ok,So I met this Korean girl like 6 years ago,at that time we hooked up,never had sexual intercourse however she have me oral.Anyhow,we ended up losing touch and about 2 months ago caught up with each other again.
Now we are seeing each other,Ive seen her 2 times in about a month,the first time we ended up kissing pretty passionatly for like 3-4 minutes in the car before I dropped her off.
Then last nite (2nd meeting),we did the same thing,this time she grabbed my shirt collar and pulled me closer when we were kissing.HOwever after a few minutes she said she better get going and she went into her apartment…and didnt invite me in
My question is,what am I doing wrong? obviously shes attracted to me otherwise she wouldnt have given me oral several years back,and she wouldnt be kissing me now.But why cant I close the deal? I really want to have sex with her! lol its killen me…any advice? tips?
Well, with some girls especially Asians, you can’t rush things if the girl is not ready yet. All men (OK may be not all), want to close a “deal” as quickly as they could but if you make a wrong move, you might screw up the whole thing. My advice to you is see her regularly and although I don’t encourage such intention, by being nice and kind to her, you will get what you want.
Nothing. She probably doesn’t want to appear to easy. Most of the time I do the “I got to go” thing because I’m just not ready. There are a series of thoughts we go through. There are situations where…the kiss…just wasn’t right. So she has to think about it… And then the past… we never forget, how he didn’t call, how he didn’t try… etc.
When people stop good pleasure from happening, it’s not about you, it’s about them. They think how you’re going to perceive them, or how it could go wrong. Just got to call and assume the best.
Sometimes when a guy wants us too much, he gives off this “animal I don’t care about your emotions I just want this for me.” Men who haven’t had sex in a while act really weird.
It’s always funny to ask what your male friends think. They usually say, “he just wants to have sex with you, drop him…He’s done this before. Is that the kind of guy you want.” Little do we (women) know that sometimes after we sleep with him, he actually turns into a pussy cat. Asian women, especially are the most confused…
maybe she’s on her period, or some other implication that could go away with time (roommates, guests, parents, i dunno). date her for a few weekends in a row, then see what happens.
use some A314+IShine or A314+Instant Openness, it’ll make you the classic man that she would want to be around. that way she’ll wanna see you every weekend.
oh, i cant believe 3 people started to respond at the same time and pretty much said the same thing too damn, if i didnt talk so much on IM while typing this i would have beat you ALL! reps for everyone!
You’ll get what you want from this girl, eventually. I mean she didn’t bl*w you because she doesn’t like you! She just may not be ready, like sug and Mohammed said, to take the next step and actually have intercourse with you. I have a feeling she’ll let you know when/if she’s ready. If you back off, I think, she’ll come to you. Btw, are you interested in more than jumping this girl? If you are it might help to let her know that. It might be what’s stopping her from ‘going all the way’.
aaah eeeyeah…
greentea, this doesn’t especially pertain to your situation here and, so, is not directed at* you* personally. It’s something that’s crossed my mind several times while reading various reports. Just want to clarify that before I get into trouble!
I know it’s not a popular solution/opinion, but if a guy is feeling …say…how to put this…EXTRA HORNEY?? …and he knows that sex is not likely to occur…it might behoove him to…ahem… personally remedy that problem before he goes out with a girl he really likes or has serious horns for. It could help those who have that problem exercise control so they may be able to…hold back and not be so upset about the lack of success, enabling him to be more successful in the future.
Just give it a thought…running…huff…huff…to hide…huff…in women’s forum…huff…huff…good luck greentea…huff…
I have a bit of a different take on it. I agree with everyones “she is not ready” therory though.
Your what? 28 and you hooked up with her 6 years ago and lost touch with each other. I am assuming she is your age or slightly younger. I am sure she likes you but she has grown up and has life experience now. She is probably looking for something more then just sex and she remembers what happen last time and how the BJ didnt improve her chances of having a relationship with you. She probably dosnt want to make the same mistake again and is looking to see if you care enough about her to stick around when your not getting any.
I think as Bella said she will let you know when she is ready. In the mean time you should be letting her know how you feel about her to make her more comfortable.
Now on the mone front I would use AMMO, IH and IFM
Ammo to up the sexy
IH to create a feeling of closeness
IFM to ease her past her doubts by creating trust and comfort. (alot of guys think this is just for PMS and according to Mharris its not. Its great for easing women into certain situations)
I gave up on using these Pheros,I bought Turn up the Heat and Instant Female Magic and I notice NO difference with how girls react to me.I think the stuff is bogus to be honest. coughPLACEBOcough.
You are intitled to your opinion of course but I will say this..
I have looked back through your posts and you have never really asked for help in getting your products to work or reported on how you have used them so that we can give you some pointers. pheromone products are not for everyone, some people dont have the ability to pick up on hits. Some just dont get the hits because they dont have the patience or ability to work with the products.
So I have to ask where when and how did you test your products? Did you just use them on this one person and determine they dont work because she wont have sex with you ?
Both of the products you have are not easy to work with. Instant Female Magic can calm and ease but thats not easy to see unless your with a female that is uptight and bitchy. It still works its not as obvious.
Turn Up The Heat which is probably to strong for you anyway arouses. But it has been said here, it will not make someone do something against there will. It was suggested in your intro thread that you buy AMMO because of your age. Also when I suggest Turn Up The Heat to you it was suggested that you get Instant Shine to buffer it. Instant Female Magic was only suggested if she was bitchy.
I also got to wonder if you gave up on mones which is fine then why are you asking advice in a mone forum ?
These products are not magic, they give you a edge the rest is up to you and that has been posted again and again in both the store and the forum.
Androtics knows not everyone will like there product or be able to get it to work for them this is the reason for the guarantee. I suggest you use it, but dont judge the products as being bogus just because you failed to make them work to your advantage. We have 1000’s of people here who do make them work to there advantage and its a insult to them.
