I use IG, TUTH, and CTTM. I am close to a lovely lady at the moment, but when I wear any of those she becomes very nasty towards me. Verbally aggressive and sometimes physically aggressive. What pheros should I be using? She is a thai girl who is 31 who lives in UK. any advice?
can you gives more info in the quantity you apply of each mones, has well has your age and the strength of the bottles you have?
when I order I always go for the recommended strength which is normally the weakest. i.e. tuth is 2.5 mcg. I use one spray of each on the neck. Im 27 British lad.
And you always used 1 spray each side of your neck, with this girl?
did you felt the smell was getting weaker and resprayed anytime?
Very occasonally I may use 2 sprays, but thats maximum as I dont want to OD. Im wondering whether its the choice of mones?
I am asking this because I have one similar situation, but the reason for mine was that I once od on this girl, and since then she is very aggressive to me. Also the mones make her aggressive, she is a bartender and since she is in her working place when I met her she is very protective, I also been a jerk, because I’ve been a nice guy many times and I dont want to enter in the friends zone, I know she also isnt undiferent to me, or else she would treat me like everyother client wich she dosent, what happens, is that when she see me automatically enter in defensive mode towards me.
This is actually a good thing, is very very dificult to get her do anything I want or go to a more secluded place and more intimate. But when and if this happens, she will defensless aggainst me, and I can walk the walk and talk the talk, cuz I have already been a jerk and she knows what she is getting into.
Also being aggressive is how some girls react to liking someone, I had a a girl that when she liked someone the way she would break the ice is starting to punch this person on the shoulder.
Can you tell me more of the place and how do you meet this girl?
My life lesson #341,582 was/is this: if anyone behaves explosively, violently, erratically, is or becomes so self focused they cannot or will not adhere to social norms, or is disrespectful/abusive without a very good reality based reason…
Do not pass go. Leave. Depart. Terminate all unnecessary communication. Drop off the key. Get yourself free. Disconnect. Get the fuck out of there. Don’t make excuses for their behavior or rationalize hanging around them. They have issues than run a lot deeper than pheromones. The pheros might be “helping” that person uncover a part of their personality they learned to keep generally out of sight.
Chances are very slim that such a personality will improve without professional help. Unless you are a psychiatrist, don’t try to fix the situation.
This kind of self absorbed, impossible personality will exhaust you on every level. protect your energy levels. Don’t, don’t, don’t associate with people who eat your energy.
Buy these book, read them, and keep their lessons close at hand. Or suffer. Needlessly.
Or you could laid off the frickin’ androstenone and see if it helps. Androstenone is well known to bring out flight or fight behavior. But ultimately Tacitus has a point. The mones are not to blame. It’s just her. They merely brought what was already there to the fore. Accept it or move on. I had a GF whom androstenone drove totally apeshit: verbal abuse, extreme mood shifts and generally mean behavior. And the best fucking I’ve ever had. So, if the nasty is paired with sexually nasty it might be worth the burn, at least for a while.