Hello booyah,
Welcome to the forum. It seems you have already received some great advice so I am just going to throw a few things out there. I agree with the suggestions made by the 2 before me. I feel they are your best bet to accomplish your goal.
Here is a thread taht may help you.
Married Guys Looking to Help Life at Home (
Also here are a few threads that will help explain some stuff. Alot of your initial questions will be answered in these threads.
The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies ( 1 2 3 … Last Page)
Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp (Basic Noob Phero Bootcamp) ( 1 2 3 … Last Page)
Good luck, and please let us know what you decide.