Mones and Two Stepping
Mix:
A314 + AMMO + IJ + IO + IH + IS
What I was looking for was alpha, cocky, open, trustworthy and charismatic and this mix gave me exactly that. The balance was just right for what we were involved in, needless to say this may become my every day mix from now on.
It seems like I threw everything on but the kitchen sink I know, but I think with the proper ratios it made for a great mix. Will adjust for trials in different venues.
App Points and Dosage:
Stomach, Chest, Neck (back, L,R) Forearms, Jawline
In order of application:
IJ 1s Stomach
A314 2 drops along both jawlines
IO 1x Akuto 4s - 1s split between forearms, 1s L,R, Back of Neck
IH 1x Akuto 1st - Split between forearms
Ammo 2x Akuto 2s - Chest, Back of Neck
IS 3s - Forearms, Hair
Venue:
Meetup.com two stepping beginners “class.”
Great venue because we switched partners like every two minutes over and over. So I got to dance with each woman in the class approximately 3x’s for a couple of minutes at a time giving them repeated exposure giving them the opportunity when they came back to me to know that the feelings they were experiencing was because of ME.
Application Time:
5:30PM
Picked up Country Girl at 5:45, Meetup started at 7pm and went until 8pm.
Weather / Temp:
Inside Car cool 74 degrees but she hates A/C so windows rolled down for a bit, then back to to windows up and 77-80 degrees no humidity.
Inside dance class - Approximately 72-74 degrees, but with people showing up and dancing going on got quite balmy and humid.
Distance:
2 feet in car
1 foot with various targets in dance class.
Self-Effects:
This mix gave me exactly what I was looking for in terms of confidence and cockiness but with a nice playful undertone. I never went “alpha” or got too cocky, I was at times the fun playful confident guy that could be self-effacing for fun, but knowing deep down what the real truth is.
I am a very funny and quick witted man and love to be the center of attention. But there are times when I am with a target in an environment they are more comfortable with, I become a wall flower and let other men “shine.” But not tonight, I had the group laughing including Country Girl and the women were enjoying my company.
Effects On Others:
I was able to dance with various women multiple times for 2-3 minutes at a time giving them multiple exposures to my phero sig.
In each and every case out of all the women, 10-12 every single one remembered my name after only being introd once.
Quite honestly, I could only remember the beautiful ladies’ names, except for in one case the only other female in the group who would try to lead dancing every time.
Most women couldn’t look me in the eyes except for the extremely confident ones. Those I could tell who they were because how they handled themselves. Most notable was some older women but the one standout was a 5’ 11" blonde who just kept engaging me and couldn’t take her eyes off mine when we danced.
Good dancers know (learned this in ball room classes) you lock eyes with your partners, but these were beginners for the most part as was I in country dancing.
Fiery Red: Female 24-28 years of age.
Fit and healthy looking, but it was her hair that I just locked onto and what I commented on. I love short hair and the style she had gave her a Country / Pixie look that to put it bluntly had my loins as on fire as her red hair.
She of course remembered my name, enjoyed our dance but like a lot of women couldn’t quite look me in the eye unless I engaged them and had them laughing. Every time she did, I could see her pupils were dilated as were a few other women that I was focusing on.
Country Girl: One of my current targets and constant companion of late.
The night began with us running a quick errand for her on the way to the meetup group. She had to stop at Kmart to pay on something she put in layaway.
I have told Country Girl that I don’t think she’s someone I wanted as a long term partner and one of the reasons is because she doesn’t want to have anymore children. She has expressed this to me on many occasions.
However, while entering the store she saw some cute little girl’s clothes and said to me, “Oh this makes me just want to have a little girl.”
I acknowledged how cute the clothes were and headed on towards the layaway department.
As we made our way out of the store she again noticed some more little girl’s clothing and said to me again, “I would have a little girl just so I could dress her up in all this cute stuff.”
Country Girl is one of many reasons I joined this meetup group. I don’t know how to Country Dance even tho’ I"m a born and raised Texan, and she won’t dance at regular clubs. But being that I love Country Music and most country girls are pretty damn cute as I told her, if I see a problem I don’t avoid it I find a solution, so here it is.
I took to heart Tisha’s post about body language and showing dominance and ownership of territory with the woman you are with and used this last night. Being out with a beautiful woman who gets hit on a lot can get tiresome but it does go with the territory.
So my mix was designed to show this assertiveness in body language and be congruent with the signal. I wanted it to read, “I came with this hot piece of ass, and I’m going home with this hot piece of ass. You can dance with her, but know she is mine.” We of course are not exclusive (by my choice), but the arrangement is we are for the nights we date.
When we walked in of course all the men took notice, because many showed up without a partner. I could see them like Lions waiting by a pool of water for a wide eyed doe to show up. When we approached the sign up table I covertly slipped my arm around her waist, pulled her in close to me and towards the table where we had to sign an injury waiver.
Country Girl is an amazing dancer has danced for years and guys love to dance with her because of that. Her biggest issue is when she’s with a newbie she wants to lead, in fact said to me the first time we danced in class, “Follow me.” I firmly didn’t let go of my position with my hand on her back and said, “NO, you follow me.” She tried, but I kept forcing the issue back to me.
As she moved onto the next partner in the circle we formed I gave her a nice little smack on the ass which surprised her. She quickly turned around and gave me a puzzled look, I smiled teasingly at her knowing I got my point across.
For the remainder of the night I could see her eying me out of the corner of my eye watching me dance with the other women. When she would come around to me again her pupils were the size of small buttons and she would let me lead.
All in all it was a very fun night and we plan on going again. In the car we discussed her issue with trying to lead, which I told her in a fun playful way that it was gonna stop and not just there. I reminded her that I was the man and she was just gonna have to take a back seat at times and let me lead. And not to sound misogynistic, but its what I do anyway. To “ask her out” for me is to text her when I know she doesn’t have plans and say, “I’m picking you up at 6, be looking cute (or sexy depending upon the occasion).”
Final Thoughts and Conclusions:
This mix gave me exactly what I was looking for in terms of a confident, cocky but playful vibe. It will be a standard mix from now on, only adjusting the ratios as needed.
This is slightly different than my normal work / play mix but its the subtle difference of adding IJ and IO that I think is changing things up.
IMPORTANT
I believe that I have too many nice guy tendencies so the IJ even at 1 spray is just enough to reign that in without giving me asshole tendencies.
Allows me to be playfully risque and I was. I usually don’t slap Country Girl’s ass in public, especially in a tame environment like this, which is what I think made it work so well. 
The IO helps me to be a bit more open and shine where I do shine in my humor.
But there is further testing needing to be done, will do approximately a week in various venues with this mix and report back.
