okay so a friend of mine and i are not on talking terms.
I am 21. She is 25. We were best friends and issues got us separated. We see each other at work consistently. She has a BF almost a year and i am not on talking terms with him or her. I absolutely do not have anything against her and have numerous times apologized to her via text/bought stuff for her/asked her out etc.. all failed. I work with her so i see her often ( we talked like ALL the time consitently via calls/texts/dates etc… before but not anymore. have been “fighing” for a year
I have with me the TESTER bottles of these (the 1x):
Instant Honesty/Shine/Ammo/A314 1.29B/p83(125mcg)/TUTH/Instant Jerk/ Instant Gentleman/Instant Openness/P102 (5mcg).
My about me has been posted before (i am sure you can pull it up). I am more the shy type generally.
I would recommend instant shine and instant openness, maybe instant honesty too since you guys are arguing a but but instant shine will lighten the mood so she might be a bit happier when she sees you, unless u did something really terrible haha, just kidding man but you should try one of those too. instant gentleman is something you can try too but don’t OD, i don’t know how good you are with using mones so maybe just pick 2 or so but again what ever you choose i would make sure instant shine is one of them. Oh and jerk makes you what it sounds like a jerk, well not a complete a** but you would be the jerk the ladies love, ever wonder how a guy that is an ass gets the ladies well that would be basically you but you don’t have to act like a complete a**
Fighting someone’s decisions doesn’t make them like you.
Buying a girl with whom you don’t have a romantic relationship multiple times something is weird behavior. For her there’s the danger that you turn into a stalker.
Leave her alone for a few months and focus on other girls. Afterwards you can try to restart a normal relationship the way johnny360 suggested.
About being a stalker- NOOOOOOO. that will never happen. I just hate losing friends and i aways make 110% effort to get them back into my life. I have bought her items all throughout the times i have known her so it was never unusual to me.
Stop trying to be her friend, or whatever else pulled you apart. Cut her out of your life altogether for a good while, do not contact her again.
That on its own will probably have her making inquiries of you after a while, then when you do end-up in her company, some IG/IO/IS may get her admiring and talking again, or anything involving an IS/IH combo and if you can run to some P74, a hefty dose of that of that can get the best friend vibe going nicely.
Making effort doesn’t mean that you deserve that the person restarts the friendship.
Making a woman multiple times uncomfortable by forcing her to turn you down for a date is bad social behavior. It shows that you care more about your desire to be with her than about her own decisions.
Trying to buy her affection through gifts doesn’t help.
It’s something that you generally shouldn’t do with girls.
It’s not about you.
It’s about her. Maybe also about her boyfriend. There a good chance that her boyfriend doesn’t appreciate it if she gets random gifts from male friends.
Ya dude, stop trying to force it. Move on and Let her deal with her own issues. Not sure why you’re letting drama be part of your life.
Don’t buy her anything, it’s weak behavior.
If she’s being immature and petty then you should be willing to let go of anything negative (her in this case) and move on with your life. Stay positive and cordial if you see her but that’s it. Living your life this way should be able to inspire her to deal with her issues and grow up. And if that doesn’t happen, well who cares… It’s just one person.
rohitiyer10, i am going to just move on. you are right- just one person in this world. I sort of hate having the sensitive part of me. My life is too precious afterall to worry about her. Just wishing her best of life and good bye to her! Thank you guys.
