Well, it is also how we respond to how we are treated by others. Some women I guess buckle when a guy expresses that he feels she is weak.
Some guys, fatherly or rescuer types, maybe, I would guess would be very attracted to TAH and it’s soft, feminine vibe. My husband hates it… or rather, he hates me wearing it. Every time I’ve tried it he’s tried to bull me over like he was a mack truck. He’s definitely a TAL kinda guy who wants a strong woman beside him. He doesn’t want to take care of me, he wants to respect me. And for him, he definitely has no respect for a soft, kittenish woman.
But, I haven’t tried to wear TAH with EST. With his over-the-top caretaking behavior when I wear EST, it could be an interesting experiment.
But I’ve often wondered why he would be so awful to me on TAH and so very perfect with me with EST? I have no clue.