A314 is a mix of pheromones, and should work for your situation. . .so will IFM.
BUT, you need to do some work too. Take some stuff off her shoulders and put them on yours, but don’t become her b****.
I was in your situation earlier. I don’t have one phermone solution which can work for you. A fairly good combo is A314+IFM+IS. You may want to see my “Pleasant Romatic Mix”.
I feel you need this kind of mix. If the girl you are interested is not that much afraid of losing control then you can try none based products in the mix.
A314 sounds like the plan as for long term and admiration, and Instant Female Magic is the comforter; as for winning back your girl … when you find a product or mix that pulls that off, do let us know.
Sounds like her mind is made up, the ole “it’s not you, it’s me” is kin to the “I got too much going on” line, BUT … there’s always that exception. Sometimes you have to realize when to jump ship, but most importantly … do whatever makes YOU happiest.
Bro, I hate to tell you this but you need some tough love:
Stop being her b**** and start being a man! It’s ok to go with pheros as a support, but trust me if you keep the mindset you have going on I bet pheros won’t work.
Only way to get her back is to move on and keep going with your life, once you manage that you’ll see how much happier and less afraid of not being with her you will be and she will see it too.
“It’s not you it’s me” & and “I’ve got too much going on” means exactly the same, that chemistry is not high enough and you need work on yourself, don’t cling to her, learn from your situation even if it hurts like hell.
Once you got everything in place you will get her back easily, plus she’ll wonder why you aren’t clingy any more and realize what a great guy you are and how much she misses you.
If an attractive, fun girl came up to me and asked me if I was single and wanted to date her, I don’t think a delayed plane flight during a stormy night in the middle of holiday season could stop me, important meeting at 6am or not.
But if that same girl was missing something, either physically or personality-wise, then hell, all of a sudden my calendar is filled waaay up.
I used to be in a similar situation as you. Right now, you might feel like she’s the only one that can make you happy, or that no one else would be satisfactory. The truth is, there are lots of wonderful girls out there that can rock your world! You just gotta let yourself see them. And that will come when you take of your eyes off the girl you can’t have, and start looking around to see who you can have.
I hear the same thing from girls too. Always complaining that they meet jerks that don’t care about them, etc, etc.. or that the guys they meet are always just too nice and never fun. They are never satisfied, because in the end, they aren’t satisfied with themselves. If they simply worked on themselves and become a woman that they can be proud of, all the right (and wrong) men will be flocking to them. And from there, they can just pick and choose who fits them best.
Same goes for men. Become a man you can be proud of. Become a man that you are willing to show to the world. Don’t become someone else, become your own man.
This is true. I separated from my ex. I was stressed too. His negative attitude, complaining and such drove me up the wall. I just kind of hit a negative overload button and I ended it. He was really sweet and supportive of my decision. He held me and told me he would always be there for me. I’m glad he didn’t try to force his “niceness” on me. When I backed off so did he. There were times he was too busy for me too. I read that as “I really hurt him” either that or “he’s playing games.” But I did like the fact that he was the man by bettering himself, finishing school as well as maintaining a impressive career.
I did read that as “he is a catch.” By the time I did get a hold of him I wasn’t sure I wanted to be with him. But since I was single, I realize I could always do a whole lot worse. Needless to say we are back together. And both learned our lessons to making the relationship fun and pleasant. I don’t know how long this will last but I am impressed by him trying to lessen his negative attitude and listening to my wants and desires.
Also, he’s pretty good in bed sooo…I don’t think I want to lose him.
