Slight followup on my situation (damn, I should probably start a journal for all of this lol), we’re communicating more, she’s relaxing a bit and having fun with her friends. All good. Here lately, she’s been telling me that she’s been in a “touch-me-not” mood. Not even sexually, she literally doesn’t want ANYONE touching her. It could be from being stressed, I’m not sure. We don’t drink much at home, or I’d be busting out the blender and making margaritas. Neither of us smokes pot (she doesn’t smoke period), so that’s out, so I thought I’d look here. I know that a lot of the products here can relax women’s “comfort bubble”, is there one that would just put her more at ease? I was thinking along the lines of IFM or Openness, but MX272 looked promising, possibly with MX292…ideas?
I thought I came across this sometimes today lol
I hope the PM I sent was somewhat helpful 
Instant female magic + Instant shine
While I would normally recommend staying away from the mixes to fix an issue (the effects aren’t entirely known), I’d put money down that Smartmones would want to know if they have a mix that DOES help your touch-me-not situation. If you try one out, please do report in! (I’m curious too.)
I think the 2 best space reducers in the consumer line are Ishine and IG. IFM will help when it comes back. Have some AMMO and TUTH on hand to spice up the base. Use IO and IH to get and keep communication open. The one thing you don’t want to do is start switching your signals from one experimental MX to another. After you’ve established a strong pattern and are getting somewhere with the consumer products, then it might be a good idea to spring some “special occasion” experiments. JMHO
One other thing that doesn’t get mentioned a lot is that the androstenols, Alpha androstenol as in IO especially, have romantic lovey dovey overtones in addition (or maybe as part of) the communication aspects.
The forum answers a lot of questions repeatedly and in doing so a new reader can get the idea that the consumer products are one dimensional. They are most certainly not. Each one carries a rich range of effects that I think a lot of folks miss because of excitement of the new stuff. For sensitive situations its even more important to go slowly and really learn what these products do step by step.
That was a great post, renny. I agree, when recommending products to the new users some of the effects can be undersold imo. I’ll often wear Instant Openness with no intention of trying to be “open”, environments where talking isn’t going to happen anyway. Like in a club or cinema.
Why would I wear Instant Openness to a place where people don’t normally talk? Because it’s an attention grabber, very upbeat and smilley (more so than Instant Shine for me), Attractive, Warm and fuzzy, magnetic, soft and cute, leaves a lasting impression that your someone to be around. Instant Openness makes you stand out more than any other product and is the best head turner. With ammo or turn up the heat it’s perfect.
I agree with Renny that you have to keep changing your ‘signature’. Maybe stay with the same thing 2-3 days in order to get a feel for what it is doing and change to something completely different. Don’t forget to leave a few days in there with nothing on. That will be the hardest part of all, but it is essential that everyone’s synapses and senses get a rest once in a while.
In your situation, I would consider Come Talk To Me. IH, Come Talk To Me, and IO are the same basic chemicals mixed in different proportions. CTTM is down the middle without several of the ‘steering’ molecules. You are going to need her to have both openess and honesty. There is some deeper psychological component to “don’t touch me” that you need her to tell you about. You don’t need to do anything when she tells you. You don’t even need to recognize that she has shown you the key. (Maybe it’s even better if you don’t realize it. We are guys. We fix things. That is not what she wants.) You do have to be listening intently, emapatheticly, compassionately. The fact that she could safely expose this intensly personal part of herself to you makes a trusted intimate. And you will progress from there.
Renny and Perronec are on the beam with IFM. I would second that. Or is that third it? Greatstuff but it does have a distinctive aroma and will need at least a neroli product or preferably a cologne for cover.
Here’s an idea to increase her exposure and get her involved with all this. Tell her that you want to take her out for a really nice evening. Something really nice. The opera, a baseball game, her bowling night, whatever works for y’all. Pick a date a month or so out. Stop at the perfume counters at the department stores once a week. They’ll give you a couple little sample vials of different colognes. Next day tell her you have been thinking about this and you’d like to find a cologne you can wear on that evening that she will really like. Something completely different. You want her to tell you what she thinks of some of these. That way at least once a day she leans in for good whiff (for the sake of research of course) and you have a reason for what are actually the cover scent (plus dispersion and sillage) for your pheros.
Remember though, you really do have to come through with a nice evening. Rent the limo, the tux, whatever you need to do. Get yourself dressed right (whether it is your style or not) otherwise she’ll have you dressed up like a barbie doll.
You know what to do. Step up. Handle it.
Maybe I was less than clear. I’m saying use the “space reducers” as the main part of your signal. Use the other products as additions on a rotating basis to keep your signal fresh as my friend OoohYahh suggests. Change it around slowly, but keep it interesting.
Wow, getting some great responses here! So far, I’m leaning towards IFM and Instant Honesty. What would the advantages be in this situation in using Instant Honesty over Instant Openness? I was originally leaning towards IO along with IFM. However, more people keep suggesting IH over IO.
Highly honored by the TOTW nomination, BTW. Thanks!