I am so new to this thing that I have just found out about pheromones a few days ago purely by acident. In fact, I was researching perfumes and found the link to this forum on yahoo answers.
Here is a little bit about me. My name is Anabele, I am almost 26 and from Sydney. I feel a little embaraced as there are lot of people here a lot younger and already experienced pheromone users. So, why do I want to start with pheros? Well, I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years now. He is slightly older than me (37 yrs) and such a player. And I am head over heels about him even after 3 years. However, things are not as they used to be. Lately, we rarely see each other. I am really scared that I will lose him as he is the best thing that ever happened to me. He used to say the same, but not anymore. So, you get my point. Primarily, I wish to start with pheromones to see if it will help get our relationship back on track. I hope I don’t sound too shallow., because believe me I am not. I am just in love. Too much.
About my personality, I am slightly shy, and even more around him. He likes it though and finds it sexy. Even at my age, I have this innosence about me that people find attractive. I am quite dependable and like to be taken care of . People say I am flirtatious, but really that comes so natural to me and often I am not even aware of it. I would like my men to see this in me though.
So, I think this is sufficient about my intentions and why I want to start experimenting with pheromones. If, not just let me know.
Now, as any newbie, I have no idea what product to start with. I have read a few posts about the EOW being the best bet for starters like myself. However, I have read some reviews on other websites and women complaining about the smell of it . So, any advice is very appreciated and I hope to soon become an expert like most of people here.
Thank you everybody in advance and hope to be part of this lovely community.
I’m not sure if pheros can help. If the relationship’s dying… maybe you just need to get a bit more confidence and find a man who’s better for you? I think maybe your lack of confidence is holding you back, in a relationship which isn’t so good for you…
Try Instant Honesty to help bring the issues out into the open. For self-confidence and dealing with shyness, try Instant Shine and perhaps Come Talk To Me to get guys talking to you and approaching you. I like Instant Shine, and wear it often. You might also get some results with Instant Sexiness from the women’s line.
not sure I agree with that… 3 years Is a long time to just blow it all!
but then again you say he is a player… are you living an open relationship?
Equal rights for all ???
If the rules of the game are not straight, the deck of cards is going to fall.
Hm, I am not chasing him and I am confident, very confident .
You probably know the feeling of such powerfull, consuming love that you become paranoid and are afraid to lose someone. I however do not show this and mostly keep it to myself.
Yes, he is a player which is the main issue. Type of guys that get bored quickly, unfortunatelly. We do not have an open relationship, I personally am strongly against that.
He is very sexual (as am I) and we had an incredible chemistry between us. But with time, it decreases. So, I just want to bring this back, to be drawn to him as I used to. Because I know it is somewhere there.
Welcome MarsVenus!! You already be one of the awesome member in the forum. Remember to read the sticky post and the links that indicate to specific topics and last but not least, buy few products to test it out if truth or different from it. Enjoy your day!
are you living together?
what are the next steps that you have planned together?
that’s the thing about relationships… they have to grow… move in one direction or another…
do you have a goal?
Describe your relationship a bit. What do you like doing together…
How does it work at home… How are tasks at home divided?
-Classic Gender roles: she does the dishes, cooking and laundry while he goes to work?
-Planing a family or living the life? do you want children? Does he?
what other goals do you have?
are you fighting or just getting bored and living seperate lives that are drifting apart?
Believe me, I get where you are coming from and do not think you are at all shallow. Relationships on a whole take work and with time things happen. Judging from your personality , I would say opposites attract and so you got yourself an aggressor to match your soft, sexy personality.
It is very natural to be scared especially nowadays when we ladies have to up our game and do what we can to keep our man. We have to ensure we keep their attention and keep their sometimes straying eyes on us.
First of, I would not go about worrying about EOW for now.
The first product I would recommend is instant honesty because this will help to bring you guys closer together , it has definitely helped my player ex be more cuddly and open with me. It is used to bring about intimacy and deeper levels of conversations.
The next product or products will be instant sexiness/ a and b. A gives of a more aggressive angelie jolie type vibe whereas b is more soft, sensual like yourself. You will want to try both. He may like the soft,shyness about you but being an aggressor once in a while will blow his mind especially if he doesn’t expect it.
Hold the sweet Angela close but experiment with the other side of you. wink wink Try some new things to keep the bedroom alive and keep us updated.
Mickaelia thank you for your help, I will definitely give Instant Sexiness a go! What is you view on Lust After Me? Should I try this as well? And also are there any romantic pheromones rather than sexual, as I would like to put them both to the test?
. People say I am flirtatious, but really that comes so natural to me and often I am not even aware of it. I would like my men to see this in me though.
. So, any advice is very appreciated and I hope to soon become an expert like most of people here.
Great!