Transgressions of a TS phero newbi-ish

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OK, so I’ve been using phero’s for a little bit now. And by no means do I think I have a definite idea of how they are doing there thing. But they are, YAY! And if you haven’t guessed I’m a transsexual, and no not from Transylvania :stuck_out_tongue: LOL. If you haven’t been reading my journal. Unfortunately that’s where I’ve been putting a lot of my testing result, though.

OK I digress, so I’ve found one mix that seems to produce a result that is close to what I’m interested in phero’s to be doing. And that is to help polish my appearance en femme. And yes, I still have to live parts of my life as a man, still. The mix that I’ve been working with is 4 sprays of CTTM (1 split between wrists, 1 to hair, 1 to back of neck and 1 to chest); 3 sprays of Instant Shine (1 to chest, 1 to split between wrist and 1 to back of neck); and 5 sprays of IS/a (1 split between wrists, 1 to chest, 1 to hair/back of neck, 1 to tail bone and 1 to bikini line). Or I use 3 sprays of IS/a when having to present as a man (skipping the lower end). All sprayed separately. Sometimes I re-spray half way through the day, but most times once I’ve come home I’ll just leave them alone.

I’ve gone out a few times while where this mix to a couple of locations; work (mainly), friends and out shopping. and boy I’ve got some stories, but a lot of them don’t really the princess ending to them. But mostly due to my own reactions to the situations.

So, I’ll start with the easy, Work. First off, I find myself almost always in a bright and chipper mood and kinda bouncy and spacey. But loving every minute of it. And both co-workers and clients tend to be more chatty around me and in a lighter mood themselves. And I find that the clients also tend to be a little looser with their wallets and a lot friendly towards me in general. Oh btw, I work in a restaurant as a bartender and a server, so before people start yelling at me about ripping people off, I’m talking about selling them on up-grades to their food orders or having a beer or cocktail instead of a pop or water (everything is under $10 each). It’s not like I’m talking them into buying a house or a car, they can’t afford.
So back to the friendly aspect… Last night, we had a huge group of exec’s in from one of the banks, everything was paid for already :cool: But myself and the girl I was working the bar with seemed to notice a lot of people coming consistently back to our bar (there’s 2 bars in the restaurant). Or just staying and hanging out. but by the end of the night one of the groups that kept coming to us, started quizzing us on where else they can go, and even trying to talk us into joining them. One of the girls in the group even ran around the bar and gave me a big hug and thank you. This was shocking for me cause no guest has ever wanted to do this, but mind you she was pretty loaded too! And like I said, I’ve noticed that people tend to be a little looser with their wallets around me, like this time in October. We do a fund-raising campaign for Breast cancer during this month. And this time we were just doing a round your bill up to the next dollar, type thing. And this one guy told me to round it by $100, yeah that’s by not to $100. I so flabbergasted that I had to ask him like 3 times if the amount he said was right! Then I was just so proud of myself and thankful of him too! This happened just as I was starting to use the phero’s. Plus I’ve noticed that a lot of my tips seemed to have increased a little, like a percent or two.

I’ve also tried this mix outside of work, like at friends places and even gone shopping a bit too. One time I forgot that I was wearing the strong of the two versions of the mix and went over to a friends’ place. They’re new parents with a two year old girl now. So when I went over I forgot that I had re-applied the mix, about an hour earlier. So I wasn’t thinking anything of it. But all night long the little girl kept trying to chat me up, she doesn’t really speak too much in the way of sentences. But all night long she’d look at me and say mommy matter of fact-ly. And not like look mommy. Even when someone would try to correct her and point to her mom and say mommy, she’d stomp her foot and say mommy again. I should note, that a lot of my friends don’t know I’m TS and I try to keep my outfits as androgynous as possible ( if I don’t out and out wear male clothes altogether), but the mother does know.

OK, I’ve seem to have started to turn this into a short novel LOL and I’m sorry for that. But I’d like to mention that I have notice that while presenting myself as a man, I tend to get long looks from people and seemed to a little uncomfortable around me.

Does anyone have any advice for me on other things I should try. For my next order, I"m definitely re-ordering the phero’s for this mix. And I’m dying to try things like IS/b (to see the difference) and Lust After Me (to see how the cop’s will affect the results)

Alystin

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Great report.

Every so often we get TS or gay guys asking for advice on mixes. This post should prove useful to them.

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Well I like lam a lot! : ) Makes me feel more sensual/soft/sexy also great effects on others ; )

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It’s good to hear that I might be able to help someone out. I’ve been told that there’s not a lot of feed back from the TS community here. I’d also love to give the guys at r&d the challenge of making something that would work well for people like me. But it’s such a small demographic, that it’s just not worth it. So I’m gonna try to see if the products out there will do the trick.

And so far, I can’t complain. They seem to be doing just what I’d like them to do, the phero’s that is. Like the other night I had to go get food for my puppy. I decided to go en femme, which this is an area I’m having some problems in. But more because of the inner turmoil of the TS thing than anything else. You see why. So as I said I had to go get dog food. So I pack myself and the dog up, it’s a fun and exciting trip for her. And we get to see how she’ll be around other dogs and people. Which is easy for a boxer, cause they’re such a social breed. My first “mistake” LOL. So whe we got to the store I went inside and picked up everything I need. The excitement didn’t start til I approached the cash. The cashier, a younger girl in her late teens/early twenties, seemed not to notice anything/say anything. Just asked and said the usuals, she asked if my puppy could have a treat (which is common there, seeing as though they keep treats at the cash for the dogs). And then the boxer striked, not biting or anything. But my little social butterfly was bouncing, spinning jumping and loving all the attention. So natural a crowd started to gather to watch her little “look at me, I’m cuuute!” dance. It was mostly the staff that seemed to be flocking our way. And it was mostly girls in the age around that of the cashier. One of the girls though, who was older than the rest, started to say something to another girl. Took a look at me, paused, smiled and then continued on with her convo. Unfortunately at the point I kinda panicked a little, and wanted to run screaming form the store. But both my dog and the crowd wanted to stay and chat and play around. My dog is an attention suck, btw LOL. I didn’t get too much of a result, simply because of the flight instinct that hit at that moment, probably because of being read as a TS by the older girl. But once again it seemed to me, that the phero’s were once again doing their job and telling peoples instincts that what they were seeing as a very tall, robust women was just that. Or maybe they were just being polite and not trying to single me out and make a scene. Sometimes it’s hard to tell with Canadians, we’re too polite sometimes LOL.

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I agree that you need some Lust After Me, but I would suggest just getting the regular version to start off with: don’t go for 5X or 20X cops until you know how the LAM works for you.

I would also recommend EST or P74. EST is unavailable through Androtics for the time being, but P74 is the closest equivalent and likely something I think would work great for your unique situation. P74 elicits good friendly bonding between men and men as well as between women and men. My theory for you is that if you were wearing a good mix of girly pheros (maybe a mix of IS and LAM) with P74 layered on top, you would start seeing less discomfort from others. They would be less likely to get the inkling that something if “off” about you when you are dressed because your phero signature is supporting your outward appearance.

I would also recommend that you try IS/B instead of IS/A, or try layering TAH on top of it. I think this might help you come across as softer, more feminine.

My final recommendation is that you try a confidence building phero, sprayed to your chest. Just for yourself. P93 is a good one for this in my experience, but there may be other putatives that would help as well. Possibly someone else could add more info on this?

I’ve been reading your journal! Keep it up! :slight_smile:

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I’m never plan on using the extra cops on products I’m just trying out for the first time. I was thinking on adding them to my next order of IS (either /a or /b)

Surprisingly, most of the “off” looks I get come from when I’m not dressed. And that’s simply because while drab, I come off as very masculine, but submissive. So it’s more “hey my eyes tell me I have a guy in front of me, but my nose says it’s a girl”. And most of the time these “off” feelings come from people that already know me, but don’t know I’m TS. And I’ve already been warned that this is a reaction that I probably might get, especially en drab while wearing female phero’s.

Thanks, for the advice on the EST or p74, I never really considered a bonding phero to add to the mix. But the p74 has been suggested to me earlier, but they didn’t really explain why. So has the Instant Female Magic, but that was to help me bond more with other girls and not really with guys.

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Ok, so I’m all out of IS until I get the $$$ to place my next order. And what a difference. I still have the Ishine and CTTM, but I’m noticing a huge difference in how people interact with me. Before my coworkers and I would be bouncing about the restaurant flirting and chatting it up. But without the IS in the mix it seems to have lost that fun flirty feeling. Though it’s still quite chatty, things just don’t seem to be as upbeat as it was before.

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OK, so I got a little extra $$$ and I’m trying to decide what to get for my second order. I know I want to get IS/b. But I can’t decide f I should get anything else. And seeing as though LAM is still out of stock, which I’m dying to try. It’s kinda between MX274 or P74 or even Instant Female Magic. Or even TAF sounds like it could be a lot of fun.

Any advice?

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Great reports, Alystin. It’s very interesting seeing an unusual profile like yours and how you’re working with the products to see what works.

Have you given p86 a thought?

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Thank you your encouragement. But I haven’t given any thoughts to p86. What are some of the effects that have been reported by others? Or even that you personally have found from it? Is it another bonding “agent”?

I’m still very new at this. And sometimes it’s hard keeping track of each of the products. Plus at this current place in the streams of life, i don’t have a lot of resources to be doing a wide experimentation of all the products offered by the company. Though I’d greatly enjoy the opportunity to provide such research for a small but diverse and deserving part of our global community, that is very often overlooked and ignored.

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You may want to hold off on the Instant Female Magic. It does have some attenuators but it may backfire on you and leave you feeling blue and tired. MX274 is a really good product. Also, MX135,235, or 335 are all really terrific, center-of-the-universe, happy, happy mixes. TAF is either right on or off. Some have really good laser-point enhancement with it. But others get a fight-or-flight response.

Whatever you decide, keep us posted. Great reporting, btw.

Diane

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From my notes:

P86 - Relaxing, Can be excessively sedating if not paired with something more aggressive. Kicks in at about 20 minutes. Can cause a “shallow Hal” effect of making normally unattractive people very attractive. Good memory effect, softly sensual.

Diane

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From my experimentation, it gives a soft focus and makes people a bit happy-happy. :slight_smile:

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So here it comes. I’ve finally decided on and placed my second order. I’m going with IS/b, MX235 and EOW.

So I’m very excite and a little nervous about this order. And I have a lot of questions… all will be answered by trying out the new things. Ok, I know I’ve copped on waiting for LAM. But I really need to see if and how cop’s will work with me. And I’m still going to keep an eye out for it.

So get ready girls, some fun is about to start! And watch out boys, you’re the target LOL :stuck_out_tongue:

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Nice! I have some coming. Warren says 1:5 ratio of P87 to P86 leaves the relaxation, and gives it a really soft, nice, caring empathy. I can’t wait to see what this adds to my mixes. :slight_smile:

Diane