Hi ladies,
I have been trying to get my boyfriend to be honest with me about some issues for quite some time now but still do not feel he is being honest with me. I am thinking that maybe double strength instant honesty and regular strength instant openess will do the trick. Was thinking about adding instant sexiness but I do not want him to be so horny that he forgets about the issues at hand. Anyone experimented with this type of situation before? Any ideas?
Youre trying to get a man to tell the truth. Dream on dreamer.
Oh. Yeah. Ummm. Its going to depend on the type of issue and how you ask. If you have a gun to his head and you ask “Have you been cheating on me?” Tater guarantees the answer is “Baby i would never cheat on you. i love you!” Pheros arent magic and the more there is to lose, the less likely someone will spill.
Taters theory is that if you get people talking with IH they will eventually spill a clue here and there that you can use to get more information and eventually get down to the truth.
If you want the truth out of Tater, itll cost you a few biscuits.
Hi blondie
What tater has written is true. Pheromones just don’t have that power. Instant honesty will encourage a higher comfort level and conversation, not make someone spill the truth if they’re trying to deceive you or cover their rear.
My only advice is, if your bullsh!t detector is going off, it probably is bullsh!t.
Agree with the above. Although the IH could make him loosen his tounge a little. I wouldnt go straight for 2X if you never used the regular strength though.
Like tater said if its something he is determined to hide like he’s cheating or killed someone and buried them under the house (just kidding but you get the point) then he will still hold that back. He may however, as inkling suggested slip a few more clues in accidently.
If it is something mild or he is just uncomfortable talking about it then IH should go along way in making him more comfortable and open so you can discuss it. It can promote conversation on a more intimate level.
I dont use IH alot but have used it with my husband on occasion and I have noticed when I do, we talk about alot more things we avoided talking about in the past. Nothing earth shattering but just more deep meaningful communication as opposed to the idle chatter I notice with IO.
Instant sexiness wont hurt the situation. The attraction can help induce a feeling of closeness. Plus if you get the to-go bottle that is IS/A which contains TAL. Its more of a alpha women in charge kind of vibe so its something to consider.
Tish
Tater has a big theory on why IH works better on men. Believe it or not, men are more emotional than women, just better at hiding it. Guys (straight guys) never cry on anothers’ shoulder. They typically have trouble confiding even in their psychiatrist. Maybe with their mother, or even their daughter. Friends who are “working girls” have told me that being paid just to listen is a very common thing. I have gay friends who consistently show the world their poker face but are all torn up inside and only share it when theyre falling apart.
IH works well for Tater but he has noticed that men are more easily affected than women, a LOT more.
You are right about Instant Honesty. It encourages a connected safe chatty atmosphere that can lead to bean spilling. (But if and when BF finally tells you the truth, try not to get upset at him. Otherwise he’ll be even more likely to lie to you again.)
What do you more experienced folk think about maybe some CTTM2, or spaaceland added to that mix… Get him yapping his face off, leave the room for a second, dose up on Honesty, then come back in while he’s still in the daze and ask him about the issue then? I’ve found in my life that someone who is prone to yapping themselves blue in the face tend to end up letting things slip that they didn’t intend to eventually. Plus, add in the stoned effect of spaceland, and the.. well.. honesty of honesty, and I think he’d spill the beans unintentionally after a while.
Just had another thought… ever heard how God gave man only enough blood to use one head at a time? Well if she adds Sexiness to that mix, then he may be additionally ahem distracted from her actual intentions, and again, may let the beans out.
Whose side are you on, Snook?!?!?!
Hey now, Tater… I’m an honest gentleman who appreciates honest gentlemen… If the dude’s an F’ing scumbag, then he deserves to get himself knocked down a few notches… or knocked out, either way…
I doubt that any mone could bring me to tell the truth if I’d want to hide it. You could bath in IH - and it might help to stir up a deep conversation and an inner connection. But it won’t let me spill out things that I’d want to hide!
No, but if you talk enough you might let a little bit slip, and in the process of defending yourself you might create some inconsistencies that could be used to dig deeper, and those might give someone the right questions to ask and… Have you ever watched Columbo?
Exactly, Tater… Get someone talking at a thousand miles an hour, and if they’re lying, inconsistencies will show, stories will change, etc…
Snook and Tater share piranha tactics!
Well, both Snook and Tater are right. I tryed the instant honesty, instant openness and instant sexiness. There was some inconsistancy but that is the case without the pheromones also. The big difference was that while he was lying he kept getting hornier. That was strange because he hardly ever does that around me anymore without the help of a video. The other strange thing was that just as I was about to take out the trash, he smiled at me and took it out for me. Then to top it all off, he wanted to take me out this Friday and ask his mom to babysit my daughter. This was strange indeed considering the fact that EVERY TIME we see his mother she offers to babysit but he has only taken her up on it one time in the last TEN MONTHES we have been back together and that was after hounding him to death.
Instant Honesty, can, upon occasion, lead
to a probable-cause-and-effect blurting out of data 
Also, I forgot to add that by 9:00 I was really really tired and sleepy! All I wanted to do was crash and go to sleep even though I had not done anything physically exhausting.
That sometimes happens with mones but it passes as your body becomes accustomed to them.
Well at least your making a little progress and seeing what the products can do for you. Keep at it he may just open up more.
Tisha
Thumbscrews and beat him with stinging nettles thats the way forward hun. 
There were some posts from Jasmin a while back about some sort of “Truth Serum” test mix packs or Industrial Strength Instant Honesty mix. Might try searching the forums.
You might also want to check out the various body language references (sites, books, posts) where they discuss catching people trying to lie or otherwise cover/hide something. Some job interviewing techniques do something similar to catch the resume padders.
I agree that something like Openness would get em talking (maybe even Shine - or maybe Spaceland - would indeed do some “distracting” - without the horniness problems), then toss in the Honesty to get them talking the secrets.