Sometimes you just need to stick your hands down her pants

I’m dead serious. Well, certainly in not all situations, but I have confirmed that this works on two separate occasions. As I continue on the forum here I see people asking which combination to do this or that but the one that really gets to me is “what combination will help me to take it to the next level?” and the OP sounds like he’s just banking on a phero combination to work some magic.

I am not bashing pheromones, I would testify in court that they work, but nobody should base their hopes of having a relationship on pheromones doing any part of the work. I am also not saying don’t ask for advice, it’s always good to get input from others, but just take a look.

My story begins 18 months ago, spring term, freshman year, my dorm room, before I had discovered pheromones. One week earlier, one of the girls next door moved out and another moved in. I watched and listened for a few days before making any attempt to go introduce myself and when I did it went well enough. She was about 5’4", small and cute as hell with a streak of sexy and just a little crazy. We didn’t have too much in common but we just kinda clicked in some ways. The most we did for the next three days was talk about 30 minutes a day. Then her TV stopped working and she asked me if I could take a look at it. Well, her TV was a dinky 15" flatscreen and after getting it working I suggested that we just have a movie night in my room (42" LCD w/ surround sound, yeah shaddup :stuck_out_tongue: ). Well, she brought some friends and so did I and both bunks and all the chairs were filled with folks in my mini-theater and she didn’t have anywhere to sit. Attempting to be a gentleman I said “you can sit here”, meaning my chair (comfy squishy thing, middle of the room)… without saying anything and before I could get up, she sat on me and kissed me on the cheek. Ok then, I put my arms around her and we started the movie.

Half hour into the movie, she was shifting around and my hand wound up under her shirt. She didn’t seem to mind and she just laid her head next to mine. Something inside me is saying do something crazy and I thought, what the hell? I shifted and then my hand was a few inches in her pants. Nothing. Then she shifted up and my hand was gone. She kissed me on the cheek again and that’s where this story ends. Epilogue: We went steady, inseparable actually, til then end of the year and then she went back home. She didn’t return to college and lives an hour away. I’m still her “second best friend” below from a childhood girlfriend and above all her boyfriends since then. We see each other a few times every month and every time is an absolute blast. I have no doubt that if we lived closer we would still be together, but it just isn’t in the cards. I mean seriously, what would we tell our kids about how we got together. “Oh I fingered your mother during a movie in the middle of 12 people” :roll_eyes:

That’s another story out of my book with the moral being that the biggest thing driving a relationship is you and not any accessory you can buy. Am I saying that every girl will be like this? Hell no! But sometimes you just have to nut up, take a risk, and do something crazy (or at least different), to get you where you want to be.

But more often than not, something a little off-kilter will usually be more successful. :wink:

I miss college.

So will I, but I hear the army can be a lot like college in some respects so I’m hopeful! (Though I did take the maximum amount of years ROTC would let me stay in school on scholarship :smiley:)

I miss those days :frowning: As for doing something crazy and ballsy: I flew to India to meet a girl I only knew online. Unfortunately she’s still there but we had a blast :wink:

Dress blues and medals.

Man I’m an idiot for not going through with it

You know sometimes when I offer advice to peoples questions I wonder if it’s appropriate because usually any advice I give is 95% attitude and/or tactics and 5% actual info of pheromone products or mixes.
But this is why I do it that way. I know that if some guy is in the friend zone and expects the pheromones to do the whole job for him without having to modify his own attitudes or behaviors he’ll be disappointed and likely assume the product doesn’t work.
It’s like getting in a car and saying out loud “Take me to so and so’s house” and then sitting idle waiting for the car to magically take you there. You still have to be the one to turn the ignition, shift from park to drive, steer it left or right at the appropriate time, know when to step on the gas and how much to apply, and when you lay on the brakes. It still requires action on your part and if you accept that and learn to drive, then you’ll get where you want to go a lot faster and with less effort. You can still get there without the car, just a matter of it taking more time and effort.
It’s great when somebody understands this like you do.