Yeah it is confusing to me mate. I could go with my original mix.
My IH is x4 you see.
Ok so where the fuck do I start?
2 drops Royal, 2 Summer Ammo, 1 IS X2, 1 TUTH and 1 IH X4.
So, I certainly know more of where I stand, MUCH MUCH MUCH more.
My eyebrows where raised 70% of the time I think.
Cliche, I know but I couldn’t believe my ears.
Just WOW.
She said to me a few times ‘‘I don’t know why I telling you all this’’
Now, everything always came with a question about me…So I had to answer a lot of challenging questions, some that I felt I would never have to tell anyone. I was fully aware I was wearing IH and in some ways it actually made me quieter, as I couldn’t even think of questions for myself to ask.
I was really put on the spot sometimes man.
It makes me wonder how she is going to feel today, after remembering everything she told me. I don’t know what that does to a person, how do they rationalize it all?
I found out MORE then I wanted to know. On the way home I was thinking, I don’t know if I want to use IH again! Seriously it is going to take me a while to let my brain process everything.
From her place it took 40 mins to get to the place I chose to eat at. She lives in a area I have hardly been too, I did not want to come to my area and be comfortable and myself most likely bored AND plus too many memories in my area. So I wanted to do something different that I have never done, so i chose a place further out from her, luckily she never been there too.
So the car journey helped with the mones, obviously.
I wont get into specifics on discussions, as that would go on too long. But I deffo notice IH at work and randomly the discussion got onto really deep sexual talk. I am pretty sure that must of been the TUTH with IH, it was just so random and shocked me, I like where the fuck did this come from?
How I see IH, it just make them feel comfortable and care free with telling you pretty much everything that is on their mind.
It makes me wonder how different the night would of went if I didn’t have 1 spray of IH x4 on, I mean would she not have told me all the stuff she told me last night??? It makes me really wonder.
There was a few times where IH got the better of me though!
Usually I could think of something I want to say but then think that seems a not so confident way of saying it and I then would translate it into a confident way of saying it. But with IH on I would think of something and I would then just say it even if it appeared the less confident way of saying it, I noticed I did that a few times.
I am not sure if by the end of the night A314 was more pronounced or not, as I put all the mones on at about 5pm picked her up at 6 and then dropped her home by 11pm.
I noticed quite a few times she asked ??what are you thinking???
She also mentioned I am mysterious a few times, maybe because I am more on the quiet side. But what can be mysterious about her knowing I like her and me taking her out to dinner?? I don’t know.
I also caught her a couple of times during the quiet moments, leaning fully back in the seat, just calmly staring at me as I was driving her home.
Based on all the information I ??received?? that I have not said here, we are just going with the flow.
She said she would like to come to my area and come to my place for a cup of tea.
Now this is where my problem begins or shall I say, challenge?
Back when I first started speaking to her, she was with someone and I to be honest I never thought I would be doing what I am doing now. And I said to her I have room mates and I share a rented place..etc. But the truth is I live with my parents and older brother.
Don’t get me wrong, my parents place is pretty awesome and we have a fair a bit of land. But if I had my way I would not live here no more and to be honest I would hardly ever see my parents and my brother again, seriously.
So as I want my own life I don’t want to mix my future relationships with this place, I just don’t fucking like it.
I want to keep it separate, as if I had my own place I would never come back here and my relationships would be in my own life, and my life only.
I feel bad for this, as I am pretty sensitive with my emotions.
So as she would like to come back to my place for a ??cup of tea??, this is obviously not going to happen anytime soon.
I just never expected all this to happen really.
I do really like her, on many levels.
IH 4X might just be too strong for that application. (If I got it well, it’s 1 spray of 4X strength?) You can work with half-sprays maybe? Using IS/IH combo was a great idea but I don’t think it’s best to end up with an higher IH ratio to IS.
To be less sensitive with your emotions, should you want that, Instant Gentleman is the man. It will make you rock solid. Or did you get sensitive this time only time because of some IH self-effects (it can do that to you too)?
You seemed reserved to her because she was talking all her secrets out and since you knew you were wearing IH, you were probably very careful about self-effects thus you probably did not talk much.
For the thing about not wanting her in your parent’s place. Just tell the girl. Don’t overthink about it, man. You’ll have to tell her someday. Sooner the better.
I am not sure man, my emotions feel weird. Is it possible that IH can make you more honestly aware of your true feelings?
I noticed in between her talking during dinner, there where quite a few moments where she was looking down and ‘‘feeling’’ her emotions and I was doing it too.
I have not messaged her yet, I think I will though, as… If my emotions feel all weird after last night then maybe hers do to?
IH does not only get people spilling the beans about everything, it can also induce deeper connection on the emotional level for both you and the other person.
If she felt funny yesterday, she probably feels a lot better today man.
So when I next meet up with her I am going to leave the IH out of it. I didn’t like the self effects and it made me feel more close to her then she did to me. I know I could use less but I just don’t want to chance all that again.
I have a few drops of an older A314 Early 20’s Rev, I might use 2 drops of that… not sure yet.
I have normal ammo now (F21) so will be interesting to see the diffrence with it around her.
A314 Royal definitely feels softa then the older versions, it is good in some ways because I don’t feel so serious with the royal on conpared to the older version! Which was a problem once apon a time. So yeah maybe royal is better for me.
With the sweet spot testing I find it depends if the people know me or are strangers/acquaintances. With S/A 2 drops it pretty good. With people I know I could use 3 drops I think.
Maybe this means the more I get to know this woman, the more I could increase dose. I don’t know, just think typing.
I feel that Ammo F21 is my sweet spot at 3 sprays, but incoralation with A314… does that mean with A314 should I do 2 drops or increase to 3 because of all the not in ammo?
Because how I see it A314 is my Base. I want to project the LTR quality’s. So I don’t really want to leave it too far in the background.
This woman basically said to me that she just wants to go with the flow and see what developes naturally between us. She said she is open to anything.
I took two steps back and there were days I didn’t even text her, only text her today to arrange to see each other soon.
I was tempting to increase A314 to see what happens around her. I am not sure what that would do. I can imagine if I had sex with her and then increase the A314 that it would get her to see me more in a his too valuable to lose kind of way.
Well whatever I do I am deffo going to stick to the basics of A314, Ammo and shine.
I just need to go with the flow and see what happens naturally, same as if I didn’t have mones!
I think the 2 drops should be good. Do you have any other pheros besides the A314, Ammo, and Shine?
I have the A314 in Rev 32 and I have found in the past to much of Ammo with A314 can back fire.
I have a P74 togo, TUTH and some IFM magic left, that’s all
I don’t have any experience with IFM, P74 could go really well with the A314 Royal. P74 does soften a mix but under 20 MCG should go well with the A314 especially for LTR.
Ok that’s good to know. IH keeps coming to my thoughts, but I am scared of it to be honest lol. It felt like I got hit in the head with the sledge hammer of truth and I was not ready for it for some reason. It took me nearly a week to get over it.
One way I avoid this is by putting a high dose of IH on my hands. That way you still get the results, and don’t have to worry about the self effects.
Yeah smellymen2002, that’s the thing I did put it on my hands!
So last night I met up with her for 4 hours chilling at a pub sitting side by side on a sofa.
I went with 2 royal, 2 ammo, 1 x2 IS.
I felt the night went pretty well, but obviously I will continue to go with the flow and see how it unfolds more
Some things that stand out, she mentioned to me that she did not feel comfortble touching me, like putting her hand on my leg or touching my face she said.
I found this interesting. Through out the time I made sure I was touching her quite a bit, her shoulder, nee and hands, eventually touched her abs and tickled her.
At one point she even said she felt self conscious and I comforted her and said I don’t care about about the things she said she was self consiouse about. I think I even said you don’t need to be self consiouse you know I like you.
Later on when she was laughing as we was sitting side by side she would put both hand on my leg and she would put her head down into the back of her hands… and other touches here and there…so she was getting more comfortable touching me.
I even brang her in for a close cuddle after she said she didn’t feel comfortable touching me and she said yeah let’s have a cuddle.
She mentioned I seem older then 27, but to be honest I am…I am sure the mones helped though. She was trying to imagine me without a beard lol.
At the end as we went to leave the pub she talked about my height and cuddling and she started cuddling me, coming away and then cuddled me again and I gave her my good cuddle and it was a nice tight cuddle and she said I feel like I am cuddling my daddy and I said “oooookay” and we parted and I said you can call me daddy if you want jokingly. (I wish I never said ooookay) I think I was just thinking out loud as in I don’t know what to say to that. Oh well, live and learn.
When we got out side it was raining and we usally just peck on the cheek and cuddle but I went in and kissed her on the lips and she seemed okay with it but then as I went to continue into a snog she turned to the side lol. She said that was meant to be a peck on the cheek! You nearly put your tounge down my throat! …
I stayed silent and as we continued walking I was playfully giving her a few side by side cuddles and wished her a safe drive home and she said to me see you soon.
I really enjoyed last night, I enjoy her company alot.
I would try to use 1 spray Ammo and maybe 2 sprays of the IS and see what this gets. IS this the first time she mentioned being uncomfortable? Maybe use 1 or the other Ammo or Royal and some P74 with it at a low dose and see what happens.
Well she didn’t say she was uncomfortable, she said she didn’t feel comfortble to touch me.. but eventually as the night progressed she did seem to touch me more.
She never mentioned this before.
Could be becuase we getting to know each other more that these things up.coming up, as each time I see her we get more comfortble with each other and each try to understand each other more.
Maybe because I changed from summer ammo to F21 ammo? So that’s 2 less molecules. I don’t know.
Some things from the night I can understand but then there are things that confuse me.
It’s one of those things where more time will tell I quess.
Oh sorry I miss understood about being uncomfortable.