I’m 29 years old (approaching 30 in November). I’m Friends with Miss Dragon.
I currently work for an insurance agency & I am going to school part time to become a Dietitian.
I’m short & sassy. I love being social, I am an extrovert. I enjoy deep conversations. My favorite thing to do is dance. I love being outdoors.
I became fascinated with pheromones several years ago. I did some searches online on ways to naturally boost your pheromones but I could only find information on how guys could boost their pheromone production.
I chose to stop using scented soaps & body wash. I decided I wanted to let my natural pheromones do the talking. I did find an article online about a perfume that attracts guys but is not pheromone based (Eau Flirt). I actually hate the way it smells & I pair it with a perfume I do like. All the women tell me I smell good & the men do show an increased interest.
Women that I talk to have mentioned different pheromone based perfumes but I was always more interested in what kind of pheromones they were & if they could go well with me instead of some generic pheromone.
Miss Dragon & I were talking & she told me about these products & this forum. I can say right away I am very interested in trying out Instant Sexiness B. Mostly because men tend to be very intimidated by me. They already see me as a strong, confident, and self sufficient.
I have never had a man feel like he should protect me (if anything I’ve had guys say I should protect them - even though I am NOT a buff woman!). Really I would like a guy to see me as someone who needs protection at times, and more of someone they would like to cuddle with!
So, it would be an interesting experiment for me to try the Instant Sexiness B since I seem to naturally put off the other.
I like the IS/b for the sexy vibes, like a sex kitten. From the receiving point of view, I’m just looking mesmerized at my LTR. Good vibe, this one!
For the Intimidation… I would also add IShine. Comfortable to be around you, good to be with you vibe, IShine takes you there.
Don’t forget about the Reward points for referrals… Check it out.
Thank you for your advice, 1Alpha! I will try paring Instant Shine with Instant Sexiness B and see if that helps guys be less intimidated by me!
I mean, it is a compliment when I guy doesn’t want to offend you and put his best foot forward - but then it goes farther than that and a guy is unwilling to make a move because he’s so intimated by who I am.
It’s weird, the more calm I try to act to try and help a guy loosen up the more he reads that as my being confidant and the more nervous he becomes.
I did think Instant Shine would be nice to wear at work. I’m currently working in a call center; it’s a small group of four women cooped up in a room closed off from the rest of the office making calls to the generally grumpy public.
Clearly the people on the phone would not be affected by my wearing Instant Shine, but I figured it may help lighten my mood when I deal with difficult people - and perhaps lighten the mood of the other ladies in the room, too.
Hey, Alpha! I totally forgot about that referral thing, thanks for reminding me!
And Sunset, you should read up about the crash that typically happens after using IS. You’ll need to play around with it to make it really work for you. Some people can counter the crash by topping off with more IS, but that doesn’t work for everyone. The most reliable way to make it effective would be to wait and apply it during the last few hours of the day, so that by time the crash hits, work is over. Either that, or save it for moments when tensions are particularly high, and everyone could use an emergency jolt of pleasantness. I used it that way at the Moores’ house once, you can read about it in my journal. This reminds me…I really should buy some more IS…
Also, as far as IS/B is concerned…you mentioned to me that you don’t want to wear it to work because of the sexual pheros. Probably a good decision. If you decide that you like the effects of the TAH in the IS/B, and you think it might be helpful at work, you could always order some straight TAH for work. But then, be mindful of your audience. The way men respond when exposed to your TAH will be different from the way it causes women to interact with you. Moral of my story: experiment, and have fun!