Hi, I’m new here and I haven’t actually tried anything yet but I am absolutely fascinated by this whole pheromone business, and I have every intention of trying all kinds of stuff to see how it works for me
I’m 32, recently married, and have no desire to “pull” any man other than my husband, but I’m not averse to a little flirtation or interest from the opposite sex. I work in an open-plan office with a high ratio of men to women (my immediate superior is male but our manager is female). I always wear perfume so people are used to me being scented, and I have no worries that they’ll think anything is up if I suddenly start spraying something else on myself (and I think they shouldn’t be able to smell anything much from the pheromones anyway, right?).
I’d like to find something that makes people take me more seriously at work, find me trustworthy, and open up to me. I haven’t advanced very far up the career ladder even though I’m intelligent and hardworking, because I don’t push myself forward enough and lack confidence in myself. Anything that would make me more confident and self-assured would be a good thing. I can be a bit quiet and serious, but when I know people well I am fun and like to make people laugh, although I’m rarely the person who is the life and soul of a party.
I’d also like something to enable us to have more fun together at work, because I’m on a great team and we really enjoy each other’s company and generally work well together anyway. And of course that would be something that I could also benefit from outside of the office.
In a flush of enthusiasm just after I found this site, I have already ordered:
Liquid Sunshine MX140 ToGo
MX134 For Women ToGo
Instant Openness ToGo
Since then I have spent another couple of days reading as much as I could on this forum. I know I should probably wait until I get the first order first, so I can start experimenting, but I’m already thinking about what I can purchase next. I’m thinking:
TAH
TAF
Instant Honesty
Has anyone got any opinions on my shopping list? Like I said, I’ve been doing lots of reading, but I know I’m a complete newbie and I appreciate the input from people who have been doing this for a long time.
Edited to add: my husband and I are planning to emigrate to the opposite side of the world in the next few months. Any suggestions for helping me meet and make friends with new people, and do well in job interviews, would also be welcome
Well, you picked my favorite products in your first order so I think you’re doing great
MX134 will be great for getting taken more seriously and feeling more confident about coming forward with your ideas. The other 2 are wonderful socially, loosening people up (including you) and making them feel lighter, warmer and more communicative - and that’s good for work OR play.
Instant Honesty is right handy to have, too - there are times when nothing else will do, right?
I found some money in my bank account which had not yet been spent (I get paid again in a week or so), so I have put my second order in already. Bad me! I haven’t even tried my first product yet and I’ve already ordered loads more! But I am so excited about this and I really want to play, and it takes time to get packages over to Ireland so I’d rather have the stuff in my possession aleady for whenever I’m ready for it. I’ll just have to be very careful at the start until I figure out what I’m doing, and take careful notes about what I’m doing. I think a blog may be in order…
Anyway, as per the suggestions above, I have ordered:
and I whacked in a ToGo of Instant Shine as well to round it up to an even $100
I’m sure my friends (and husband!) would think I have taken leave of my senses, but I have read so much on here and I am really fascinated and want to try this for myself.
I’m sure you will be hearing all about it on here once I get my grubby mitts on this stuff…
You’ve definitely gotten off to a good start. I work extra hours so I have money to buy more pheromones to play with… Looks like you’re on the road to addiction already, HoneyThief!
I am very impulsive - when I want something, I just go for it (I knew my husband was The One the first time we were alone together, despite the fact that he was still living with his very recent ex-girlfriend at the time, and I married him six months later). It’s probably a good thing that my company has a policy of not paying for overtime, otherwise I’d be at my desk way too long in order to fund my extravagances!
Ha ha! I’m just as impulsive. When I want things anyway - in terms of people, the first time I’ve ever just “gone for it” was with my current boyfriend, who is a darling, really. Looks like impulses suit both of us well.
Might I ask what concentration of TAH, TAF and TAL you picked up? 2.5mcg, 10mcg, etc…
From reading previous posts, I picked up 10mcg TAH. I can be a bit too opinionated and blunt sometimes (a lot of the time!), and I thought it might soften me a bit. I hate offending people – typical Libra, I run a mile from conflict – but at the same time I find it difficult to soften the blow when I’m in familiar company and I have an opinion. Anything that could tone that down would be welcome. I just went with the default for everything else. What do you guys think?
Looks like you’re on the road to addiction already, HoneyThief!
Looks like impulses suit both of us well.