Tipping in non-obvious situations

It’s obvious that we have to tip waiters and bartenders, but what about other places/jobs?

Let’s say for instance, what do I tip delivery guys that are delivering couches, beds, or tables to my apartment and the price is $75? Should I give them a beer instead?

What about valets? I have no prob throwing a few bucks when valet is free, but when I am being charged for valet, especially at a restaurant or a club where I am going to spend money, what do I tip them?

What about pool boys? Or dealers at poker tables? Or the guy that delivers your pizza? Or those people that work at Sonics? The list is endless.

What are the rules for tipping in non-obvious places, like valets, delivery guys, bellboys, etc, etc? For each job or situation, be specific to that profession, because there are no rules that apply to all the different jobs.

I think it varies from region to region.

Around here it seems like delivery, installation, and repair guys are not allowed to take tips. Of course it depends upon if your job is just a regular routine push a couch through your front door and plop it in the living room, or if you have asked them to take it down narrow winding staircase to your basement or something.

Pizza deliverers I tip about $5. I have never tipped anyone at Sonic as Sonic is really no different than McD’s and I don’t tip there.

No experience with valets. Bellboys – several dollars or more depending on how much luggage they help you with.

This is in the cornfield midwest. Tipping tends to be pricier in large metropolital areas.

I always tip at Sonic for some reason, maybe because they have to bring the food to your car and depending on how much I spent, I usually give them like a $1 or $2. There was a funny moment one time when I was at Sonic, I was smoking weed in my car, ordered some food, and the girl that brought me the food said it “it smells good” and I told her “you wanna smoke?” lol she said she couldn’t because she was still working. Easy number closed but I was too high at the time to ask her for it.

Good question! Something I’ve wondered about but never gotten an answer to. For the record, I’ve always felt the need to tip at Sonic, also.

For quickservice restaraunts (ie, fast food,) there is generally no expectation of tip, regardless of the delivery method. However, at a place like Sonic (alas, I don’t go there anymore) if the service is friendly and efficient and delivered with a smile, I might feel the urge to toss a few bucks their way, (Two dollars is reasonable.) My thinking is that I can barely tolerate the dopey kids that have no smile, and no ability to communicate beyond a few grunts of “here is your food.” The ones that show effort get rewarded.

Anywhere you sit down, and the server comes to you, the tip is generally about 15% of the tab, excluding bad service. I do not reward bad service, such as a waitress or waiter that tells you how bad their day is going and how their baby’s daddy ain’t paying child support.

Delivery of any sort, its a good idea to tip, assuming the service was reasonable. I had a furniture delivery crew come in once, and I was prepared to give them a tip. The head guy immediately started complaining about how he had to go out of his way and mess up his schedule to come deliver my product… Therefore, no tip. I do not tip if the minion is attempting to manipulate me into a tip… I don’t care about how your day went, I care about whether the service was quick, efficient, and made me and my needs the center of attention.

Valets always get a tip. Always. Bad service or no. Its just good practice, especially if you go to the same places over and over.

People that help me with my luggage always get a tip.

If I am carrying a heavy load from a store, like a television, and a guy helps me out, I will generally tip.

But the rule is, really, if you feel the service was good enough to warrant a tip, go for it, it never hurts.

One time I had drop my car off at this place so they can do an oil change on it, when I went to go pick it up, the guy that did the oil change recognize me from school. So as I left, my sister told me I should tip him, I thought it wasn’t necessary because I knew the guy. So I gave my sister $5 and told her she could go give it to him herself and she did.