the "things" that build a successful relationship

just out of curiosity, the “things” that build a successful relationship and make it strong… are the things you are cheating to overcome with pheromones. Do any of you have problems with deep meaningful long term relationships that have passed the troubles that make relationships grow? or do you tend to have to keep constantly using your pheromones to bewitch the one you are with?

Ah, pheromones are but a tool, my friend. :slight_smile:

That’s not cheating. It’s learning how to use something to your advantage to promote/direct good feelings in yourself and others, to benefit everyone. Pheromones are incapable of “bewitching” anyone on their own.

Think of them like you would a cool haircut or a nice suit that you put on to impress a girl…or taking your fiat to the car wash so it’s all clean and shiny when you pick her up. It’s make-up, perfume, a Wonderbra :smiley: …something you do to enhance the whole package. They may be of some help to start/reignite a spark but can do nothing without you to back them up. They can get you in the door but they won’t keep you there unless you do your part.

So, to answer your question…no. :slight_smile: The things that make relationships strong don’t come in bottles. They come from inside you. Compassion, understanding, empathy, tolerance, acceptance, persistence, patience, a willingness to forgive, love and a little creativity in the bedroom are what make a relationship strong…that’s what you “have to keep constantly to bewitch the one you are with”.

If you can find that in a bottle…I’ll take a 50 gallon drum, please. :wink:

Bella

No I had a deep meaningful relationship before I discovered mones. I just use them for hot sweatly wall banging sex now. :smiley:

Mones can enhance a relationship but cant fix one or create one if there is not a underlieing interest attraction and connection.

Tisha

sigh I’d like both!

thank you for your answers