my SO hates TAH too.
adores TAL.
i still dont get the over the top care-taking behaviour with ANYTHING,
but i didnt get that pregnant,either.
maybe how we respond to others treating us as weak is a factor,
but the bottom line is that people who equate femininty as weak will have issues with TAH.
when you think about it,
it makes more sense to say a man doesnt prefer overly feminine women, and then doesnt choose one,
then to say they must be treated disrespectfully.
sigh
i guess i just disagree with the programmed behaviour.
im not complaining about my SO not liking TAH and equating the peace and love vibe as weak, because i dont wear it around him.
if he behaves disrespectfully and i can connect it to TAH,
then im very aware he has issues because there is never a reason to be disrespectful.
i guess i see it like
i personally do not prefer a guy who is sporty.
i dont equate them with anything special and i dont get excited in the company of sportstars (we see alot of them in florida).
but i wont be disrespectful either.
i just never see a good reason to be disrespectful.
TAH is definately a molecule that pulls a person’s character out.
i also think regular exposure to TAH may create an affinity for it.
i think im going to experiment in that vein…