Want to get back with ex, who just got dumped

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports
1

Hello all. I’m an older newbie, in my early 50s. I asked before on what product to use to give me the best chance of getting back with my ex, and now it appears that I have the opportunity. She replied to an email I sent her on a non-related issue, and in her reply, she told me she’s going through a difficult break-up that is very recent, and is trying to heal from a lot of emotional pain. That hints to me that she may have gotten dumped (I also was the one who broke up with her), so I have an opportunity to get back with her.

From everything I’ve seen here, it sounds like Turn Up the Heat, probably the double-strength version, is what would be best to use, since I want to get sexual with her again. Should I stick with just TUTH, or should I mix it in with something else designed to get a sexual response? I’m not sure what to make of her telling me about the breakup, unless she’s advertising me to that she’s available again and hoping that I’ll take the bait (which, as you can see, worked!)

Thanks in advance for your advice! By the way, has anyone had trouble with online ordering? I tried to order yesterday, and it did everything but take my credit card information. I use Mozilla Firefox, not Explorer, so I wonder if that might be the problem.

2

A314 is a good one with ex’s IME - Trust, confidence, status and respect all in one. Combine it with with something sexual like Ammo, TUTH or IJ, depending on age, and/or something bonding like IH or P74 and you have a very useful tool.

However, you have to understand what caused the breakup in the first place and how you can go beyond/avoid that situation again.

Of and if it is any help, A314, P74, IH and Ammo had my late 30s ex behaving very inappropriately towards me in front of her new man and the next time I saw her, A314, P74, IH and IJ had her ditch him and propose to me within an hour of exposure! :wink:

3

A314 + pretty much, anything, will give you a good shot. You went at TUTH, does that mean you’re wanting sex ONLY, or a relationship? How is the target?

Hey, Mob! Can I get the recipes for those two mixes, please!?!? :wink:

4

I’ll dig back through the posts M&M - I have certainly put up the “proposal” one before. :slight_smile:

5

probably not what you want to hear----forget the mones in this situation!!!

if she just ended a relationship, SHE IS ON THE REBOUND! i repeat: REBOUNNNDDDDDD

leave her alone, allow her to heal BY HERSELF or you will have sloppy seconds aka half a relationship

she will look for anything or anyone to release her of the bad feelings of a bad relationships. once she uses you to feel better and get her ego boost, she will leave you (u left her before rit?). karma is a biatch.

the fact that she told u about her breakup after emailing her about an “unrelated issue” shows that she is flooded with emotions.

emotions that she may need help to process, but not from u. maybe from herself, God, a psychologist etc etc etc but not from you.

its not fair for you to confuse her even more wen she is trying to figure herself out. and then to ADD MONES ON TOP OF THAT CONFUSION???

recipe for disaster.

i would normally recommend the old hit it and quit it tactic but she is in a fragile mindset and that would not be a good road to take=bad karma for you. if u want her for just sex, look somewhere else.

i’m not saying u guys cant rekindle whatever was there…

im just saying, give her like three months to breathe and find herself again outside of the relationship. give her space.

dont be a best friend. dont be a f*ck buddy.

be an acquaintance (meet up for coffee every once in awhile). she will appreciate you so much more this way.

her mind has to catch up with her heart (let her figure out what went wrong in the relationship, what she did do well, what she should have improved on, etc. her heart needs to heal and her brain has to process the situation by repeating it over and over and over in her head lol. u know how it goes :wink:

if she rebounds with some other dude besides you, the universe blessed you with a favor…she is only goin to end up givin half a torn heart to some other poor smuck.

im sure she is an AMAZING person but please…

allow her to evolve by herself and u can be the knight in shining armor after she slays HER own dragons. allow her to do inventory of herself.

for all u kno, she could use you for emotional support but on the side secretly patching things up with the ex. u’ll give her best of both worlds. and as soon as your done making her feel better, she’ll hop rit in the sack back wit that dude or any given person.

do both of u guys a favor and give her time to evolve by herself and you will have an amazing woman at the finish line.

with all due respect brotha man, im only 23 compared to your 50 yrs of wisdom and experience…

but hey its my 2 cents :slight_smile:

6

No need, Mob, thanks!

When I’m up to it, I’ll just dig through your work.

7

A lot of good sense there Joe :slight_smile:

8

I nominated this post because it is honestly one of the most well thought out posts I’ve read about dealing with someone who’s going through a break up…this hit real close to home for me and Steeler Girl.

She just got out of a bad relationship…baaaad. She didn’t want anything serious, but it was kinda hard to NOT get serious with the amount of time we spent together and the plans SHE made for us for like the next year.

Even after all that, you’re right Joe. She only had half a heart. She just wants to play and be “alone” for a bit. But she enjoyed my company so much, she wanted to spend a lot of time with me and we did. We spent a lot of time. People just felt like we were on that road to marriage even though it was way too soon to tell.

I wasn’t a very patient man at all and couldn’t understand this emotional unavailability she had at times, and even though I knew its what she was going through, I was still like..“man up and move on!”

Who knows. Maybe she and I could have had an extremely healthy relationship a year from now. It wasn’t one now, and I don’t know if it was because of some mental defect with her, me, or the both of us, or just because she was still processing it all.

9

Well, she suspects the other guy was cheating on her, and he is also bipolar, so between those two things, the relationship ended. To be honest, I don’t know if she got dumped or if she was the one who dumped him, I only suspected that she got dumped, but if she thinks he was cheating, then she probably broke it off herself, because any time a guy’s done that to her, in the past, she’s the one who breaks it off. She said his bipolar condition complicated things. They only dated about six months. I can’t see her going back to him, because she has never been able to trust someone enough to be in a relationship with them again once she’s found out they were cheating on her, so from my point of view, giving her three months to get over things is only going to give some other guy a chance at a relationship with her, and I want to get back with her and give a relationship with her another shot.

10

I’ve been suggesting, for a long time, that situations like this might benefit from TAF. So far as I am aware, nobody has done the definitive test. I think of it as the “see him again for the first time” pheromone. I’ll probably get yelled at by someone for recommending TAF to a newbie, but I think it is right for this situation. Of course, it is usually the person who got dumped who is trying to get back, but the other way around it could work, too. It will affect the wearer as well, so be sure this is what you want.

Otherwise, I’ll just echo what others have said about A314 and the suggestion to carefully review the reasons why you dumped her in the first place!

If trust is an issue with her, IH should have absolutely magical effects in that regard.

TUTH can be a double edged sword. Not all of us get positive effects from it. Make sure you’ve had enough experience wearing it (around women who aren’t so important to you) so you know what to expect. Otherwise, you might spoil this opportunity forever.

Also, I placed a credit card order, yesterday, using Mozilla Firefox with no trouble… :confused:

11

Hmmmmm.

Around what mcg do you recommend Warren?

12

Really TAF ??? I never noticed a “first time” vibe from it, its tends to make me focus on the person more but not give me a new again vibe.

Did you pair it with something to get this new again vibe ? I tend to get that feeling from bnols.

Thing with TAF is if there is anything negative to focus on (which I usually try to ignore) it will make them as sharp as the positives.

I will have to give it a go again. I cant use much because I react badly to it but I dont think you really need a whole lot with this one.

Tisha

13

I’d suggest a shot of IH, and a discussion where you let her know your feelings and desire to get back together.

She already has an idea of who you are. Plant the possibility in her mind and let her mull it over.

14

Regardless, with mones, you’re gonna have to test all the suggestions and guesses, and see what happens. :wink:

A314, IS and IH, when you spill the beans, is my input. Who am I? Nobody.

But wait a minute! I am somebody! I’m PETEY PABLO, mofo!!! :roll_eyes:

15

I’m guessing 20-25mcg of TAF.

I suspect that what you perceive as focus is lack of habituation, so you continue to attend to something/someone which you might otherwise lose interest in. I don’t think it would provide a helpful focus for doing math, for example.

One of the best TAF examples is Mark’s P100-TAF house cleaning formula:

And it works for pornography. :stuck_out_tongue: Playboy and Penthouse put out new magazines every month because by then one is ready for new material. With TAF the old stuff is still exciting. (Works with on-line porn as well.)

It’s harder to do the same experiment with people because, unlike still photos, people do change. It’s like that saying, “You can’t step in the same river twice.” I do believe that women who were just about burned out on Warren have had their interest piqued again, by TAF containing mixes. I have not, however, had the acid-test “opportunity” of trying to win back an ex.

I also remember that when I was getting massage therapy regularly, I could spray some TAF on part of my body and when the masseuse would get there she would just stay there and massage that one muscle for the rest of the hour and then be shocked when time was up! :open_mouth: This happened several times on several different muscle groups.

16

Hello Friends…

First of all its not a good thing to ditch someone in love..Because you should have to pay it back in future…But if you got realized that you have done the wrong thing and wants to get back your love again then you have to win the faith of the ex lover again…which is a very difficult task…

Alma Blair..

Looking for the perfect date click: Dating Sites and UK Dating Sites.

17

Insert massage parlor jokes here