Styr from Estonia

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Hi,

I’m from the Baltic state of Estonia, 27 years old male. Am a few months short of being able to receive a Deck Officer’s certificate. (Need a few more months practice as an AB (Able Bodied Seaman) or a Cadet. While girls also tend to like men in uniform, I am more inclined towards using pheromones. :slight_smile: My occupation/education can then be as an additional bonus, as all the women I have met and dated thus far have in one way or another been connected to the sea, or seafaring. :slight_smile:

I have not had any serious luck with women thus far, mostly because I tend to become shy in front of girls/women. I have, however made improvements over the last year a half, have had a few girls interested in me, only for it to go south again. At least I have gotten on real dates, something I could only dream of before. Thus my self-esteem has improved significantly, but I am still running into trouble with women. They might like me at first, but then distance themselves from me. Then again, it might be the standard, obviously one can’t find the perfect match on the first time. I just wish they would tell me when they decide I am not their liking. Oh, wel…

I heard of pheromones a few years back, did some research and found out that I should be eating celery. Well, I did, and quite a lot. Did not notice any real effects. I then looked for pheromones on e-bay, and somewhat to my surprise found fragrances containing pheromones. I bought several bottles from three different manufacturers, tried them, and indeed, I saw some improvements. I have had more occasions when women have approached me. While it certainly is a good thing to happen, I still need to find the right woman. Needless to say, I haven’t, thus far.

In a way it is a good thing, because had everything went “well” with the first girl with whom we had mutual interest, I would not be here. (Besides the fact, that I later, after she politely dumped me, saw some traits in her that made her completely unattractive to me).

And so, here I am. :slight_smile: Trying to get to know more of pheromones, among other things.

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Welcome to Pherotalk Styr!

“In a way it is a good thing, because had everything went “well” with the first girl with whom we had mutual interest, I would not be here. (Besides the fact, that I later, after she politely dumped me, saw some traits in her that made her completely unattractive to me).”- I have a similiar viewpoint. Usually when I approach women if I get rejected by someone later on in the day I end up finding someone who I am muc more compatible with. :slight_smile:

From your intro I think that you will like Ammunition for attraction and Instant Shine for a feel good vibe( this makes you and the people around you feel good/happy- and for some members it gives tem a small boost in confidence.

I also think that A314 will be great for you it has an Alpha/leadership/attractive vibe to it that is great for respect in the workplace. It also says to the ladies this guy is special and he has things going for him.

Seems like you have a pretty interesting job and that you might do a lot of travel. I hope that when you get your pheromones that you decide to keep a journal. I would follow it. Plus a journal helps you to keep of track of whic peromones wokr best for you

Hope to hear of your pheromone adventures soon

Cheers

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Hi there, Styr and welcome to the mone forum. I do like ClintX2 thought’s on mones and would agree with the AMMO and IShine in my own experience with these mones. I think, the AMMO gives off an attractive vibe, but when I wear it, it also gives me a boost in confidence, a confident to be in my own skin feeling.

I would also, if you have issues with having others feel comfortable to talk to you, besides YOU smiling and listening attentively when others speak, I would recommend IO. Gets others to just blurb about anything. Good stuff when meeting new people.

For the respect vibe, I would be inclined to say that IG would be a better match for you. Eventually, once you’ve seen how these mones work, on you and those around you, then, do the A314. It’s good to start with training wheels before getting to the mountain biking!!! :stuck_out_tongue:

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Welcome Styr,

Men play that dreadful game as well. If only ppl would be honest about what they want and who they are.

Unfortunately this is what the world does and think its a legit game of love or love as they call it

Unless you plan to have an arranged marriage you are doomed to learn the rules and to play the game to win

The guys will guide you and take you under their wing

Your gc was issued!

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If you meet a woman for hour she doesn’t really know who you are.

If the first 10 minutes were really great, at the time she might have seen potential. Afterwards you got a bit shy. You didn’t want her to see your shyness and therefore created a bit of an emotional barrier. Afterwards an hour she didn’t feel the same emotional closeness anymore.

If you are with a woman don’t focus on whether she’s a perfect match. Focus on your own feelings. Do you enjoy her company? Do you enjoy it in the moment when you are with her? Being in the moment feels better than thinking about the future with the girl.