The Exciting Adventures of OneSexyMitch

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Journals
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Introduction:

I’m 34, living in beautiful Vancouver, British Columbia.
Been living here for 2.5 years.

Left all my friends back in Ottawa when I moved out here for work.
Been having trouble making good friends out here. Mostly because of lack of motivation and enthusiasm.

Been reading pick up material since I was 25.
Started with David Deangelo. Went on to read Dr. Paul Dobransky, Style, Mystery Method, and whole lot of other stuff. Never really used all that I knew. I was mostly just interested in learning more theory behind it.

Beginning of May, something happened. I got bored of my boredom. I got angry, frustrated and surprise - surprise, motivated!

I went online to find out what all the pick up guys were up to lately. Read up on Hypnotica. And bought some audio products from him. He has these self-hypnosis mp3s that feel really strange.

I have this voice in my head that doesn’t generally criticize me much, but generally when I look at a pretty girl, it just says “why bother?” Then I just go back to doing whatever I was doing.

I don’t get approach anxiety or nervous, antsy in my pantsy or anything like that (like most guys).

After listening to the Hypnotica mp3s, that voice was erased. Now I have a new voice, that just says “Go for it, you are the man”

So… As of May, I’ve been going out quite a bit, meeting good looking girls. But my game needs alot of work. In May and June, I went out on first dates 5 or 6 girls. None of them were interested in seeing me again. I come off as way too nice guy. But now I’m just more motivated to change that.

Things I’m working on…

  1. Learn to flirt, trying and failing… keeping that up

  2. Eye Contact

  3. Smiling more

  4. Giving off a sexy vibe… not really sure how. Body language + mones?

I’m now on a mission to be a better version of myself, strong, sexy and getting some :wink:

Started using pheromone products last Monday.

If anyone is reading this, I appreciate any criticism and advice.
So far, I’ve noticed a very supportive group of users here. I’d love lots of it. :slight_smile:

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Ok, new package just arrived. Very excited.
A314
IO TOGO
IH TOGO
IS TOGO

Work has been a real pain the ass lately. I’ve been working on a big project, and I do feel distracted, uninterested, and sometimes getting bitched at for shit not getting done. However, a good chunk of the stuff I’ve been getting hassled about has been mostly out of my control. I’ve noticed that when I have asserted myself and said, “Hey, I’ve got alot on my plate and I have been waiting for others to get their shit done.” My bosses back off a bit and say “Ok, not a problem. We just need to make sure the project is moving forward.”

I had some interesting experiences with Ammo last week, but I didn’t mentally record the hits. There were definitely some odd/interesting behaviour. Definitely received some more attention.

I’m going to apply the A314 just before I leave work. See what happens.

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Current weapon loadout :wink:

TUTH to go
AMMO to go
IS to go
Instant Jerk to go
IO to go
IG to go
A314
Instant Openness TOGO
Instant Honesty TOGO
IS TOGO

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Double-added those. But that is quite the arsenal. It would definitely blow all those other scurvy dogs you’re up against out of the water. :wink:

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I have 2 bottles of IO TOGO and IS TOGO.

I went a little crazy with the IS TOGO last week, so when I ordered the A314, I figured I’d need another. And then I got a free gift of IO TOGO.

I haven’t tried the IH yet or the TUTH. I need to figure out an appropriate time and place to use the TUTH.

Most likely I’ll be using the IH with my A314.

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Okay, nothing too exciting. Been testing A314 today and yesterday at work.

I work in a small office, 13 people. Generally, not too much goofing around lately. I’m working on multiple software projects. I do the software testing, the training of our clients and the installs/implementation of the software. I work with 4 software developers that all have very different personalities. Lately we’ve all been under alot of pressure to get multiple projects and client installs completed. We’ve all been pretty cranky.

Had a few random complements yesterday first thing when I walked into the office.
Definitely a hit.

My desk is near the office’s kitchen and coffee machine, so sometimes there can be a crowd forming nearby. Most of the time, it’s a fun atmosphere, but with this crunch time, it can get annoying if they linger too long.

Before noon, my bosses could not make eye contact with me. After lunch, they were joking around with me a bit while getting more coffee, but then also said that they appreciate all the hard work I’ve been doing on the projects. I found in the past 2 years, they haven’t said anything bad about my work, but haven’t really said much good either. I think they generally have the attitude of “we’ll tell you when you’re in trouble, otherwise, you’re doing a great job.”

Personally, I like to hear often that I’m doing a good job.
So it was nice to hear some good words from them.

Today, didn’t notice much difference. Did not feel any confidence boost. However, I did feel mostly serious, most of the day.

Didn’t notice anyone having problems making eye contact. I did notice that I felt the need to assert myself regarding certain decisions and my co-workers almost immediately agreed with me. It was a bit of a discussion, but I didn’t feel bullied. One of the developers can be a bit ridiculous and difficult to communicate with. Let’s call her W1. There are definitely times where she can be more social and fun. But generally she is very focused, b*tchy, and difficult. I’ve noticed that she has been more cranky since I started wearing the A314. I wore some instant shine last week and she just started laughing like crazy for no reason. That was funny to watch.

Anyway, today, not a good day. But I’ve been feeling pretty run down all week, so my mood may be affecting how people are seeing me.

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Ok, feeling much, much better today.
Using 3 drops of A314.
1 behind each ear, then down the jawline. First time trying that.
And then one more I applied to my wrist then rubbed that on my neck.
The last 2 days I was wearing D&G Pour Homme (dark blue).

This turns into a bit of a rant :slight_smile:
Today I decided to go with no cologne.
I brought all my TOGO bottles, probably apply 1 spray Ammo, IH, IO and IS when I leave.

I have been having headaches all week and I believe it is partly due to the mones.
But I want to make a quick comment about that.

I am partially sensitive to fluorescent lights. And there is one directly above my desk. Also there is a really annoying computer that is at ear level behind me. It has a fairly high pitched fan. Most days the lights, and the fan are just slightly annoying but I can deal with it.

I think the mones are enhancing my sensitivity to visual and aural stimulation. So an annoying sound is very annoying. Bright lights are very bright now.

Someone’s annoying personality just makes me want to tell them to shut up.
I’m usually quite tolerant of people. Either the mones are making me less tolerant or what I’m really feeling is coming to the surface sooner.

I think I generally can be quite passive aggressive, but I never take the aggressive part out on other people. I find healthy ways to get out my aggression, like exercise.

But when I’m feeling annoyed now, I just want to remove the annoyance upfront, right away. The passive feeling is gone. It’s a more active, do it now feeling. I feel like “I don’t need to put up with this shit.”

Need a punching bag or something :slight_smile:

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Get it yet?
LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, :slight_smile:

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One of my co-workers just f*cked over the team with a big error.
And it may force me and him and another software developer to stay late tonight.
As soon as he told us, I was about to just blow up. Counted to 10, then just kept my shit together and didn’t say anything.

Then I got the email that said that you replied to my thread.

Haha. That put a big smile on my face.
Specifically what are you loving about the journal?

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Ok, I’ve definitely cooled down about this work problem.
The co-worker, L1, seems to have a work around.

But I also found out that this problem can wait until Tuesday, if we don’t have it resolved today. But we are also working on another project that absolutely must be up and running tonight.

I find this quite funny. I was originally going to use this journal to talk about my many adventures with my ups and downs in the dating world.

Now, I’m just venting about how shitty my job is. :slight_smile:

Definitely getting excited to clock out, put on some Ammo and start acting like a man. This job blows… haha.

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Weekend was great. Getting used to being my new self.

Saturday
3 drops A314
2 sprays IH on wrists

Went shopping at the huge local mall.
Was looking for some new stylish fitted jeans and t-shirts.
I generally wear much baggier, relaxed fit clothes.
Looking to update things now, trying to look good/feel good.

This mall is huge. There are 4 or 5 men’s stores that were having jeans sales.
Mall is very busy, and for a change, people are actually buying stuff instead of wandering around like zombies.

I stepped in to 4 different stores, salespeople were all busy. Seemed to be understaffed.
I needed help, I had lots of questions about how jeans should fit my body type. And was not getting any attention.

The 5th store, I started looking at these cheap fitted t-shirts with graphics on them. This short, slightly chubby korean girl asked me if I needed any help.

I asked her many questions about men’s jeans. She surprisingly knew quite alot. She was very helpful. The cool thing was that she had to run off to help out some other customers/co-workers, but every time, she ran right back to me. She explained all the different colour styles, whiskers, creases. Tighter/looser in the waist, hips, legs and ankles.

FYI, whiskers are the white lines on jeans that originate at the fly, then spread to the hips. It gives the appearance of the jeans being more worn out in that area.

Some jeans are creased in the same spot, some are not. The most common is that the jeans are just coloured different.

I then had to wait like 15 minutes for the fitting room. Huge line. All girls, but very young, like 12-14. There was a cute redhead working at the front of the line. She looked about 17 or 18. She was keeping track of how many items were with each person as they go in the fitting room, and then folding all the jeans that come out of the fitting room that are not getting bought. She made eye contact a few times while I was at the back of the line.

I spoke loudly across the line to her, “This is crazy, eh?”
I’m thinking the IH was working even at this distance, maybe 20 feet.
She says “It’s busier than Thanksgiving, and one of the guys is an hour late for his shift.”
I then gave her a James Bondish sly smile and said with a very phony English accent “Shall I have him killed, my lady?”
She laughed. And continued folding the jeans.
“If you have him killed, we’ll still be understaffed.”
At that point, she was interrupted by customers coming out of the fitting room.

As I got closer to the front of the line, I asked her some questions about the jeans I had picked out. She preferred the dark dark ones, while the previous sales girl had preferred the worn out lighter ones. So I decided to get one of each. It was buy one, get second one 50% off. Sweet deal.

After trying them on, they didn’t fit right, so I needed to pick out more jeans with the first sales girl, then got back in the line. The line is twice as long this time. At that point, I was getting anxious to get this done and over with. But tried to keep my cool. As I’m waiting, a young girl and her mother were in line. They’re making chit-chat with the redhead. I overhear the whole thing, mostly just “Are you excited to go back to school?”…

To be continued…

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She says “I’m so excited, first day of high school.”

The mother was then like “Wait, what?”
The redhead says “I’m starting high school on Tuesday”

I was thinking that it was agood thing I didn’t ask her for her number, haha.
Definitely did not seem like 15. I guess I wasn’t the only one fooled.

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Monday
1 drop1 A314
1 spray Ammo
2 sprays of IH back of hands
1 spray IO, wrists

Went to mall again, wanted some waterproof shoes/boots.
It’s very rainy in Vancouver, and the bad weather is just starting up now.
I got my chuck taylors soaked yesterday and last Monday, do not want a repeat of that.

Picked up some sweet Merrells, but spent alot more than I wanted, they were $150. However, there was a very good looking asian girl working at the sports store. She was very helpful. I wasn’t being flirty at all, but I was making strong eye contact with her. I noticed after 20 minutes or so of her bringing me different styles and sizes that she had that DIHL look. I think that’s the first time I noticed. It’s almost zombie-ish, or hypnotized. She swayed slightly from side to side and spoke very slowly. It was very cool.

That is my new goal/objective!
I want to get that reaction from every girl.

Funny hit at that store. It was quite busy, and an attractive mother and her 3 girls who were high school age, walked by while I was waiting for the sales girl to come back with more shoes. They were trying to walk around me to get to another part of the store. I did not flinch or move out of the way. I just kept looking straight ahead, smiling. And they all maneuvered around me, winking and smiling… with a certain flirty smile at the same time. It was quite funny.

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Tuesday to Friday…

A314 2 drops each morning to the neck
Definitely seeing a change in how people treat me at work.

Everyone seems to be asking for my permission instead of bossing me around.
Lots of pleases and thank you.
Treading lighter to not offend me.
Loving it.

However, the last 2 days I felt quite cranky before noon.
I’m usually calm and cool.

Today, I decided to put the 2 drops of A314 on my wrists and then rub them down my forearms.

Haven’t been cranky at all.
I’m mildly frustrated with some nonsense with some clients, but this is normal.
I feel like myself.

However, I feel that I’m still receiving the level of respect I was getting all week.

Maybe self-effects aren’t always for everyone?
I felt powerful and confident before, but also felt that I needed to lash out at people.
I’m not cool with that in the workplace.

Weekend starts tonight, going to put on my socials and have some fun :slight_smile:

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You could just be wearing it too much Mitch, as in to often and might need a break. It’s super tough to be the ALPHA guy all the time and sometimes our natural selves needs time to catch up. When this happens our subconscious pushes back and attempts to revert the progress. You know the old saying of one step forward, two steps back. Sort of the same thing, but only with our minds instead. Actually catlord has some really good insights all about it, especially since he specializes in subliminal messages delving directly into the subconscious.

If you are wearing it everyday to work and other places as well its a good idea to not become dependent on it like a drug. Take a couple of days off every week. One thing that will happen, and I’m just coming off a full thirty day break myself, is you will realize just how easier life is with them and you’ll allow your internal progress to catch up. Just a thought though.

Anyway I like your journal, keep it up :slight_smile: