I love you, Sugar. Hahahahaha
About the game… I’m sorry, but that’s never worked on me. I don’t call or contact people. I don’t chase. If he’s not interested enough to do the chasing, it’s no deal. The things guys do to supposedly mess with the female psyche… it just makes me laugh. It’s so transparent! I actually get insulted when a guy talks to me that way. I’m immediately put off, and you know what I do later? I laugh with my friends about it.
Apparently though, it works on most girls. 
Whatever works, I guess.
I know what I want in a guy. Usually the ones I’m physically attracted to aren’t what I’m looking for personality-wise, because I go for the cute scruffy ones. They’re usually shy and non-alpha, and I want to NOT be the dominant one in a relationship. I personally hate alpha guys that sit back and let you do all the work. What I want is… girly sigh… a strong silent type that lets loose around me, who’s a great story teller that can make me laugh… slightly more intelligent than a brick… 
As to the flaking thing… you’re in a bar/club, right? What sort of phenomenal relationship do you hope to start at a club? Just doesn’t seem like the proper place to start something serious. It’s basically party time, and women are going to let off some steam and get reactions from men, while having fun with their friends. Some are into one night stands, but you say you don’t want that. Basically, they’re not at a bar/club for you; they’re there for themselves.