I work in an environment where 80% of my co-workers are males!!
Yes yes … there are some cute guys lol … but it’s difficult for them to take me seriously, if I am too feminine they think I can’t handle the job, if I am (well, not sure what to call it) less feminine?! … they treat me like one of the guys (which I hate). I want them to feel I am just as capable, and still see me as a lady.
I’ve been playing around with IH, IO, Instant Shine and MX134.
When I use the IH + IO + IS combo, they tend to treat me like one of the guys . With the IH + IO + MX134 they were more helpful then usual, some behave more gentlemanly etc …
Is it a bad idea to use IS in my situation?
What other pheros should I be adding to my mix?
I don’t think it’s the IS that’s the culprit here…If you use a combo with IH + IO + IS you have great social boosting, you’ll be chatty and you shine…but it wont make them realise that you aren’t one of the guys, you’re actually female!
I work in a male dominated field too…I use IS/b, CTTM2 and IS as my daily combo…The CTTM2 will basically do what your IO + IH do together, but…they key ingredient for me is the IS/b That’s the one that gives the “hey, this one is female” vibe to the guys…
I have a feeling this is the reason your second combo of IH + IO + Mx134 works better with the lads too. The Mx134 is a phero that’ll give alpha female and respect vibes… They pick up on that and I think that’s why you notice they are more helpful (because men like helping females ) and gentleman like…it’s the feminine vibe with a respectful twist working here, not the IS making you one of the guys…
Try this combo… IO + IS + Mx134…see what that does
OK, my wife supports around 40 rough and ready guys who dig holes in the road for a living, she works in an office with a dizzy tart who should, in many people’s opinion, be buried in one of the holes!
Her daily mix is Instant Shine to brighten her demeanour and well being, MX135 or IS/A and MX300 (the update for MX134). The MX135 or IS/A gives a touch of sexy, it makes the guys super compliant and eager to do her bidding ( you try sending a 6’4" Neanderthal out in the rain to dig a hole) and the MX300 gives her enough ‘respect’ that the flirting from the guys doesn’t go any further than she is comfortable with. A little flirting is always good
This mix seems to give her a lot of leeway, she can adjust the situation quite significantly just by adjusting her attitude, stamp down hard on the guys who need it yet charm free cakes out of some of the others.
Plus, it really pisses the other girl off when she turns up in a miniskirt and strappy vest top when it’s minus 6 only to be ignored by all the guys who are talking to the older, married and most definitely, unavailable woman
Hi Xiphoid, at first that’s what I thought too … I tried the IO + IS + Mx134 + IH.
2 sprays of IO, wrist n hair,
1 spray of IS n MX134 each to my hair,
1 spray IH to back of my neck …
The men treat me like one of the guys (which makes me wonder if IS has a stronger effect than MX134 since I use the same amount), but the admin ladies didn’t seem to like me on the days I tried this combo. I sense a little hostility haha … on the first 2 days, the 3rd day I didn’t notice anything special so I stop trying this combo.
I have not purchase CTTM2 … since it work so well for you, think I will get that on my next purchase, and test it with my IS/B
But how does the females respond, any hostility?? Lol
… but it’s difficult for them to take me seriously, if I am too feminine they think I can’t handle the job, if I am (well, not sure what to call it) less feminine?! … they treat me like one of the guys (which I hate). I want them to feel I am just as capable, and still see me as a lady. 
That’s the one that gives the “hey, this one is female” vibe to the guys…
