Hello everyone! I’m a 39 year old recently divorced mom of one. Gemini, lover of life and all it has to offer - one day I woke up and realized I’d lost my mojo. Not in the divorce but just in everyday life. Between running a business and taking care of the little one I find from time to time I’m not feeling the way I felt “back in the day” – sexy, confident and willing to take a little bit of risk from time to time.
Case in point…today I was in a store and saw a very handsome man having coffee. He saw me walk by and we briefly caught eyes. I was so flustered I just kept walking. Of course I realized “DUMB move” and he probably thinks you are uninterested and alas he went back to reading his paper.
Back in the day I would have flashed him one of my killer smiles and perhaps I would have gotten a date out of it. But my confidence is a bit shaky now and my sexy confident twin is trying to free herself (or at least get out from time to time).
So why am I here?? Well, years ago (when I was single, sexy and super confident – it’s really a mind thing…) I had a little bottle of pheromones that a friend had given me and I guarded that bottle like Fort Knox. Well, one night one of my friends wanted to borrow perfume and the bottle was knocked over…(yeah, she’s still alive today) but doesn’t dare ask to borrow anything.
So I’m thinking perhaps if I find out about pheromones then maybe that will give me the kick I need to get my mojo started up again. So I look forward to educating myself in the forums and meeting some new friends in the process! If anyone has an idea where to start I’d love to hear some suggestions.
Also, I was looking at the fragrances - I like woodsy orientals - any suggestions to which is the best for that category??
For the start, I suggest you start with some social pheromones and Instant Sexiness.
IO will make the men want to talk to you. It will open up and you will enjoy more conversations from men.
IH will make them closer to you. They will talk more personal as they think they know you for long time.
Instant Sexiness makes you sexiew and more attractive. IS A for more dominant and tougher vibe, just like Angelina Jolie. IS B is for more feminine and softer, the Monroe vibe.
If you’re looking for a confidence boost try Instant Shine. It is a social pheromone that makes everyone feel good. It gives you an air of youthful vigor, fun and fresh. It makes people glad to be around you.
Instant Sexiness is a great one to try, one of my favorites. It comes in two formulas, A & B.
IS/a is an alph-female phero that is strong, confident and sexy. When I wear this I feel taller, more in charge, people look for my opinion more, and it is very attractive to men.
IS/b is a softer, more playful, girly kind of sexy.
I can’t wait to make the acquaintance of the confident twin. I’ll bet you’re a lot alike.
Hi melodynoir, you have just made a great introduction!
Not a problem, you are at the right place. The ladies in the forum here will help you out getting back your confidence and sexiness. Though I myself as a guy also have something to recommend:
Check out Instant Sexiness A is great product for getting back your mojo, it gives you a confident sexy female vibe.
Add some IShine to boost you confidence, and making people feel good to be around you.
As James mentioned, social products would be great for helping you in social settings, it helps you to kick start the conversation and keep it flow greatly.
Thanks for the quick replies! Looks like Instant Sexiness A is a starter product for me!! I was just kicking myself most of the day - he was too cute! Oh well, if it’s meant to be then he’ll be there when I get back to the store and then LOOK OUT!
About the scents… Neroli is derived from the orange blossom, it does NOT smell like orange, which is the description. It is musky and lightly floral. I adore it, some women don’t like it at all.
Chocolatini is a heavy, sweet, chocolate fragrance that some find scrumptious, some find it cloying, especially in the heat of summer.
Cookie is a vanilla cookie scent, very sweet.
Grapefruit is exactly that, but it isn’t sharp or bitter smelling, it is sweet and smooth.
They are not fragrances that are available alone, by the bottle.
They are fragrance options that are available when you buy certain pheromones. Not all of them come with a fragrance option, some pheros you take any way you can get them. For others you get a choice.
I am fairly sure that fragrance option is only available in 30ml sizes, too. It’s not something I’ve thought about much, because neroli is the default scent for so many pheros and I really love it.
Yes, I definitely think that sexy, confident twin is trying to come out. It is not a twin but a part of you that has been pushed aside to allow you to take up other responsibility.
It is time you balance of these two sides and find a way to make it work. Realizing why we do certain things and the will to make that change will take things forward.
It is very important for a woman to always feel confident and sexy, kind of like it is very important for a man to feel like he’s in control and that he dominates.
I am confident we can help you get your sexy back.
mom of one. 
Not in the divorce but just in everyday life. Between running a business and taking care of the little one I find from time to time I’m not feeling the way I felt “back in the day” – sexy, confident and willing to take a little bit of risk from time to time.
Oh and that chocolate sounds yummy!!!