Hi, sorry for posting here but I think it’s the most appropriate place, I apologise if it isn’t, let me know and I’ll delete it or ask a mod to delete it for me.
I’m a single white male, alpha unless there’s a stronger alpha present, what does that make me? LOL! I don’t have any pheremones in my arsenal yet, just waiting for the order to arrive.
Anyway, I was out in Perth, Western Australa a weekend or two ago. Fun evening of chatting to randoms in a live music venue in Northbridge, the entertainment precinct. I wasn’t out to pull. I’d had a bit to drink and over the road from the music venue is a pole dance/lap dance venue, so I headed in.
Here’s the thing. The club is owned and run by a beautiful, intelligent woman with a strong personality. I recognised her from having been on local TV a few times, she’s known for more than running this bar. Believe me, this woman is wealthy enough not to have to be working the floor, this isn’t her only club, but she was the consummate hostess, making sure both clients and staff were being well looked after, and it was a busy Saturday night.
It was a real pleasure watching her work. She was warm and welcoming (and kind), and not above flirting, but her word was absolute law. She woud speak and whatever she said was above question, it was her way or the highway. Weeks later and I’m still impressed by it, not in a sexist way at all like in the talking dog joke, but the power of her personality, her poise and deportment, just wow.
Now OK this might sound sexist, because both men and women are more than capable of this from within themselves, but apart from seeing her on local TV a few times I had never met her before, until 30 seconds after I entered the club, at which point I was awestruck at her competence, her fluidity, her force. Is it possible she’s a client here and is using pheremones? I don’t care if she was, I plan on doing the same myself so I can’t be hypocritical about it.