Hey,
I read up on a lot of socials that give you confidence and all or somewhat like that.
But Im trying to look for a phero that makes people want to talk to you/come and talk to you AND make you confident to be able to talk back, if you get what Im saying.
Because sometimes when Im wearing these social products, it works well to get the social going, but then I have to do my part.. Which Im sometimes not good at. :s Any Confidence + Social (as the kind I listed above) phero to help me.
Katie, as you know, I am about as new as you, if not more so. I did find that the MX300, IS/A mixed either IH or IS (haven’t tried IO yet, its on the way) did give me more confidence in that respect.
The MX300 definitely made me less sensitive to criticism and judgment, which I think also increased my confidence and made me feel less timid, as I sometimes do. I felt as though I projected more of an overall air of confidence.
I wrote a couple of reports on MX300, with and without other things, not too long ago. You should definitely try it, for me, I think it will become a main staple of my pheros.
Instant Shine has always been a nice, mellow confidence booster for me. It also brightens other people’s perception of you and makes you more approachable.
That sounds amazing to me. Buying that and p86 stat. I’d love to have those effects, that’s actually a perfect effect for me. Not that I take judgment or criticism badly or anything,
it’s just that, I take little things that happen and they annoy me forever.
For example:
I was opening the door for someone and they said “thank you” and then I said “you’re welcome” but when I said it, I felt like I rolled my eyes a little, which I did not mean to do at all! So I was afraid she took it wrong. Ah.. I have such an odd disorder haha.
I have way to many OCD and Anxiety Disorders, these pheros are my life savers. <3
Thanks, kitty!
Also thank you, ariadne.
Well, I got the confidence pheros down so far, anyone recommend me the best social phero to make people want to talk to you?
Are you currently on medication? If not, have you tried anything like Rhodiola and/or Schizandra?
You’re welcome! And… I would say the best for this is a combination of Instant Shine and CTTM or IO. These are great in that they not only affect others, but they affect you as well. With the Instant Shine, you’ll feel happy, you’ll look happy, you’ll be approachable. With the CTTM or IO, they want to talk to you and you’ll want to talk to them. Just watch what you say! But don’t obsess over it, I think when the communication pheros are in effect, it’s all good.
I just had a thought: another thing which might be good to try along with the above (or whatever you choose for your confidence/communication combo) is TAC. TAC can lend an air of light-heartedness to the situation, so the anxiety you might feel over the interaction, or worry that you might say something wrong, etc. can be lessened a bit. I haven’t reported on TAC, and I need to, but this is the effect I’ve gotten from it in the past.
I think you’ve inspired me to do some TAC-only tests.
Yep, Im on Paxil atm, it apparently also solves OCD and Anxiety, despite it being so well-known for anti-depressant. & currently seeing a psychologist and psychiatrist.
I love you! Thanks so much! I might as well add TAC to my cart. Also can’t wait to read your tests.
You described exactly what I was looking for,
much love,
Katie A.
Hey Katie ~
I do like Instant Shine and Openness ( not so much honesty, though ) too, especially when I’m out meeting new people. The IS, for me, feels like a bright burst of energy that seems to catch alot of people’s attention. Awesome for that confidence you’re looking for
Some thought though. I’ve been playing around with mx274 and mx135 - they’re starting to become a favorite for me especially in close quarters, like the bar. Haven’t extensively tested out mx135 yet but I notice alot of people quipping in on my conversations or smiling from afar looking as though they want to join in. It reminds me of your description of " people wanting to talk to you" and be in your crowd.
Wow, we must be like lost brother and sister or something (we tend to relate well and now this to boot!) I also have anxiety issues and also have a psychiatrist, aside from that I was also on Prozac and Wellbutrin but I came off of them to see if I can combat it by my self since I started to feel better with the medication. So at the moment I am taking NOW Mood Support, but I still take Ativan/Lorazepam as needed for anxiety. I do want to say though, that IJ, MX292, and currently MX305 REALLY helps with my confidence.
I’d recommend p103 for it’s lighthearted-ness. Instant Openness because it just makes you wanna talk and talk and talk and talk and talk..until you need a glass of water to rehydrate. Heh, with IO, you don’t even need confidence to talk to people, more likely you need to focus on censoring yourself so you don’t just blab away.
Instant Shine is also great, it puts you in a great, upbeat mood and who doesn’t like that? Most people will listen to happy people just because it uplifts them too.
Oh oh, and p93. It’s been said to have pretty…uhm..I don’t know if confident is the right word, Nunya used ‘uplifting’. Look it up, I’m sure you’ll find it, it’s been referenced many times.
Thank you for the input.
