If a person wants increased confidence start a fitness regimen and get into shape. You will be suprised at how good it feel to see the fruits of your labors and efforts. Not only is staying active good for you it is a great way to meet women. What ever it may be dancing, hip hop, jazz,tango, waltz,break etc. Or it may be going out for a jog in the park. Staying active is good for you and can help you build that self confidence. But if you want a temporary confidence use IJ.
I was just watching a few David DeAngelo videos, and he says that there is a part of us that already knows everything about how to attract women, we just have to learn to use it.
Psychedelics are well known for their ability to tap into unused parts of the psyche. Perhaps a threshold dose of shrooms before going out to pick up girls would allow you to tap into your inner game? I know from experience that a threshold dose greatly increases confidence, so it makes sense.
While you may not advocate LSD, it is indeed more efficient in changing behaviors and thought patterns for the better. Mushrooms may show me what I want from myself and give me a little sample, LSD gives me the whole package.
The problem is actually getting real LSD over the crap people sell in place of LSD. Most people that think they have done LSD in the US have done a very weakened version with mostly speed and very little actual LSD. :o
I think it is a good start… working out a lot when I was around 20 -21 helped me build some confidence. I started to feel better about myself.
However, nothing matches REAL LIFE success. Seeing and experiencing it yourself makes you REALLY believe in yourself, and that is when your confidence can exponentially grow. Be patient and work hard; many times, things will go your way, and that it when things will take off Just my two cents.
That’s a nice topic, very useful for some guys (and gals) I think. I think everybody has their moments, and situations, when they lack confidence.
For me, it used to more work/studies related, where I always tried to be a perfectionist…there was always something more I could have done to make the project/interaction/presentation (whatever) better…
Slowly I realized that “caring too much” is a huge drawback. In fact, “too much” of ANYTHING is a drawback I don’t care how you slice it. So even if it had always been in my nature to be super caring, extra nice (etc…) I forced myself to care less and be more balanced in anything I do or feel (not too much or too little of anything), and it’s worked wonders ever since.
People who don’t do them, or understand them will never therefore, understand the value of them. Johns Hopkins has many ongoing current studies RIGHT NOW about the values of psilocybin mushrooms and how it helps people overcome fear. Fear is directly linked to lack of confidence.
I think the laws in this country are archaic and stupid. My friend was just sentenced yesterday for possessing two mushrooms. It was a felony that surpassed crack, meth and every other drug. He is now a convicted felon and he even got the judge to admit this was the worst law he had ever ruled over. Don’t do mushrooms unless you are willing to improve your life. Most people aren’t. Don’t do mushrooms unless you are willing to go to jail. Most people aren’t. Don’t do mushrooms unless
Not to mention all the original research on MDMA. As a therapeutic, the original documentation from decades ago; has patients gratefully amazed at the relief and release of various deep seated anger issues, personal trauma, PTSD (now we have a name for it) and the Israeli army has used it to ‘debrief’ soldiers coming home for furlough. They understand that those returning have been to places (mentally) the rest of us - thankfully - will never comprehend; and the necessity of actually doing something to help soldiers readjust to “normal” life.
All of these ridiculous policies apparently, date back to Richard Nixon’s governmental policies and agendas.
Sorry, for the effects that can be achieved with a responsible approach, I’m on this side of the fence. Penalites being what they are, each has to do their own examination of what they consider reasonable risks. You would NOT believe the ridiculous penalties for 420 offences in my home state are. Absolutely nutty in the extreme and your and your friends LIVES can be ruined over a bit of herb! And yet, consumption and production has NOT slowed down. Irony?