hi,
dear i have a problem i’m male.
i have my girlfriend. she is 26,and i’m 24.we know each other from last five year. but in 1st year she responding me afterwards till now i’m waiting…for that moment.
when ever i close to her she is always irritating.i dont know the reason behind this.
we are living in two room set alone. but afterwords why she always deny?
she said i don’t like this sex,romance etc.i always go close to her trying to kiss her but afterwith she deney.
guide me how can i agree her, and if you advise me to use feromone then how?
kindly revert me as soon as possible.
yassar malik
e mail. yassar6@gmail.com
Yassar its hard to say if its pheromone related. Pheromones are just a small part of attraction. You have other factors to consider like compatibility, visual attraction, shared life goals etc etc.
First try talking to her and seeing if she is still interested in being in a relationship with you. If so then you need to explore why she doesn’t like sex. There could be many reasons from fear of pregnancy to discomfort. Most times when I coach people we find a underlying problem that causes disinterest in sex.
IH may help her open up more about this if she is uncomfortable talking about it.
If you find your relationship has just stalled and its not due to some other problem then take a look at ammo or MX200 which is a low dose well balanced anone formula. AMMO would be the best bet but its out right now.
Tisha
I’ve moved this from the Ladies area of the forum and placed it here. I believe you will get better feedback and more of it here.
I’m confused Yassur. So you have both an unresponsive wife and girl friend? Do they know about one another? If so, that may be the problem. When my wife found out about my girlfriend it was no dinner or nookie for me for months. In fact she barely spoke to me for a year. So I gave up the mistress. You may have to do the same.
In my experience such problems are usually not about sex. Instead, a lack of sex is symptom of a more serious underlying problem. Money (usually lack of), power struggle in the relationship and poor communication are the biggies and have befuddled and left me celibate more times than I can recount.
I’ll have to say this is not a matter easily solved by mones. At the very least this is a lapse of communication between the two of you (hence your post here when you should be talking to her). Men tend to be less verbal than women and often underestimate the importance of communication. Many guys think it’s all about action: having a good job, paying the mortgage, buying roses, acting macho, etc. However, women love to talk and talk creates a sense of intimacy and comfort for them, at least more so than it does for men.
You need to talk to both women involved (separately of course) and get to the root of things. Oh and at least pretend like your’e listening to what she has to say. I know that’s hard but it really helps. You may not solve the problem straightway but at least she’ll know she’s important enough to you that you’re willing to try. And that’s a great starting point.
Oh, and don’t use your real name and email address in public posts. You may regret it later.
Ahhh! Welcome to the club Yassar! i have been there.
Pheromones by itself will not do anything. You’ll be surprised to see other women going crazy for you but your wife/gf continue to ignore you until the real problem is fixed.
In these cases it is always a personal guilt or unhappiness that prevents the woman to open up to enjoy whatever God has already given to her. Pushing the issue of lack of intimacy only makes it worse.
Pheros will help you here. First you would have to open her up, let her share her personal problems/guilts/shames etc, help her overcome those and then initiate the intimacy program. This will take some time but believe me that life will be much smoother after that.
You may want to use Instant Honesty with some Instant Shine to have heart-2-heart conversations with her. It will take more than one dialogue. Once you have understood her, you may want to use Instant Shine or A1 occasionally when she is in bad mood or upset. Try not to bring sex and intimacy in between at all. Keep helping her overcome her challenges. Slowely you will start to notice a positive change in her and you. This would be a good time to use Ammo to project a sexy and cool look. TUTH may be used when you really believe that she is willing.
Unless a woman has a desire to have sex TUTH cannot do anything.
And ofcourse, when she is in periods, try to use Instant Shine or A1.
I spent a good one year experimenting with pheros and trying to fix the lack of intimacy issue in my marriage. There were times when I just gave up on my wife because I would find other women dieing to get a piece of me while my wife would continue ot ignore me. Drove me nuts. But eventually I learnt that pheros can really help me fix the root cause of her behaviour and now I believe we are on a positive path.
And since you are a man and need a release more often than women you may want to google fleshlight. It can really come in handy at times.