Hello everybody,
This is my first message to these forums, so allow me to qualify for the gift coupon by writing the longest and most boring introduction ever. 
I am a 44-year old male living near Frankfurt, Germany, who’s just about to get divorced. Therefore I’m quite talkative again, so please bear with me if this is too long-winded.
What type I am? I’d say, very laid back and relaxed, at least since last year, having gone through a kind of “paradigm shift” in my life.
I consider myself a risk taker, within reasonable limits. Someone who likes change and new challenges, or else might get bored after some time.
I tend to be a perfectionist who doesn’t like people just bragging or showing off. Hence I’m rather selective about who I consider my friend, as I value true friendship a lot. I know, that sounds horribly romantic, but it’s due to lessons learnt.
First I heard about (human) pheromones maybe 10 years ago. I thought, OK, well, might work, why not, in the end it’s a natural thing and such - and forgot about them. A few months ago I became really interested
and started reading up on the topic, also reading as many relevant research papers as I could find on the internet.
I always like to find published claims of anything backed by peer-reviewed double-blind studies on large, statistically significant sample groups. OK, in lieu of that I’m willing to accept other people’s individual experience arrived at with less than scientific rigour. 
Why I am here: I’m on a “special mission”, namely winning a particular lady’s heart. We’ve met a few times last year (living in different countries) and, while she had high hopes in the beginning, after some time she told me she feels our relationship is not going to work out and the only thing she can offer me is…you know it… friendship. Now that makes a man happy! 
Not easily disheartened, I’ve embarked on a long-term strategy. In first place this means learning her language (which I bare spoke last year) as this is the only way for us to communicate with each other.
Then trying to understand what her inner beliefs and desires are and I hope to have found a key to that as well 
(hint: she’s a great romantic).
That lady is a divorced mother of a son, being single for several years. Her looks certainly aren’t the problem in finding a partner. One thing she said was she needs a “real man who stands by his word and bears responsibility for his actions”.
My main short-term goal is just to win her trust. It’s not about having sex or such (on a second thought - it is, but slightly later).
There will be another crucial meeting in June for a few days when I want to let her decided whether we should try to develop that relationship or separate for good since I don’t need any half-baked “friendship”.
Now, what are your suggestions - what product or combinations thereof should I look at? Or should I just give up all hope and drown myself in alcohol??
Thanks for your patience and input (don’t worry, I won’t publish my memoirs on this forum ),
Henry.
