She had a pretty restrained life before meeting me. I brought over a porn DVD, amateur couples-style, thinking she might enjoy and maybe learn a little. She had never seen full porn before.
Five minutes into the first scene, where an amateur gal is getting it good and hard from two guys, she turns to me and says, “What’s her problem? Why hasn’t she had an orgasm yet?”
Brother, that should be why SHE loves YOU!
Why you love her would be you turning to her and saying, “what’s her problem?, doesn’t she have any girlfriends?”
Here’s another example, and a first time for me too!
Last night I was over, bringing her gifts of PCC and Pheromax for Women, which we applied to all the right areas. A good preparation for any lovemaking session is to establish manly physical dominance. I had picked her up and twirled her around until she giggled when I first arrived. She always says, “Don’t hurt yourself!” I always reply by tossing her up a few times so she understands on a physical level that what I’m capable of doing what I will.
I often love turning her over my knee (OTK) and giving her a few smacks on the bottom. It has been pretty playful and very light, before tonight.
I had her pinned OTK and continued my light bottom slapping for longer this time. After ***less than *TWO MINUTES, she’s orgasming! When I let her up, she had stars in her eyes and was so lovey-dovey.
I later had her stand in the corner, facing inward, like Dennis the Menace: holding up the back of her negligee and sticking out her bottom. I stood behind her but not touching. She protested that she had been a good girl - what did she do? I told her that this was a preventative - I intended for her to STAY a good girl. We proceeded from there.
Maybe this is just a great match in styles, bodies, and gender attitudes, but everything we do together seems to click between us.
I would hardly call what we have that! No whips, implements, restraints, etc. However, I did buy and read a book with some useful physical and psychological techniques called “Consensual Spanking.”
What is important is that I intend to get a clear understanding between us that “Me Tarzan; you Jane!”
I’m so glad that women no longer have to buy into that feminist illusion crap. Guys, you don’t KNOW what a pain that was in the 70s.
Heh. A friend of mine that I’ve mentioned in a few of the reports is a a brown belt, soon to be a black belt. Her mom’s a massage therapist and so she knows quite a few absolutely diabolical pressure points. The initiation of sex between us usually begins with a playful fight for dominance, and I often win. Sadly, it’s most likely because she lets me. She could probably kick my ass if she wanted to.
There does seem to be general rejection of feminist BS amongst women these days. You still come across feminists but they seem lonely, at least for manly company.
I dumped my first wife for being what I called “an unrepentant hippie.”