I guess I should start a journal if I’m going to keep posting escapades…
(Test) Combo used:
1 S IO to the wrists
1 S IH x2 to the hair
1 S IH x2 to the front of the neck
1 S TUTH to the chest
1/2 S TUTH to the front of the neck, and another to the back of the neck.
Reapplied TUTH after dinner at by wiping the straw along the jawline.
1 S P79 to the neck
1 S P79 to the hair
Note: when on a date in this kind of atmosphere, pick a booth.
So I invite a girl to dinner/drinks at a restaurant/blues bar. It starts off awkward because she thought I was dodging her and almost cancelled the date. We get there, order dinner, make some small talk but nothing big happens.
After dinner, the overhead music gets so loud we can’t talk across the table, so I move to her side of the both and get a bit close, but don’t directly face her.
We drink some more, laugh some more and flirt a bit.
Note part II: I’ve made out with this girl in public twice already, the only 2 times I’ve seen her. The first time was when we met and it was after 15 mins of talking.
Then she makes a small move and keeps saying out loud, “No, I need to control myself.” We kiss for a moment, heavy neck breathing and whatnot, then she does it again.
“No, I need to control myself. People are going to stare again.”
The band comes out and the makeout starts in the teasing stage.
Note part III. I learned that Blues bars are GREAT for atmosphere, for those that don’t know.
At one point she says, “I just don’t get why I can’t stop going after you.”
I joke and respond, “Maybe it’s my cologne. I should probably stop wearing it.”
She replies, “NO! <then quietly> don’t change your cologne.”
The band goes on a break, I ask her back to my place. She knows about my recent long term breakup, but I broke the resistance and drove her to my place. We put on a movie and watched about 10 mins of it.
She had all this resistance during makeout, petting, foreplay and more, but we just couldn’t stop. I’ve never seen a girl get that hot; it was to the point I thought she was faking it.
She stayed until 3, constantly with her head nuzzled in my neck when we weren’t getting all handsy.
The next date is dinner at my place sunday.
The one thing that’s bugging the living crap out of me. I’ve used a LOT of IH around her, but she will not reveal innermost feelings, and her past. It makes me wonder that it’s not going to work for me, since I don’t see much result from IH/IO in general. Advice there would be appreciated.