In years. Yea I decided to get back into the dating scene and Saturday I met up with this girl. So this is the run down.
2 drops A314 behind the ears
2 sprays IS at the back of neck
2 sprays of mx301 at the neck.
2 sprays of IH at the wrists
2 sprays p79 10mcg total at the wrists.
Typically when using A314 in a social situation, I use IH and mx301 and it usually works decently enough. I opted out of CTTM2 because this girl had admitted early on that she’s a chatty person.
So we met at 3pm at the local Barnes and Noble for coffee. It’s located in a plaza/strip mall and there is plenty to do so a good way to extend the date if things go well
Initially she was very chatty, talkative though we didn’t sit too close together. She had some slight stand offish like behavior which at the time I was associating with the A314 (it’s possible). Later on I found out it was because the last guy she was casually dating became obsessive and almost stalkerish so she was a bit iffy. She didn’t say it out right but I was able to put two and two together. The day went on, we ended up walking around the plaza, getting dinner, talking the entire time. We had some pretty in depth chats about both of our personal lives. This much I would definitely attribute towards IH since I generally don’t admit much if any personal details to someone I just met.
Flash forward to 830pm, we’re back at BN this time sitting much closer and now I had a chance to see if there were any IOI’s. Well, she was definitely playing with her hair, that sort of hair twist with the fingers that women like to do and she kept zipping and unzipping her hoodie that she was wearing (she was wearing a dress underneath). She was supposed to get going around 9pm and when it was 845pm she had said that she should probably get going, but made no move towards getting up. This went on a few more times and the next thing we know, it’s 10pm and the place is closing
Unfortunately the ending was fairly anti climatic (no hug, no tongue, nada) but I was opting for a more mature and gentleman like approach that would be a positive contrast to what she has dealt with in the past. Do I think the mones help? Yup, not a huge amount but as others have pointed out, they helped make things go a bit smoother. A thing that any newbie should remember is along with being congruent towards your intended vibe, you need to be observant. Not just of any IOI’s but of the woman’s behavior and attitude in general. I could tell she was still slightly skiddish from that last bloke and adjusting my demeanor to come off as more mature and the exact opposite of what this guy is, that’s a major brownie point with her. And that could prove quite useful in the long run for both parties.
As it stands, I’m not 100% sure if there’s any LTR potential but I’ll definitely hang out with her again and see where things will go.
That’s all for now. ![]()