I had to move to America before a guy, on meeting me for the first time; looked at my face first and not The Rack. I don’t know if it’s just WA, or an American thing (being careful to avoid litigation? maybe?); but from day 1 March 4 2004 - All of you American guys did yourselves proud and I’ve always had eye contact on introduction. Yes, they bounce down to the rack sooner or later; but every adult male over the age of 20 has done me the courtesy of looking me in the face first. BTW
THANK YOU ALL.
Amen to that. On both points. But the best thing is that this forum is basically running on thinking people. Individuals who are / learning to process the real information - verbal and non-verbal, that constitute communication. Thoughtful and mindful people that know there is more to a person than boobs, 10" or a fat wallet.
Btw: I had a momentary when not only did my cup size not appear on the poll; but the first few posts were stating preferences for little cups. Someone once said about boobs: “More than a mouthful is a waste”. I make sure to pick lovers with big mouths.
My friend’s Dad used to say that the perfect breast size was “more than a mouthful, but less than a meal.” For me, the perfect breast size is anything I can get my hands on!
And I’ll offer a “hallelujah, sister” nothing more stunning than looking at a naked guy and blurting out “you are NOT going to bring THAT anywhere near me!”
I dunno whether to ROFL or cringe in pain at the thought!
On the other hand I have heard women remark that they find the relaxed (meaning not aroused) male body unattractive. I was shocked; I don’t. That is to say, I find a toned male body beautiful regardless. I have no experience with other men when they’re aroused, but I used to do theatre (mostly backstage stuff) and have seen my share of naked men, and I find the human form, male or female, aesthetic.
I was drunk and did both. I was 18 and had my fair share (it was the sub-tropix ppl - we don’t treat sex the same way as you do here - don’t judge) of guys; enough to know what I like and didn’t. If I hadn’t been drunk, I probably would have run away. It was a VERY careful b’niz. Glad to say, never met another guy that big again.
Oh I have no doubt that few women want to know what it feels like to have an Anaconda taking refuge in your vagina but there’s a big difference between that and saying that size doesn’t matter at all.
Likewise regardless of how it started or who’s responsible, the fact that penis size is an issue for most men means that telling man that his equipment is ok because “oh my last boyfriend was TOO big, it hurt, I was sore for days, I didn’t enjoy it etc”…yeah not the best idea.
Now here’s a question for the ladies. While I’ve heard the stereotype about a mans foot size and his package…I’ve also heard that one can tell a mans “size” by looking at his hand.
The guideline being that the distance from his wrist to the tip of his middle finger equals the length and the distance across the middle and index finger equals the diameter (not circumference). Now personally I’ve found this true of myself, but for all I know that could be a coincidence. Has anyone else heard of this and if so do you know if there’s any truth to it?
Never even heard of that one. Sounds awful complicated to me.
I CAN tell you that investigators (including the FBI) use body ratios to help determine physical parameters on their subjects. There is, for instance, a direct formula for converting footprint length into rough height. If the foot is bare, it is very nearly precise height. The body has distinct proportions in its parts - so your urban legend may be an accurate assessment. I just don’t know anybody who’s ever used it.
I’m sorry, baby, the more you add to the story, the funnier it gets. I don’t mean to laugh at you OR him; I’m just picturing this poor guy getting undressed, turning around and the gal points, giggles, and then suddenly realizes what’s coming next, and… ::REALLY need that EEK emot::
See a guy would never worry about that…in either case.
Some guy and a girl in a room getting undressed and off comes the bra and the guy is like …well ok he may make that face but you’ll never hear the words “ohhhhh no, you ain’t bringing those things anywhere near me!”
On a more functional level, if a woman is…ahem…small in the nether regions you definitely won’t hear a guy say anything like “ummmm and you actually expect me to try and fit this in there?”
Should I even address this? Please don’t try to evaluate me because it’s WAY off the mark. My last girlfriend made the comment, “Everything about you is just so big!” so yeah I’m comfortable with my size.
Your point about some of the earlier posts being objective of women might have some validity. However it doesn’t hold for everyone who’s been posting here and you’re concern should be noted for any other men wanting to put in their two cents from now on.
Radman, I love you (in the brotherly sense lol, don’t take that wrong.) You go bro! Haha. You have made some great points and observations. Thank you.
Astrea.. Lol, alrighty. Hope you’ve learned from all that.
Egads, at least I only knew it was understood that I could get a better grade from one of my profs (at a different school) for showing more cleavage.
And classmates that thought it was appropriate to greet me with two outstretched, cupping hands, or try to sit on my lap. Those guys also encouraged their (hot) female students to date them for better grades, and nothing was done about it.
In some ways, I realized after the fact, that I was glad I was oblivious. Made fighting my way through three male-dominated fields easier in a way.
I NEVER noticed a guy doing this – until a couple weeks ago when a guy was hamming it up, did the slo-mo double take. Even in the last 10 months when I’ve been trying to be more aware of things.
I have never said anything more than there is such a thing as too big. And I’m not talking the occupants of the ≥95% percentile.
No idea. I’ve never tried this, and if I did, I still wouldn’t have a statistically significant sample size. Then again, I only learned the differences between un/circumcised through Wikipedia, and have no idea still why that would make a difference to women.
Would be nice if he would, actually. Or know we don’t like having our internal organs bruised, and be a little aware of his “surroundings” and conscientious of his actions.
Hey Radman! Yes, it’s generally true in the way that body proportions are generally accurate *. It’s common knowledge in Oz, and the American thing about feet (Whaaat?? ) a matter of confusion for Aussies.
Artists are taught body proportion thus:
From top to bottom:
Top of the head to base of the neck = 1/8th of total height
Width of the eye, corner to corner = widest part of the nose
Width of the mouth corner to corner lines up with the center of the pupils
Top of the eyebrows to nostril = length of ears
Make a T with your arms extended straight out both sides = your height
Length of forearm; elbow crease to wrist = length of your foot (mine’s smaller)
Base of palm to tip of middle finger length of your face, chin to hairline
Elbow lines up to waist
There’s more, but you don’t want my full proportion theory class. But yes, the hand and the first 2 fingers gives the basic penis dimensions - provided all details on the person are proportionate. Some people aren’t. I knew a guy who’s arms were fully 2" too long. He was in the military and had to have uniforms specially made.
Yes, his nickname was Magilla.
ARE YOU KIDDING?!!! No need to apologise - it was screamingly funny! This how it went:
Roslyn and I had a vacant bedroom in the house. RP needed a new place - being on extended rehab leave from a specialised military branch. (He got a head injury on tactical maneuvers that deprived him of taste and smell.) Military in Oz are well paid and have access to really cheap everything. The PX sells alcohol for ridiculously cheap.
10 am he rocks up; I’m in a bathrobe (yes; silky, red and sexy) and he’s brought a liter of scotch and a couple of liters of ginger ale. We sit at the kitchen table and play a stupid drinking card game.
I haven’t eaten yet and after a third of the bottle; I decide I need another shower - to try and clear my head. (Oh, I hear you guys going: Yeah, right )
He says: Can I come too?
I say: Sure, why not?
In the bathroom, I run the shower drop my robe and turn around . . .
His drawers are dropped and he’s OMFG huge. I had thought that he couldn’t be as big as his hands (yes, Radman, I did) and he wasn’t.
He was bigger.
My eyes popped out of my head and I yelled OMFG - but the words and said:
“YOU are NOT gonna bring THAT anywhere near me!”
Then, the drunk kinda kicked in again; curiosity won out and I asked:
“So, how long is it, anyway?”
“13 inches (33cm) soft”
“Are you f**king kidding me?!!” I started to laugh, he was already laughing at my reaction. Not unusual, (no kidding!) apparently.
We showered, made out in the shower, got dry, got WAY drunker and yes, he gained an inch with arousal. And the answer to the guys now is:** Very VERY** CAREFULLY!!!
We both laughed a lot, I was drunk a lot. I had to be. No, we didn’t last long. But we were friends for years.
I’m glad he had a good sense of humor about it. Girl, you’re what my folks would call a “mess.” And that equates to a mischief, if that helps any. Not a put-down at all.
O, HELLS YEAH! Since he really couldn’t claim surprise at that kind of reaction; his natural sense of humor took over - his explanation. I did apologise for the laughter when I got sober.
Thanks for the clarification about the mess thing. But, yeah, as soon as I left the parental domicile I ran wild. My stepdad had jet black wavy hair; he had two grey streaks from both temples to the base of his hairline by the time a year had rolled by. Of course they were due to me. I even apologised for them. He said he would have done the same thing coming out of the situation I was living in.
I’m just feral now. Still a “mess” in that sense and proud of it!
PS Note that the guys haven’t even offered an lol I’m hurt lololol
All of this is redundant unless you’re looking at the whole package. If the height and build are ‘congruent’ with the breast size, that’s great. One of the girls I went to college with was tall 5’ 9" and ‘waifish’. She only wore a B cup, but on her long, thin, narrow frame they looked like D’s. She had also developed upper back issues due to the weight being disproportionate to her frame.
Another girl I know is 5’ 2", due to a glandular malfunction as a kid that stopped her growth, and she’s EE. Looks ridiculous, you see those coming around a corner 15mins before you see her face! She’s had to have chiropractic care for her back since the age of 15. If she was 6" taller (her sister’s height) it would look spectacular in the great way. No, as the Universe goes. Her sister at 5’ 8" only just fits into a B cup.
I don’t know if it’s just WA, or an American thing (being careful to avoid litigation? maybe?); but from day 1 March 4 2004 - All of you American guys did yourselves proud and I’ve always had eye contact on introduction. Yes, they bounce down to the rack sooner or later; but every adult male over the age of 20 has done me the courtesy of looking me in the face first. BTW
Still a “mess” in that sense and proud of it!