Exactly, and - for social situations, not work or other business-y functions - I love the reactions I get with TAH, because everyone is enjoying themselves more. I’ve never had a negative reaction to TAH in a social/romantic situation. I should add that I get moderate (not over-the-top) TAL-type reactions without wearing pheros.
My own experience doesn’t really validate the theory about people’s reactions to TAH having anything to do with their discomfort with certain aspects of femininity; I think it just has to do with what kind of expressions of male/female duality make their lights come on. 