Bold statement pays off again
I went to an upscale lounge and wore the following pheromones:
2 Sprays NPA/IJ/Chrome Cologne mix.
3 Drops of A314 (LS Version)
I ended up having conversations with three women last night.
Conversation 1 - We had a nice conversation for 10 or 15 minutes that consisted of superficial topics. I was enjoying the conversation but she eventually grew bored and excused himself.
Conversation 2 - We had a good conversation for about a half an hour and we had a lot in common. She was clearly attracted to me for most of the conversation and we had great rapport. But eventually the attraction just withered away like most of my conversations in the past.
Conversation 3 - I had a good conversation with her just like my first 2 conversations. After talking to her for about 15 minutes it was clear that she was attracted to me. I’ve been in this situation so many times and I knew that if I didn’t do something bold, the attraction would die like it always does. So at one situationally relevant point in the conversation, I said the following,
“Most people see me as a very conservative guy who wants to get married and have kids. This couldn’t be further from the truth. To be honest, I’m really just a casual sex kind of guy.”
She looks away and mutters, “Casual sex kind of guy” with a surprised look on her face. The conversation got really awkward at this point. We tried to engage in small talk but the comfort we had with each other was gone and we were both struggling with the conversation. She excuses herself to go to the bathroom so I figured that this is it. That statement must have been too much for her.
I figured that I had better giver her an easy opportunity to eject since I thought she wanted out of the conversation at this point. So when she got out of the bathroom I said to her that I’m leaving this place and I’m going to get a drink at another place which was a few blocks away. I invited her to join me for the drink and to my surprise she enthusiastically said yes.
So we go to another bar and the conversation is very intense. There is a ton of sexual tension and the mutual attraction just gets stronger and stronger. She pretty much handled all the escalation from that moment until the bedroom so it was really nice. The only thing I had to do after that was to suggest that we go to my place when she subtly made it clear to me that it was time to ask.
What I learned
For me, a bold statement at some point in the conversation is pretty much all I need for escalation with women. Without a bold statement, an interaction with a woman rarely leads to anything and eventually dies away. This has happened countless times to me. But with a bold statement, a much higher percentage of interactions lead to makeouts or sex.
The following is now my basic strategy for getting laid:
- Start a conversation with a woman I’m attracted to.
- Chit chat for 5 or 10 minutes and observe if she shows signs of attraction
- Make a bold/radically honest statement about my casual sex intentions.
- Make it through the uncomfortable tension that follows a bold statement of intent.
- Give her the opportunity to easily exit the interaction.
- If she chooses to continue the interaction, talk and get to know each other for a little while.
- Invite her home with me.