to be a little girlier..?

[Bella]

@remmy

hmm i was hanging out with my guy friends today (wearing est and cops) and i realized that i can make some pretty obnoxious comments. i mean, i never overdo it to annoy people but i was thinking that maybe i could potentially offend some people if they arent my friends..

my ex thinks that im the cutest person alive but he has told me that he has a problem with how i act in public at times because i come off really domineering and cold at times..

do you guys have any suggestions on what i can use so i can be more cutesy? suggestions? **

@Butterfly

If you met a guy who looked really masculine, but acted coy, girly, kind of gay, you would feel a bit funny too, not?

Remmy when you say “be more cutesy”, I assume you mean as far as personality and speech are concerned…do you want to sound and/or actually be more cutesy? I know you look like a sweet little cupcake, but are you feminine in your behavior? I mean ya don’t act butch or anything…I hope…lol. The way you think you come across/deliver your thoughts/words is obnoxious/harsh? Is that what you mean?

@Butterfly

Or you could try to learn to control your behaviour better, to create more congruence.

@remmy

i know i can be pretty cute when i want to be

That’s the ticket. You’ve already got it, baby…you answered your own question.

so I thought, hm maybe i shoud get some TAH.. but then i tried those before and TAH never worked on me. as matter of fact, id get into fights with my ex whenever i wear it.

@Butterfly

Perhaps it was the lack of congruence between your behaviour and the TAH siggy that made your ex so edgy?

As far as help with the pheromone part…you want to come across softer and sweeter. Well, the obvious choice is TAH. So tell me why doesn’t it work…does it make you feel out of sorts or was it the reaction that TG had to it that didn’t work for you? I assume you’ve done the TAH to the back of the head and it’s still no go. If it’s the fact that it just doesn’t agree with you, that’s a shame 'cause it would certainly help.

Here’s an idea for you. There have been some interesting reports on a couple of putatives that have shown empathetic/connective qualities. That could, perhaps. help in tuning you into the other persons feelings so you’d be a little more careful what you say…and it would give you something interesting to play with.

Here’s a report by Warren on P87/P86 that’s very interesting -

P87 - The Brain Clutter Cleaner

Well, a certain somebody called me today and told me to get off my lazy ass and test a Putative today. OK, actually it was a polite request. So anyway, I had just sorted through my little bottles of magic over the weekend, looking to see what I was running low on and making up a new bottle of ICM 0.25.1b when I noticed this strange little blue bottle of P87 blowing kisses at me. I picked the little bottle up and thought to myself “I wonder what the heck this stuff does”. And so the decision o…

You know what else you should give a try…Instant Female Magic. It might take some of the edge off for you…just a thought.

Bella