find my sweet spot for all the mones that barrier might be gone completely; I can only hope!
I also agree completely with the TuTH. I’d prefer to get into a relationship, it’s been way to long… I’m really hoping that changes soon ! I’m starting tomorrow with “Finding my sweet spot” with… something. I can’t decided between IH / IO / IS.
I wana get started with getting the girls looking, and wanting. Then move onto a314 have that conflict with what I was using before. They want me, but I’m out of their league. Then from there move to something that makes me open, so after they feel that I’m out of their league, they’re still gona try and get my attention. Or something like that :3
Got it! Gona do this:
IS : First to get their attention.
a314: Get em wanting but they can’t have.
IO: Make em feel like they can approach me.
Let me know whatcha think! Also Should I just see how one spray does all day? Or should I reapply after 4 hours? (Gona be on campus from 11am to 10pm)
You just gotta work on that, I mean say what pops into your mind especially if you are just meeting the girl. look at it this way you’d rather say something and strike a little cord in their mind than just stand there wondering if it’s appropriate kinda like druken blabber when I’m drinking, especially before I get drunk, My game steps way up. After I’m plastered if I drink that much haha is usually when I have already connected a little bit and the true feeling come out.
The combo does sound promising and you could sub A314 for Ammo sometimes. You just have to mix it up and see what works for you, I mean IS alone works wonders for me and gives me a confidence boost.
I like Ammo and IO together, they seem to just make me more fluid, in every aspect talking, flirting, and just doing things at the right time.
I got another trick for you if you have a good girl friend that you are into spray on your whatever mix and spark up the conversation get her laughing and let her hair get a little into her face this is were you make the magic happen with one finger and one fluid motion move her hair behind her ear and ever so slightly just graze the back of it. She has to be comfortable with you though. When you do this it’ll send shivers down her spine, especially if shes into you.
Just be smooth, be confident, and relax. You’ll get the hang of it in time and you’ll look back and say why did I ever doubt myself.
oh and it just depends on alot of things I would say after 6 hours to be safe with Ammo. IO/IS/IH last up to about 7 hours but I find after about 5 one spray can bring them back, and if your using the A314 oil it should last a long time after that.
Hmm… I’d have so many chances to brush their hair back, but lack of confidence! HURRAY!
I might do things a little differently, I’m prolly gona try 3 sprays to the neck of IS tomorrow, and do that for the next 3 days, if I don’t OD go up to 4, if I do go down to 2 the next week. Saves a little time, mones, and my pocket
I’ll prolly do the 1 spray after 5 hours. See what happens. But yeah like you said the a314 is an oil so I’m sure that could last me all day. Definitely don’t wana waste the stuff. Bad enough that I spent 200+$ on these and I’m a poor college guy XD
Thank you so much by the way, I’m really grateful! I have been waiting for a while to get a response to my topic, and here you are with some awesome advice to help me move forward I’m signing off for the night. If you think of anything else, please post! I’m taking all your advice to heart
yeah I stay between 2-3 sprays of shine. I don’t even know if you can od on it. Report on Friday about it, that is if you aren’t out killing the ladies. Shine will surprise you with what it can do all by itself. Good luck and happy moning… haha
I’ll definitely make sure to give that a shot next time I’m out. You gave me some good ideas, and now I can’t wait to be able to test them out! Sadly have to wait till next Thursday most likely…
! I’m starting tomorrow with “Finding my sweet spot” with… something. I can’t decided between IH / IO / IS.
Shine will surprise you with what it can do all by itself. Good luck and happy moning… haha