I have a couple question someone can answer. If your targeting someone like an ex gf or a new connection, do you tell them your using phermones? Also is even attracting some with phermones a solid connection. If you have to keep putting on phermones, is that even a real relationship?
My first ever relationship was build on a connection before I ever found out about phermones but now that I have done some research it makes me wonder if there would ever be any long term relationships based off of phermones?
No i never tell anybody about my mones.
Relationship building comes from the basic nature understanding each other devotion loyalty etc.
Pheromones just give an extra edge. Its not that relationship are pheromones based. Its just icing on ur cake
No, don’t tell - not only will all your interactions be coloured by her knowledge of it, you need to be aware that some people have very unrealistic ideas of what pheros do and why we use them.
At best, pheros only act in support of our interpersonal actions - they will not replace consious thought and make anyone do something they were not otherwise pre-disposed to do.
So a connection built on pheros is still a proper one - just the pheros help it develop faster and more effectively. There will come a point when you can back-off because a solid long-term connection has developed but that will be a while-off yet. You cold also use it to try other styles of shorter acting mixes for variety but safe in the knowledge that your relationship is solid.
PD, I agree with the above. I never tell anyone. I have been using pheros for over 3 years now, and I can tell you I havent told one person. I think it will only complicate things.
I also am constantly watching and learning how these things work, how different combos work, etc, and I want to see the honest reactions to the different mones I am wearing.
I’ll definitely go with my three colleagues on this because I agree 100%. Covert mode is much better. Less potential drama. Less distrust and ackwardness too.
Did you tell her the composition of the pheromonal mix your body already made on its own? Of course not. Few of us have a clue what our natural mix might be, absent long experimental experience. Working toward a goal deliberately is different, but the random pheromonal signature you were born with doesn’t make the effects any less real. Just as changing one’s hair or makeup has real effect on how others react to you, so does changing your pheromonal signature.
But what you DO with a renovated impression you send into the world or to a partner can be as real/enduring as anything that made her gain/lose interest in the first place.