word of advice for any fathers out there

In all honesty I have needed to abstain from using pheromones for the last few months due to the birth of my second son and here is a cautionary tale as to why.

I have red several times over the past few years that you shouldn’t wear pheromones around children (especially infants) as they are forming identification cues to recognize the common adults in their lives (parents). Although I never wore any full strength mones around him I did apply some for certain meetings or events and even after they wore off over hours and hours he reacted adversely to them.

The proof came over a few days when I had worn A314 oil, 314a, IH and IO (not all together but in different combos over the timeframe). Even after a full day of wear I would come home and pick up my baby and he would burst out screaming within 3 seconds. i would hand him off to other adults in the room and he would calm right down, take him back and he went right back to screaming, etc. (even when he was sleeping).

After taking a day or three off and scrubbing myself raw in the shower I am happy to report that my son now smiles when our eyes meet and I can calm him down relatively quickly at anytime.

Now don’t read this as an indictment of pheromones. They are one of the greatest “inventions” of the 20th century but they must be used responsibly and with respect to their potential power. Don’t start to abandon pheromones because of “what-ifs” but if you do have consistent interaction with children please do so with a note of caution.

hope this may help in some way

Solid advice and something Jasmin has been advocating for a very long time :slight_smile:

Interesting. I was holding a 5 month old baby recently whilst wearing a combo of MX and a bit of IS and it tried to suckle on my ample bosom :open_mouth:

lol… wearing female mones, eh?

Ha I am a girl :smiley: So I sure hope so :stuck_out_tongue:

Unless it was your child there are no worries wearing female or mild mones around a 5 month old. Children will sense things about you pheremonally but generally not spend enough time with you to bond that way like they do with parents, siblings and grandparents .

Of course aggressive mones shouldn’t be worn though either way because it just makes them uneasy.

Tisha