Sillykitty's Salon

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Journals
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Uh huh.

There’s no way to “sterilize” everything.

No one said there was a way to protect against all dieases but people do whatever they can to avoid getting sick..as much as they can anway

why dont we just pick up food from the floor, after all we’re gonna get sick anyway. why were people so disgusted with Britney going into a gas station bathroom barefoot? I mean we should all embrace germs, right? I just personally have a problem with food left out unsupervised for periods of time esp since people lack simple manners and have no problem coughing over everything..one of my peeves about buffets as well

If the samples were cookies, its one thing but this was yogurt which cant be heated to kill off harmful bacteria so yea

anyway not gonna change around the thread so I just wanted to put it out there to be cautious of whree you get samples and check out the setup.

Have a good one!

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Instant Openness Baseline testing

In response to John’s request for reports on mixes using Instant Openness with the “golden molecules”, I decided to start it off by using Instant Openness just solo, for a “baseline”.

I began my day with 2 sprays of 4x Instant Openness, one to the chest/neck region, and one split between my forearms. I refreshed with 1 spray maybe 3 hours later.

Immediate self effect: A small boost/lift in energy

Distance: All interactions were within 8 feet

  1. I had to do some errands in town, about 20 min away, so hopped in with an older gentleman friend who had things to do there too. He is normally a bit talkative, but during the drive, he was even more so, to the point of even being a little annoying.

  2. At a thrift shop I’d never been to before - I noticed the prices seemed a bit high, and commented on this to another female customer who happened to be browsing in the same area as I was. She responded in a very friendly manner, and in fact wanted to continue talking to me even though I had already moved on to a different area of the store.

  3. At my doctor appointment - he was chatty and talkative, even more so than usual.

  4. At the convenience store, I was actually carded and had to show my ID!! The woman would not believe that I was not underage, and was shocked to see how old I really was!

  5. At lunch in the food court, the Asian female cashier was very warm and friendly. My older gentleman friend continued to talk way too much.

  6. On the drive home, he continued to talk way too much, and I was relieved when he dropped me back off at home.

Conclusion:

1.Definite increase in friendliness and chattiness from both strangers and non-strangers

  1. Self effect of irritation from people talking to me too much. Perhaps the addition of one or more “golden molecule” will help to offset my irritation.
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Instant Openness and P91

This morning I applied 2 sprays of 4x Instant Openness, and 40mcg p91.

Self effects: Small energy/mood lift upon application, mood remained good despite being around someone who also is slightly annoying by being overly chatty, lol.

  1. A different older (Caucasian) gentleman friend came by because I was giving him my deceased step-mother’s dining set, which was still up in her cottage. He also opened my side of the truck door for me before going to his side, in that old-fashioned gentlemanly way that guys rarely do anymore.

  2. Riding in his truck, he was chatty as usual, but I did not feel annoyed today as I sometimes do with people who always seem that they have to fill every silence with talking - not that I don’t love to talk, I do, but not constantly blah, blah, blah…

  3. When we arrived at the cottage, despite his creaky joints, he insisted on untying the rope that keeps the property “closed”, though it would have been easier and more practical for me to have done it. He also insisted on carrying the somewhat heavy boxes (that I could have handled) that I decided to bring, since I have to get that cottage emptied, and it’s down a somewhat longish trail.

  4. He was not quite as “handsy” as he sometimes is (but still a little). He is always a gentleman, but often will find an excuse to touch or brush my arm, or give my shoulder/back area a little (but gentle and non-sexual) squeeze. I don’t know if this is how he is normally with others, but my other gentleman friends are less “handsy” (though most of those others are also Japanese, so I think are naturally a little more reserved).

  5. After he dropped me off (and also rushed around to open my door before I could, lol, as well as hurrying to carry all the other things I brought from the cottage before I could even unlock my front door), I decided to take a walk into town to drop off some oranges to my lady friend who owns the small jewelery shop and check my PO box.

  6. My encounter with my jeweler friend was uneventful, as a customer walked in right after I did, so I just dropped off the oranges and left, not wanting to intrude on her business (or a possible sale for her!).

  7. Along the way, I encountered both strangers (mostly tourists, who never smile or look at anyone) and people I either knew or was familiar with by sight. I smiled at everyone I made eye contact with, and they smiled back (except this one strange and surly looking guy late teens/early twenties obviously-not-from-around-here-probably-tourist-kid-on-a-vacation-he-really-didn’t-want-to-be-on dressed in olive army fatigue type pants, black tshirt and weird goggle things, lol - his whole vibe he was putting out was as though he did not want to be there).

  8. On my way back from the PO, I ran into an older Japanese lady I know, who is kind of a hermit not very sociable, and we actually chatted for a few minutes, and she didn’t try to run away as quickly as usual.

  9. At the gas station convenience store, the cashier was friendly as usual, and as I left, a big guy behind me in line who looked familiar though I couldn’t quite place him, said “Hey” and gave me a big smile as though we were friends (are we? I’m not quite sure - I may have met him in the bar that I go to occasionally and conversed with him - I do chat with people when I go, though I never, ever pick guys up - even though they try to pick me up sometimes - it’s too small of a town for that sort of thing, and the last thing I need is a “reputation”, lol), so I said “Hey” and smiled back, in the same way, and walked home.

Conclusion:

  1. I was not so irritable with the too-chattiness as I was yesterday with IO alone (though it was a different person, so I’ll have to try the IO/p91 combo with the yesterday older (Japanese) gentleman again (Mr. T), to see if it makes a difference in my mood/self-effect). So the p91 might have contributed to my feeling less irritable with overly-chatty older males.

  2. My friend today (Mr. J) seemed a bit less “handsy” and even more gentlemanly than usual (though as I said he is always a gentleman towards me).

What shall I try next in this experiment?

Tonight I am to have dinner alone with yet another older (japanese) gentleman friend (Mr. K) at his house. This is the same friend that tried to tongue-kiss me and hugged me a little too long the last time I had dinner with him alone at his house while wearing the “new” Instant Sexiness B.

So I almost said “no, thanks” but then remembered this experiment, which is the ONLY reason I accepted his invitation. So I kind of don’t want to go really, but it would be interesting to compare the effects of my prior usage of IS/B in the exact same situation/environment with whatever I decide to pair Instant Openness with this evening.

So…I will definitely NOT pair it with p83, p74, TAA…maybe A314 or p75…

Recommendations/suggestions please - I want to have a nice dinner with Mr. K, but NOT get felt up or tongue-kissed…I’m not scared, I could squash him like a bug, lol…

See how much I love you guys, lol, the sacrifice I am making in the interest of your research, lol!!! (Otherwise I would have definitely declined, I only accepted for testing purposes).

So…which of the “golden molecules” should I test with IO so that we have a good dinner, good conversation, but NOT get hit on???

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I was just wondering about that tongue diving ‘gentleman’.. :slight_smile:

How about some NONE for the loud, obnoxious butch vibe?! :wink:

Naaah… I was thinking about a bit of the opposite vibe, TAK?! Tone down his mojo. Do you have TAK?

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Oh, and also, I have plans to go to Costco tomorrow with BOTH Mr. T (too chatty yet I suspect has a little crush on me) and Mr. K (normally very reserved but tried to tongue-kiss me during IS/B experiment).

What should I wear when we are all together? And will they treat me differently when they are not alone with me? (Probably)

With IS/B in Costco, Mr. K paid for my groceries (which was cool, and he never did let me pay him back), BUT tried to hit on me later on that day (NOT cool).

So I will be going to Costco (in the close confines of Mr. K’s truck) with two older Japanese guys, both old enough to be my dad, who both secretly “like” me, lol…hmmmm…

I wonder what I should “wear” for this excursion…

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I don’t have any NONE, though I do have TAK…I don’t want him to dislike me, but a little respect would be cool (he has actually always treated me respectfully, until the IS/B experiment, and has ever since, treated me respectfully, though I have not been alone with him either).

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Instant Openness and A314

Okay, so before I went over to Mr. K’s house for dinner, I applied 2 sprays of 4x IO and 1.5 drops of A314 oil.

He definitely was chattier and more animated than usual, and also let me help him with washing the dishes and putting away the leftovers. I think the IO may have helped with this, as, by allowing me to help, I was less a formal “guest”.

Also, I happen to have high blood pressure but am not on medication at the moment. A couple of months ago, Mr. K gave me an article he had found about apple cider vinegar being a good natural remedy for HBP, so I’d been taking that daily (or almost daily, sometimes I forget).

A couple of times since then when I’d stopped at that house (his brother lives there too (but happens to be in Las Vegas at the moment) so I have dinner with them there occasionally, and they also have parties there such as for New Years and Superbowl, etc), he took my blood pressure to see if the ACV had been helping (it actually did help a bit, my BP was still a bit high, but not nearly as high as before).

He took it twice, and the second reading was higher than the first. He took it a third time, on my other arm this time, and it was a little lower again, but my pulse was still high. Mr. K said, “Why is your pulse so high, are you excited?”. I pretended to get his meaning and answered that it must just be because I had had coffee earlier as well as two Diet Mt. Dew’s, and that I normally don’t consume that much caffeine, so that must be why.

So this evening, as I was preparing to depart, Mr. K insisted on giving me an avocado, some very nice grape tomatoes and some apple bananas. I could not avoid the customary hug and kiss without offending him (this is the norm in Hawaii among friends, when taking leave of one another). Also, during the hug, because he is short, his nose was right at my collarbone, deeply inhaling the exact spot where I had smeared some of my A314, lol.

This time, he did not hug me overly long nor did he attempt to stick his tongue in my mouth.

We parted on a comfortable note, thankfully!

Conclusion:

  1. IO helped him to relax his attraction to me (and the previous “rejection” of his earlier advances probably helped too). He wasn’t as “nervous” around me as the last time we had dinner alone together.

  2. Possibly the A314 may have helped as well. I know A314 isn’t one of the “golden molecules” but I don’t have plain RONE or NONE, so that was the closest I could do.

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ACV only works if it has the mother in it. Otherwise its pasteurized and all the nutrients are dead. Braggs and other organic brands usually have he mother, but check and read it. It will say it if it does.

There’s a very big difference between ACV with and without the mother. The mother is the naturally occurring Amino Acid chains in the vinegar. The pasteurization process destroys these chains and all you’re left with is another product that isn’t very good for you.

If you do take it daily, drink it with a straw as its acid will decay tooth enamel. When ACV enters the bloodstream, remarkably it alkalizes the body.

Another option is obtaining Juniper berries. The work wonders in dramatically lowering blood pressure. In fact so much so if you take to much they can make you pass out. You can get wildcrafted or organic (wildcrafted will always be better) on Amazon relatively inexpensively. Take three berries a day in the morning on an empty stomach.

Consider eliminating all sodium from your diet too. If you need salt Celtic salt is the best. Read ingredients, things like butter, soda, and all that crap has sodium. Soda is horrible for you. Cut that out and you’ll lose weight naturally.

In the mornings upon rising get yourself a BIG glass of water and drink that at least two hours before drinking or eating anything else.

I only just got to your PM so obviously I’m out on the suggestion of what to wear for this occasion :wink:

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MX324

Product: MX324

Scent: cookie/grapefruit?

Dosage: 2-3 sprays

Environment: At an evening birthday party on a semi-covered porch, slightly cool, but comfortable.

Self-effects: A bit uplifting, better mood, increased confidence

Effects on others:

The people around me, ranging in ages from mid-20’s to 82 (the birthday boy!) were happy, warm, fun. I was the only Caucasian there, and there were some local Hawaiian “titas” (butchie dyke type of local women, big, tough and easily argumentative). Sometimes I feel a little uncomfortable around them, and occasionally they around me, as sometimes they can tend to be a bit racist as well.

This evening, I was very comfortable with them. I sat at their table for quite awhile, laughing, joking and being slightly flirted with from this new “tita” I had never met (no, I wasn’t interested, lol).

At the other table, where I sat for awhile also, consisted of a female friend (not a “tita”) who I used to hang around with years ago, and hadn’t seen her in years until I just happened to run into her at this party. We hit it off swimmingly, and talked and talked quite a bit. The rest of that table consisted of her husband and some other guys, who mostly laughed amongst themselves, not too much interaction probably because my old friend and I were totally ignoring them and too busy catching up.

Later on, as the party wound down, there was just the birthday boy and his wife (I call them Uncle and Auntie), one of their “tita” daughters, and one of the guys from the other table (none of whom I knew) who apparently didn’t leave with the others. It was his first time there, and it was a bit odd that he still hung around. He sat across from me while Uncle and Auntie asked him all kinds of questions about himself. I sat quietly and drank my beer, getting Uncle a fresh one when he needed it. I noticed this guy kept looking at me, but didn’t attempt to flirt, which was understandable with Uncle and Auntie and the “tita” daughter there. After he left, I hung around and helped clean up a bit, then left myself.

Summary: Uplifting, fun, lowered barriers, some flirtation towards me…I like it!

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WOW! After such a prolonged absence not only do you come back, but come back swinging. Yeah we missed you SK< but so happy you seem to be doing okay. Otherwise how are you doing?

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I’ve missed you guys too!

I’ve been busy alternating between excitement and hopelessness, trying to find some means of income before my unemployment runs out in a couple of months.

Excitement when I have a potential job prospect, hopelessness when I occasionally freak out because I have no idea how the hell I’m going to support myself now. I love where I live, but there are no medical imaging jobs here, and though I’m smart and have multiple college degrees and am capable of just about anything, I don’t have official “job experience” in much of anything besides the medical field. And the longer it goes since I’ve worked in that field (about a year and a half now) the less hireable I look in the eyes of potential employers (despite the fact that I’ve done it for so long, am excellent at it, and could easily still do that job blindfolded in my sleep).

So I’m open for just about anything at this point.

Lesson learned: If you are bullied at work, never ever stand up for yourself, just take it. Everyone else just takes it, and is miserable or quits. I thought, why should I do either? I didn’t do anything wrong and can prove it. When I demanded an investigation, I found out later that despite 19 pages of excellent and well-organized documentation and many excellent witnesses, they never even contacted my main witnesses, and it was determined that “the workplace violence policy was not violated”. The new management saw that, knowing nothing of the real facts, and I was then considered a “troublemaker” and that “it never happened” and I was forced to resign.

What’s funny too is that I have an immaculate work history, excellent references, and have been recruited and had my move paid for twice, including retention bonuses. And was the most highly requested person when I worked for a staffing agency.

I’m trying really hard to not think about it and put it behind me and not dwell on the total wrongness of it all, but it’s not always easy.

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A314 + p74 + p91 + Instant Honesty + a copulin based product

I had a job interview at a local resort for marketing representative for timeshares. Not exactly what I want to do, but it’s something. The pay is rather low, it’s based mostly on commission.

I researched on this forum and found some interview combinations that seemed popular, so here’s my report.

Products:

A314 - 1 drop spread between collarbone area and inner elbows
Instant Honesty 4x - 1 spray
P74 unscented (unscented is MUCH better and safer for job interviews, especially with all the rules and sensitivities about scents in the workplace) - 20-30 mcg
P91 unscented - 20 mcg
Copulin-based product - just a bit :wink:

Self effects: Confident, cheerful

Effects on others:

I arrived at the interview where there was just one interviewer, a young Caucasian woman. She gave me a “behavioral” interview, consisting of questions where I had to give examples of how I’ve handled certain types of situations in the past. I also had had to take an online typing test, and an online behavioral test before they would even schedule my interview, both of which I apparently passed with flying colors.

She was cheerful and nice, and I must have passed, because she then wanted to schedule me for a second interview with her manager.

I will wear the same combo and see what happens.

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Good luck SK!

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Thanks, dePlume! :slight_smile:

I went to the second interview today and wore the same combination of products (A314, IH, p74, p91, copulin product). This time I interviewed with two female managers, maybe in their 40’s, and it seemed to go very well. They asked me different questions about different situations, and how I would handle them, and asked for examples. They nodded in approval at everything I said, and told me I would hear from them by Thursday.

On my way out, I stopped at one of the “concierge” desks that I would be working at if I did work there, where a local (Portuguese maybe?) guy in his early 30’s was working. I asked him lots of questions and he answered everything freely and honestly. He wore a wedding ring, yet was mildly flirtatious.

Apparently there is a fairly high turnover, as working for commissions is not for everyone. So I’m wondering whether my seeming success in my interviews also had to do with the fact that they probably needed me more than I needed them, and they possibly hired just about everyone who applied due to the high turnover.

Tomorrow I have another interview for a nice stable County job, as an entry-level real property appraiser for the government. I’ll wear the same combo again, and see how it goes.

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Welcome back, yet again :slight_smile:

I wish you the best of luck on your interviews. With commission jobs they DO need you more than you need them, but you still can make lots of money. I hope you’re going easy on the A314 though.:wink:

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Thank you, sweety poo! :slight_smile:

As you know I had an interview for a much much better job yesterday, wore the exact same phero combo (A314, 1 drop!, p91, p74, IH and cops blend) as I did with the timeshare marketing rep job.

Besides the error in calculations on one problem, and the hopefully unnoticed grammar faux pas in my thank you letters (I sent the same one to all 4 panel members, hopefully they won’t compare emails, but so what if they do, right?).

The test was timed, 30 minutes only, and the two problems were scenarios where you had to complete certain tasks within the time given.

Being entry-level, I’m suspecting they really wanted to see how the potential hirees would approach and tackle the problems/situations, even if we didn’t get them exactly right, of course they will teach me/us. Just to see how our minds worked.

I also didn’t completely finish the second problem given the limited time frame, though I had already completed my calculations, shown my work, and was almost finished with the last part of it, which was writing a letter explaining the difference in tax classes, costs and the benefits of one over the other.

I also heard that I was not the only one who was unable to finish in the time given. Hopefully those who did compete both tasks within the 30 minutes rushed through theirs and screwed up the calculation part, lol. And didn’t realize it, as I did. Isn’t that nice of me, lol?

So wish me luck, cross your fingers, toes and eyes for me, put it out to the universe as I’m doing, and imagine me being really in that job.

Though I wonder what kinds of clothes I would have to/be allowed to wear for this, since it’s partly out assessing land and houses, and partly in the office. All I seem to have at the moment are lots of hospital scrubs, jeans and tank tops, and party/clubbing clothes, lol. If they allow decent jeans and decent cotton tops/blouses, I should be okay. I hope I won’t have to wear “office lady” clothes, lol.

I must imagine myself already in that job, know that I have it, expect 100% that I will get an email or letter officially offering me the position. Maybe I’ll look through my closet and figure out what I’ll wear for my first day at work, and lay it out, all ready for working there, I’ve heard that works. I do have a few business casual things that should work until I figure out what’s acceptable and what’s not. They will want me to start on June 1st. :slight_smile:

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Glad to hear you have this opportunity, SK. If your personality is half of what I see on the forum, you’ll land the job for sure! :slight_smile:

Crossing eyes and legs for you, SK! :smiley:

1Alpha

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Congratulations on your new job :smiley:

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Thanks, Steve!

I already picked and put out the clothes I will wear for my first day - business casual black button down shirt with 3/4 length sleeves, dark red pants, and the same office lady shoes I wore to the interview. That should be a safe outfit for now, then I can find out what’s really allowed for clothing. I’m hoping it can go a little more casual, since there will be lots of time out in the field!

They will definitely choose me, especially after my awesome thank you letter, where they will not notice my slight grammatical error because they will just be so blown away and impressed by the rest of it! :slight_smile:

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Best of luck, sweetie! :slight_smile:

Bella