I warn you that this is a bit personal…
I’ve been away from the boards for awhile now, partly due to my last semester of college kicking my ass for what I am about to type. I am on the verge (next weekend) of graduating college with my BS (in only three years i may add) and Androtics products have aided me is countless ways. From the confidence boost of A314 to the “i’m not a creepy old guy” of Shine/Honesty/Openness, I wore several of the products with sometimes very positive results. But I need to tell a story…
About a year ago I was in a marriage that I was sure was on the verge of failure and was probably not worth saving on several levels. Our now 4 year old was just about the strongest thing we had in common. There was some love but the lack of intimacy and physicality was destroying us. I was not a saint on occasion and I’m not proud of that but decided to make a last concerted effort to save my relationship/family. I began using small amounts of A314, IH, IO, IS, and P83 around her in an effort to try and change her internal perception of me. This along with attitude and reaction changes began to form cracks in the wall that had formed between us (in hindsight). I noticed little differences like we began to fight less and actually held hands once in a while.
As the months progressed I added a little AMMO and just a touch of TUTH to my “mixes” around her and began to see the relationship I longed to regain. Little by little I would wean myself off the mones to see if the intimacy remained and lo and behold it did. The physicality did fall off a bit but was easily fixed by a little TUTH and IH.
After all this I would like to say that I hold Androtics Research responsible for not only saving my marriage but for giving me the greatest gift with purchase ever… a new baby due this coming November.
Thank you all at Androtics (Jas, Steve, Mick, JS, MH, and everyone else on the back end) and to the entire forum for without the insights and vision of the testers out there these products may be viewed as “snake oil” instead of the “game changers” that they are. I am looking forward to getting back to work so I can actually afford to restock some of the products that I am a little low on and to try new ones to continue changing the world.
Be Well
Mike
You know, I learn so much from peoples reports and I find everyone’s to be informative and insightful, sometimes entertaining but every once in a while, just downright inspiring.
This communicates what pheromones are and what they can truly do. I have no doubt that most people who happen upon the subject come looking for the Axe effect; that magic holy grail of products that they can just apply and have hordes of women chasing them down the street. But this shows the true potential of these products.
You explained that the results took time, that effects were subtle, but building upon each other, that changes in your own attitude was a factor, and that once an impression is made and a desired effect reached…that the effects CAN continue after the product is no longer used.
That’s the technical benefit, and to a degree the commercial benefit in that posts like this show a much more realistic expectation than the outrageous claims some marketers will use to peddle their product.
But the emotion, the sincerity, and the sense of genuine appreciation and gratitude I feel from you for the company, the staff and the products, benefits the community as a whole. Thank you for sharing your story.
Wow, this is awesome to hear, and congratulations!!
I can’t wait to get a better hold of what mones can do for me…not just as a means to trying something new and exciting, but to be able to post a story like this one day.
This really struck a chord with me…stories like these help us out by showing that putting in the effort CAN be worth the wait if you respect the products and their true potential.
That IS really fantastic news to read Mike. I am so happy for you. Pheromones really do add another dimension to the human dynamic. However, I do think the key factor in all this, is YOUR resolve to make it happen. RAD wrote it above and I feel it needs more emphasis, so many guys come looking for that miracle in the bottle and pheromones can absolutely be magic for us. We just simply have to take advantage of the opportunities presented. Those that do succeed, those that spray and expect miracles will find another excuse why their lives aren’t where they need to be.
As more and more people come to the forums looking for open “true” discussion on pheromones we really have another opportunity to educate and significantly impact peoples lives. As you all know there are many other companies out there, but what is their intent. One person was looking to make a certain element of pheromones, mind you using AD’s good nature and resources, but when it came right down to it, this person was more interested in making a dollar.:o
Others have gone off and started other sites, but greed got in the way there and fractured those intentions. Then we have companies that base their entire model off of ours, but only because its about the money. One company uses affiliate sales to drive their site, another uses cheap chemicals and then says the other molecules in AD’s (our numbered P series) are crap and unneeded. Hmm you base your entire business model on AD and then say the other molecules which you don’t know the names of are crap?
This only drives home the point which Jasmin and Michael Harris have been preaching all along. Most of this industry is bent on making money over peoples well-being.
So when I read poignant stories like yours its not just inspiring, it reaffirms my faith that AD really does have good intent. There’s been chatter about molecules being out of stock and I guess AD could just go and get the cheapest crap on the market and call it “truth!” They won’t do that though. They not only won’t do it, but they will not do it till it hurts the business by losing people bent on getting the cheapest crap they can find seeking not genuine human interactions, not genuine love for life, but the garbage marketing you see on sites like Pherlure and many, many others too sickening to even mention.
Is AD a business? Sure it is and as any business it has to make money to survive. The difference has always been about the people. It’s refreshing and weaves a tale of hard-work mixed in with mones and wanting to make a difference in life with stories like yours Mike, that drives this point home. I applaud your efforts and your commitment to your family. I honestly believe this is going to inspire so many people to get on with their lives, to put in whatever effort they need to to change their realities, to change their universe.
Thank you 
Congratulations Mike
Your story is a wonderful example of “learning to work your mones, instead of waiting for them to work for you”. I am so happy for you.
Tisha
just wanted to thank everyone for the well wishes. I’m looking forward to actually testing different mixes and P’s in situations that don’t involve homework (lol)… that way i may get more nuanced results.
