Hey all, I have greatly diminished time for the forums lately.
Success in life is demanding action to bring it to fruition. So, its not a bad thing at all.
Thanks to the pheromones and the Pherotalk users community, I have seen some wild successes in our goals relating to many aspects of our life. Professional, social, emotional, etc., etc.
I even started back up an old friendship that is on the mend, simply with open dialogue supported by a little Spaceland and IO.
I have been going willy nilly with this hobby, testing the extreme limits of its power in silly and sometimes stupid ways, and now I want to offer some advice to n00bs.
I am still an uber n00b. So here are a few things I have learned. Read these. You will make errors. And then you will learn from it. These are things I have learned, stolen, and outright thieved from the wonderful users here.
They are not commands. They are suggestions. Think of it as a whisper in the ear.
They are not masters. They are servants. They will help you go a little faster and farther in the rights direction, but you must know how to use them.
Ethics are important. Do what thou wilt, be responsible.
An undesirable result is still that, a result, to be added to the data pile and examined. An OD, unexpected results, anything that happens is still a RESULT to be written down and analyzed. You learn from your mistakes.
Start small, single testing things and understand what works best. The temptation for me was all these goodies and just wanting to try everything all at once, and I gave into it. It makes things confusing. Go slow. With people, slow is better, more efficient.
You can mend broken relationships if you can invoke true, open, honest dialogue. We have an odd social life, so we have reported some unusual experiences. When trying to use them to resurrect a friendship, be careful what you wish for.
Ultimately, the pheromones are there to put you face to face with another. They are there to give you the opportunity to have a true, meaningful interaction with another human being. At that point, its all you. You have to do the hard work of listening, understanding, and reading the person that you are interacting with. They won’t make you funny, witty, charming, or a genuinely nice person. That’s the work you have to do. I am finding these things can be used to accomplish some pretty crazy things, and they are tools to be used with a concept of responsibility and conscious awareness of the results you achieve. Own the experience and do what’s right, take good care of those around you.
Write it down… Do not trust your memory to tell you how much you sprayed on, write it down when you do it. As often and as quickly as you’re able, write results down and report them. sometimes you learn the most for something you consider to be a non-result or a failure.
Wearing too many things at once can confuse you and your friends. Trust me.
I agree completely.
I really just wanted to spray everything on and run around the bar… and i did… didnt notice TOO much because I just over did it and didnt know what I was doing. Although I have had success with a couple A314 and some shine.
What a crock. I sprayed IS x6, a314 x5, IO x6, IH x6, IH x6, CTTM x6, Ammo x6 and tuthx2(only 2 cause I didn’t want to OD). I got nothing, no chicks raping me like an axe commercial, this stuff doesn’t work. More pheros means more chicks, right?
holy shit i hope you’re joking. that’s a fucking serious phero bomb O_O i’m surprised if a chick could even look at you and think you were human at that point hahaha
Eehh… NO! Quite the opposite actually. Less is more with phero’s.
No wonder you had no luck with that combo! God Lord, 2 sprays of TUTH + 6 sprays AMMO? Who do you think you are…a 150 year old with negative -none production? That’s one hefty dose of -none I’m surprised your results were just “nothing” and that the chicks didn’t actually run in the opposite direction
I am thinking he was politely making fun of me, Reclipse.
Yeah. I went a little pheromone crazy. I took two days off of pheromones and I am starting the whole process over from scratch.
Today, one shot of IS and one shot of Spaceland. That’s it. And wouldn’t you know it, I got much better results than before. Had a girl chase me down, walk with me, and ask if I would join her for a cigarette. (I don’t smoke.) I wasn’t allowed to leave until I gave her my phone number.
Well, it kinda did. Bluebird, my friend, obviously is not used to showing the kind of emotion she displayed the other night. I am still dealing with the fallout. It is my responsibility to behave and use pheromones in an ethical manner, and part of that is simply avoiding the OD around people where the relationship matters.
I do remember your post about that. Definitely a good idea to lay back on them and start going back to basics.
I plan on doing a couple of fun tests.. then going back to the core of things and doing some more methodical testing of number of sprays for each single phero and then start playing with some of the recipes posted here as well as trying to figure out a few of my own.
Big thank you for the original post in this thread though. Definitely good to see some newer testers who can provide that type of feedback for us newest testers.
No problem. I am very much like this when I start a new hobby of any sort. I basically go nuts the first few weeks and then decide if its worth keeping as a hobby.
Pheromones represent a new potential for a way of life. So I behaved absurdly, dangerously, and allowed my inner nerdy teenager to control what I was doing. Ah, but fortunately I have good friends who are here and are involved in the experiment to help me keep my head on straight.
Many will make the same mistakes I did, but they are valid mistakes if they are the basis of learning.
Power. Subtle power. Influence. Having the ear of someone higher in power. These things demand intelligence, diligence, and study in the use of the tool.