to be a little girlier..?

[Bella]

@remmy

o no, i dont act butch or anything like that but some of the guys i know tend to be really.. sexist. and i just attack them verbally whereas the other girls wouldnt. idno, its really not that big of a deal, im not socially awkward or anything like that. hm.. i guess i meant sometimes i take offense to some comments really quickly so when i look back on it, if i held on just for one second, somebody else would’ve said something, u know?

Oh, I really didn’t think you were butch, baby…lol…and I know you’re not socially awkward. I’m much the same way, quick on the trigger, and it’s hard for me to let these type of remarks go. You can say what you feel compelled to say, it’s how you deliever it that’s important. You can still make your point if, as you said, you just need to slow down a sec and think about how you phrase your comments. Frankly, if you wait for somebody else to say something, you might have a long wait.

TAH and IS-B dont work on me. i dont know why. i feel weird and out of place and i think i actually get snippier which is what i wanted to avoid when i put it on.

anyways, maybe ill try instant female magic

If it doesn’t work, well, it doesn’t work! I understand that. I can get rather..erm…snippy ma self with a spray too much of IS/A.

Instant Female Magic makes me feel relaxed and in a go along kinda mood. If I know I’m going to be around people who stress me out or are difficult, I spritz a couple of good ones right up front so I can huff it. And, believe me, sometimes I inhale deeply.

Bella