I agree. I want to be the best I can be for her.. in all ways. If I can learn how to kiss better, I want to. If I can learn even from how lesbians kiss, I want to learn 
etc…
Oooh a possessive complex. Just add easily Jealous, obsessive, and insecure and you have all the worst traits a man can have in regards to women.
HA! My thoughts exactly. These forums wouldnt be the same without overly deep “Tater Topics” 
A person can give themselves to you, so it’s not that you HAVE to have them. Right, Tater?
You wouldn’t mind if this wasn’t so..
The Phero-Man is non-needy, non-possessive, non-jealous, non-obsessive, confident and secure… that must go in the manifesto too.
I would like to order a copy of said Manifesto…
It may take years to refine…
“owning women” is politically incorrect. The last time you could own a woman the good old USA nearly spilt into 2 countries.
Let’s not talk politics.. it’s boring… 
I was more thinking about the Phero-Man than “owning” anything.
Though what happens when someone gives you something as a gift? Does it become yours? Just wondering…
in this case, a relationship, perhaps both could “own” each other, though I’m not into the word myself..
Just being a smartass. Nevertheless, with female college graduation rates overwhelming males numbers, it is likely women will soon be “owning” the men. In another generation they’ll have all the good jobs, all the money and all the power. Men will be labors and strippers, living mainly to serve women. The college I teach at is 60% female and 40% male. Graduate school has even stronger female numbers.
House Husbands??
Soccer Dads??
Luncheons with the boys (just salad for me, I’ve got to keep my boyish figure for her)??
However engineering schools are a different story altogether…both undergraduate and graduate. Female strength is less than 20% of the entire class. In the current class I am assisting it is exactly 20% which is the highest I have seen in my 6 years. OTOH I see arts, fashion, music classes which have quite the opposite story with 80% or more females.
So if females will start dominating in the job market some time in the future we can kind of extrapolate which jobs will be the highest paying… definitely not engineering. Too late for me to change major though!
eh, I could live with that.
Mean.
Are you testing the old “hell hath no fury …” saying?
Someone has to entertain the engineers.
I dont think Tater and Phoenix are the only ones who think “owning” and “being owned” is somewhat romantic. How many posts are there about guys wanting their own stalker from A314? I appreciate a slightly possessive woman, even a little bit of jealousy can be hot.
This isnt about being needy or obsessive over a woman. Its about being a man beyond her wildest dreams, making the relationship an incredibly fun thing for her, working at being just a little bit difficult, too much fun to have and almost too much man to hang on to.
Wait a second. I just described the role many women have been filling, at least the most seductive ones. The phero-male is like a male geisha who cant be bought, but a very lucky woman might be able to have an exclusive with him. He is not a geisha. He chooses his companions carefully and his companions take comfort in knowing that hes ultimately in control.
Geisha have to train hard and work hard to keep their clients entertained. Phero-males also must train in many areas, pheros, personality interactions, dance, fashion, style… And being the male who drives her crazy with desire takes work too. Have you ever tried to plan a romantic evening of biscuits and maple syrup?
Precisely. I had my own stalker woman and I didn’t want her at all. I myself prefer someone who is like me, non-needy.. I don’t have to call her every day or even message her good night.
I’ve got to plan for tonight now
lol A had a girl who just wouldn’t let go of me! For years she stalking me, sending love notes ect.I had several girlfriends after her still she entertained getting back with me. She was like Tar Baby never letting go .This has happened a few times with ex lovers so the idea of a stalker just dont do it for me.
It really was pure hell!
Sure its wonderful when a girl you like and are attracted too wants you exclusively but as soon as you close in on someone and limit their freedom all that was good in your connection is lost.
Tater was once stalked by a woman he actually wanted. I was dating another woman at the time and committed to the relationship so i kept her at a distance, which made her constantly try harder. Those were glorious days.
HA ha yeah iv had that when i was with my Japanese girlfriend an es hostess.
The stalker was my very cute neighbor! She once knocked on my door and invited me to come over for some coffee.When i didnt come over she knocked on my door again.This time i let her in, by this time my girlfriend was home and she come in our room for some warm saki
I guess that kinda stalker is ok but a possessive ex is awful
I agree with you… best thing I have found is to connect with a woman who understands all of this herself.. pure gold!
Well, that’s the reason why wise men used to say, “If you love someone, then set them free!”.