Well, it is not like I tell girls lies or anything. That is not the problem. When I wear something like AMMO or IG (sometimes A314) and meet girls, they want to add me on my facebook first, before proceeding further. Well, I tell them I have one, when they ask. However, I need something more of instant sex, haha
It seems like they want to see how I am truly who I say I am. When I see them subsequent times, they figure I am actuallymore interesting then they had thought - I don’t really reveal too much about myself … Why can’t they make it fun, go to bed with me, and then think about all that stuff later? I am thinking TUTH and IS might make them more into one nighties. Unfortunately, a few sweet white and asian girls in early 20’s become distant if I add TUTH to AMMO or TUTH itself, haha. I don’t know if I should ditch ammo, IG or A314? Go for something mega anone like 5 drops of NPA?
I don’t want to meet girls at clubs, strip clubs, hooters or bars for sex, because girls there are more likely to be unstable or have veneral diseases and so on. I am talking about your next door girl types, but very cute or sexy
Adding a persons facebook, or even myspace (a few people still use it) has become so common it’s standard and I almost consider it a number close if she wants to exchange profile page info. The thing is to make sure your page is congruent with the image you want to convey…easier to do with a myspace profile than with facebook but facebook is more common. Don’t give too much info on your profile and try to hint at things they’ll find interesting or attractive. You don’t want them to look at your page from the safety of home and think they know everything there is to know about you. You’ll have a hard time avoiding it with younger women. They’re so into facebook that not having one or trying not to give it to them will make them suspicious. They’ll likely assume you have one and don’t want them checking it because you have a girlfriend and don’t want them to know or have your gf see you cheating on her. So just accept it and try to maximize it’s effectiveness as an attraction tool.
Outside of that it sounds like you need to be more honest with yourself about what you want…you say you want “instant sex” but don’t want to meet girls at clubs because they’re likely to have issues or disease…which is in fact what you’d get with a woman that’s easily responsive to “instant sex”. Besides with, just because you don’t meet them at the club doesn’t mean that they ain’t there when you aren’t. The most polite and natural girl next door type that you meet in a library can be a freaky “Girls Gone Wild” type in a club. The thing to realize is that a club environment is it’s very much “state effecting” The booze, music, lights, casual atmosphere and sexually provocative clothing worn by everyone around them creates a state where inhibitions are lower than what they are during the more mundane hours of the day.
That’s why I hate number closes during clubbing, it can be really on in the moment while she’s in that state but the next day when her hair is messy and she has no makeup, stone sober and doing her dishes she’s not in the same state of mind that she was when she gave you her number…she won’t see you the same way and is likely to not answer/return your calls. Likewise the sluttiest looking girl in a club can be a total bookworm during the day. They don’t live there, they’re actually step outside the club and have lives that are very different from the few hours a week they’re shaking their ass in a club. So you could very well be meeting those same girls, just not in the same environment/state as they would be in the club. But if getting the to point and going straight for sex and worrying about the rest later is what you want, then get some English Laundry shirts, get your hair done up and hit the club because that’s when you’re most likely to get what you want. The Madonna and the Whore obsession will slow you down.
“I don’t want a loose moraled slut…just a girl that will have sex with me the day we meet and worry about getting to know me afterwards”
I totally agree. Reaffirming what you said its pretty much downright oxymoronic to want to find a girl that will easily have sex with you yet shes a girl next door type. Too many people want the cake and eat it too and in this case it simply won’t work.
I guess you guys are right. It is very very tough to find “good” clean girls that wants quick flings, and then think about a long term scenario afterward
I know my friend, and mores the pity for this sad joke that fate has played upon mankind.
But in all seriousness it’s really just a matter of getting both your heads on the same page, and tossing out a lot of repressive thinking heaped upon men by both puritanical morality and radical gender feminism at the same time.
I never assume a girl I meet in a library is a prudish bookworm and I never assume a girl dancing in a club is a walking incubator for social diseases. It’s all bullshit labels people on both sides of the sexual revolution use to control behavior.
Well, I tell them I have one, when they ask. However, I need something more of instant sex, haha
… Why can’t they make it fun, go to bed with me, and then think about all that stuff later? I am thinking TUTH and IS might make them more into one nighties. Unfortunately, a few sweet white and asian girls in early 20’s become distant if I add TUTH to AMMO or TUTH itself, haha. I don’t know if I should ditch ammo, IG or A314? Go for something mega anone like 5 drops of NPA?
